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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Stardreamer, if your position is "the dems don't support the issue perfectly, and the Reps are an active enemy of gay rights, so I support neither of them" then you are letting perfect be the enemy of good.
    Its more a case of thinking that if either party completely had its way it would be bad for America. If it makes you feel any better, of the two I currently favor the Democrats more right now than I ever have in my political life. The Republicans right now are getting absolutely nothing from me because the extremists have taken over the party.
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    Now, this I can agree with. Only I don't see it as a reason not to choose among them. I expect the opposition to always be there and provide counterbalance - constructive or (as is the case now) not. I don't see it as a reason to stand outside.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stardreamer View Post
    Its more a case of thinking that if either party completely had its way it would be bad for America.
    I don't think anybody disagrees. The disagreement seems to be over what constitutes fair criticism, and the conflict of interest between the desire to hold public office and best public policy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    Now, this I can agree with. Only I don't see it as a reason not to choose among them. I expect the opposition to always be there and provide counterbalance - constructive or (as is the case now) not. I don't see it as a reason to stand outside.
    Standing outside implies I am not involved, I vote and portion my votes and support where I think it is needed. I will not however simply vote for the Democrats blindly because they are the 'lesser evil'. Are we going to spend the rest of this tread trying to recruit me or psychoanalyze my political views? I sort of thought we were discussing legislation?
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    Quote Originally Posted by JockBoy87 View Post
    I don't think anybody disagrees. The disagreement seems to be over what constitutes fair criticism, and the conflict of interest between the desire to hold public office and best public policy.
    I thought we were discussing the Republican's position on LGBT Rights in the context of a domestic violence bill?
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Which we don't really have people crazy enough to oppose here, so I'd say that discussion is more or less done.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    The entire concept that being an advocate of your own equal rights in society is part of some "ideological litmus test" doesn't say anything about liberal litmus narrowness. It says something about how slantedly ideological Republicans are that they'd call someone a partisan for defending themselves.
    i was specifically speaking to rolyo who as i've pointed out numerous times as poster boy for litmus tests

    as for this "act" i just don't get it

    and i don't see it as anti-gay so much as anti extra regulation

    i love that gay marriage is spreading organicially

    i don't hate all people who oppose gay marriage

    i don't condemn other gays who don't agree with my POV

    many here do

    and it blows on so many levels

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    Which we don't really have people crazy enough to oppose here, so I'd say that discussion is more or less done.
    There is really only one, maybe two truly mind numbed drones on the board, I don't know why some folks keep trying to bait them into defending anything when they really won't debate but just feed out the same talking points over and over. I do my best to provide some devil's advocate discussion and balancing but I can't defend the indefensible. I'm not a social conservative, I'm a Libertarian Conservative so the best I can do is argue from the 'is this really necessary?" position. Its like this subject as someone who values individual freedom over social freedom I would REALLY like to idea that everyone is treated equally under the law therefore special focus in law isn't necessary were TRUE but I'm enough of a realist to know that is not the case.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by chance1 View Post
    and i don't see it as anti-gay so much as anti extra regulation
    I'm sorry, I keep trying to read that sentence, and all I keep seeing is "cop out".
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    Quote Originally Posted by chance1 View Post
    i was specifically speaking to rolyo who as i've pointed out numerous times as poster boy for litmus tests

    as for this "act" i just don't get it

    and i don't see it as anti-gay so much as anti extra regulation

    i love that gay marriage is spreading organicially

    i don't hate all people who oppose gay marriage

    i don't condemn other gays who don't agree with my POV

    many here do

    and it blows on so many levels
    The 'is this really necessary?' argument is a perfectly valid one but as I just said, reality doesn't always live up to our expectations so I can understand why it is necessary sometimes. Is it necessary THIS time? I can't say without taking some time to study the legislation.

    I'm hoping we are getting closer to the tipping point where Social Conservatives will realize the fight isn't winnable and start embracing the alternative argument that in a society where gays are accepted, opposing gay marriage is opening the door to actually supporting 'alternative' marriages which will do far more harm to the institution of marriage than allow gays to marry will. You can phrase support for gay marriage in conservative terms if they really wanted to. It is either that or go for the removing government from marriage position.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    ^ yep ...... it's a loser on so many levels

    reasonability being one
    the shift in people's beliefs - many pro many just don't care
    i can totally understand religious people thing gay is not right, etc. - they just don't have the right to infringe their beliefs on others
    it's really very simple
    and drawing a line in the sand on these issues where the public is becoming more and more liberal or laissez faire is uber dumb politically as well as morally

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by chance1 View Post
    ^ yep ...... it's a loser on so many levels

    reasonability being one
    the shift in people's beliefs - many pro many just don't care
    i can totally understand religious people thing gay is not right, etc. - they just don't have the right to infringe their beliefs on others
    it's really very simple
    and drawing a line in the sand on these issues where the public is becoming more and more liberal or laissez faire is uber dumb politically as well as morally
    Is this a concession that your party's platform is wrong on this issue? Because what you are saying does not reflect the GOP platform.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    ^ it's not my party

    And I have made myself clear on what I think

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    Quote Originally Posted by chance1 View Post
    ^ yep ...... it's a loser on so many levels

    reasonability being one
    the shift in people's beliefs - many pro many just don't care
    i can totally understand religious people thing gay is not right, etc. - they just don't have the right to infringe their beliefs on others
    it's really very simple
    and drawing a line in the sand on these issues where the public is becoming more and more liberal or laissez faire is uber dumb politically as well as morally
    What the 'Defenders of Marriage' need to understand is that Gays are here to stay, that horse has left the barn and isn't returning thanks to the Supreme Court. The 'changing the definition of marriage' argument that if we allow gays to marry it will lead alternative forms of marriage like polygamy and bestiality is also flawed because having been recognized by society, something has to be done to address the legal inequality concerning gay relationships. If you say civil unions is the answer then you are opening the door to other types of 'alternative' marriage. Thus refusing to recognize monogamous gay couples relationships as a marriage is the thing that will open the door to group marriages, etc. IF you REALLY want to defend marriage as it is, you either have to allow gay marriage or remove government from the recognition and approval of marriages all together. The later is not going to happen as much as I might like the libertarian feel of it.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Rexx View Post
    In other words, it's okay to beat up on women if they're lesbians, transgendered, or bisexual. Obviously, if you fall into one of those categories, you're not really a human being.
    Where is this stated exactly?

    The deleted provisions apparently deal with the inclusion of gay as a group that has barriers to aid. It does not appear to allow for violence against anyone. The sexist title aside, the act does little in terms of discriminating against anyone (the bigger issues are with other agencies; the FBI definition of rape, for instance, does not allow for males to victims of the act.)

    The assumption that sexuality will bar an individual from assistance or protection is a false one that is not supported by anything within the act.

    Based on real world data, this really does not appear to be true. Rates of domestic abuse for those in same sex relationships appear to be the same as seen in normal persons (though slightly higher). The issues regarding seeking assistance appear to be more related to social issues for the victims of abuse (dealing with sexuality becoming known mostly) than some systematic denial of service.

    Generally, specific inclusions of the gay in legislation is an indication that society still views non-heterosexuals as being weak and requiring special help from the stronger and better heterosexuals.
    Last edited by itsmejeff; February 23rd, 2013 at 07:31 PM.

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    The assumption that sexuality will bar an individual from assistance or protection is a false one...
    I have just linked a story on the previous page about a lesbian who was denied assistance.

    It is one thing to be openly hostile to the idea of protecting LGBT people from discrimination; it is quite another to deny it happens even when presented with evidence.

    Generally, specific inclusions of the gay in legislation is an indication that society still views non-heterosexuals as being weak and requiring special help from the stronger and better heterosexuals.
    Are we to repeal the Civil Right Act of 1964 because it makes whites appear stronger and better?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JockBoy87 View Post
    I have just linked a story on the previous page about a lesbian who was denied assistance.

    It is one thing to be openly hostile to the idea of protecting LGBT people from discrimination; it is quite another to deny it happens even when presented with evidence.

    Are we to repeal the Civil Right Act of 1964 because it makes whites appear stronger and better?
    One case does not prove a system wide problem. Again, based on published rates of domestic transgression, homosex are not being denied protection. And, based on the writings I have seen be academics, social issues are more to blame for underreporting (just like with violence against males) than claims of institutional homophobia in government agencies.

    The CRAs (all of them) have major issues. There are clear problems with defining which groups are protected while not offering similar protection to others. Paternalism is not good. It is not even respectful. It shows a clear disregard for groups labeled as "minorities." It fosters difference instead of breaking down social constructs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post

    ... underreporting...
    I couldn't have said it better myself. Discrimination cases are not typically fodder for the media.

    Oh that reminds me. We have almost wiped out polio. It is down to 223 reported cases as of last year. Then again, only 1% of infections are symptomatic.

    I appreciate that you belittle discrimination against the LGBT community though. Well done

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    Quote Originally Posted by JockBoy87 View Post
    I appreciate that you belittle discrimination against the LGBT community though. Well done
    I do not belittle anything. I approach problems with logic. Not emotion.

    Your desire to suck dick should have no influence on how the determinations you make regarding issues. Subjectivity is for the intellectually differently advantaged.

    Stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It is not good for you psychologically.

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    I do not belittle anything. I approach problems with logic. Not emotion.
    Except you said discrimination does not happen.

    Then when faced with an example you said that was an exception.

    Except one example in the media no doubt is an example of even more cases, so yes it does happen.

    It seems that you wanted to protect your pride from being proved wrong, and therefore it helped you personally to rhetorically minimize problems we face as a community. Therefore, yes you did belittle.



    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post

    Stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It is not good for you psychologically.
    I think for victims, because they don't have the power to help themselves.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    homosex are not being denied protection.
    Is that a new word for us?

    Are you a gay male?

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    Is that a new word for us?

    Are you a gay male?
    Every post is a brick in the house of doubt.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    ^ trying WAY too hard

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    ^ trying WAY too hard
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Is that a new word for us?

    Are you a gay male?
    Quote Originally Posted by JockBoy87 View Post
    Every post is a brick in the house of doubt.
    Does it even matter? Should my opinion change because of a label?

    When did this gay hive mind nonsense start?

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    Does it even matter? Should my opinion change because of a label?

    When did this gay hive mind nonsense start?
    I just hope from now on this revelation means speculation does not come as a surprise.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    Where is this stated exactly?
    It's implied.


    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    The assumption that sexuality will bar an individual from assistance or protection is a false one that is not supported by anything within the act.
    If sexuality discourages a person from seeking help, or causes an aid worker to treat a potential victim differently, then of course it is a bar to assistance.

    Indeed, it is hard to imagine how sexuality could not be a factor here.


    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    Based on real world data, this really does not appear to be true. Rates of domestic abuse for those in same sex relationships appear to be the same as seen in normal persons (though slightly higher).
    The incidence of violence among gays vs. straights is not the issue.


    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    The issues regarding seeking assistance appear to be more related to social issues for the victims of abuse (dealing with sexuality becoming known mostly) than some systematic denial of service.
    Does that matter?


    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    Generally, specific inclusions of the gay in legislation is an indication that society still views non-heterosexuals as being weak and requiring special help from the stronger and better heterosexuals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    Does it even matter? Should my opinion change because of a label?

    When did this gay hive mind nonsense start?
    Because when you use some odd as hell phrase for gay people like when someone calls us "practicing homosexuals" I question very much if they are, themselves, a gay person. And it matters because if you are here, on a gay forum, discussing gay rights with a faintly negative slant on the topic, and aren't a gay male, you appear to be here with some kind of agenda.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Bottom line..there might be some moderate members of the GOP party but as it stands,it is still the anti gay party,period.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by chance1 View Post
    I support the concept of stopping/preventing/reducing violence against anyone - in this case women

    why do gay/lesbian women need special notation here ?

    what am i missing ?

    women need protection - i get it

    why do diff. types of women need diff. types of protection ?

    please do not respond as if this is anything but a reasonable question or POV
    Hmm, I don't know, everything?

    You've been a member of this community since 2005. You have witnessed countless threads of homosexuals sharing their experiences of being bullied, assaulted, beaten, hated, and discriminated against from strangers, friends, family, and spouses on the basis of their sexual orientation.

    It would be nice, as a fellow homosexual, to have your support sometime. Regardless of politics, when it comes to gay people, we should all be uniting for equal rights and protections under the law. It's not a partisan issue, and the Republican House is repulsive for stripping these provisions from the Violence Against Women Act.
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    Quote Originally Posted by T-Rexx View Post
    It's implied.
    that is not how law works.
    If sexuality discourages a person from seeking help, or causes an aid worker to treat a potential victim differently, then of course it is a bar to assistance.
    The first is a personal problem. The latter would be an issue regarding structure of assistance/protection. The latter is not shown to be a major factor.
    The incidence of violence among gays vs. straights is not the issue.
    It shows that reported incidence (and thus protection and services) are more often utilized.
    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Because when you use some odd as hell phrase for gay people like when someone calls us "practicing homosexuals" I question very much if they are, themselves, a gay person. And it matters because if you are here, on a gay forum, discussing gay rights with a faintly negative slant on the topic, and aren't a gay male, you appear to be here with some kind of agenda.
    Summarized as "if you do not agree with the herd, you need to get out."
    Quote Originally Posted by Just_Believe18 View Post
    It would be nice, as a fellow homosexual, to have your support sometime. Regardless of politics, when it comes to gay people, we should all be uniting for equal rights and protections under the law. It's not a partisan issue, and the Republican House is repulsive for stripping these provisions from the Violence Against Women Act.
    Your entire view is wrong. You are basing everything on sexuality. All other factors are ignored.

    Grow up, sir. Homosex is not a club. There is no "we."

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    that is not how law works.

    The first is a personal problem. The latter would be an issue regarding structure of assistance/protection. The latter is not shown to be a major factor.

    It shows that reported incidence (and thus protection and services) are more often utilized.

    Summarized as "if you do not agree with the herd, you need to get out."

    Your entire view is wrong. You are basing everything on sexuality. All other factors are ignored.

    Grow up, sir. Homosex is not a club. There is no "we."
    Annnnnnd here's the part where you go completely off your rocker, and begin wildly saying that any gay person who shares a belief in gay people's equal rights is all a koolaid drinking herd member.

    You're quite correct. When he said "we" he meant gay men, not non-gay Republican plants who refer to things like our "homosex agenda."
    Last edited by xbuzzerx; February 24th, 2013 at 09:17 AM.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    I don't think anyone is denying that persecution exists against LGBT individuals, the question is whether this specific law requires special focus on the issue and it is not sure that it is. If you can show institutionalized discrimination against that group then most certainly such a focus would be appropriate but in this day and age such institutionalized discrimination is becoming rarer because it draws negative public opinion and controversy when spotlighted by the media. The one example provided is unclear but is just as or more likely to be a personal discrimination on the part of the individual. In my view this matter might be better addressed by wording in the law forbidding discrimination against anyone on factors outside the qualifying criteria for the providing of the service. This serves to protect a larger community than just LGBT individuals while still giving LGBT rights groups some teeth for taking legal action against specific offenders.
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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmejeff View Post
    that is not how law works.
    It is, and often why judges have such a hard time searching for a record to infer meaning from the law.


    Summarized as "if you do not agree with the herd, you need to get out."

    ...
    Grow up, sir. Homosex is not a club. There is no "we."
    At this point it is not even thought by the corpus of this forum that you are gay, and at the very least, it is definite that you are not supportive of causes that benefit this community.

    Furthermore, I concur that the phraseology you use is indicative of someone who not only frequents anti-gay news and opinion sites, but prefers the arguments they present.

    Therefore, the most plausible explanation is that you are a conservative plant here to screw with us for your own amusement.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

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    Annnnnnd here's the part where you go completely off your rocker, and begin wildly saying that any gay person who shares a belief in gay people's equal rights is all a koolaid drinking herd member.

    You're quite correct. When he said "we" he meant gay men, not non-gay Republican plants who refer to things like our "homosex agenda."
    Yes. It's the same old spiteful nonsense... and it seems to indicate some angry bitterness. I can't stand those right wingers who accuse those gay people who are politically left/left leaning as being drones or mindless zombies. It's the same old bullshit that has no resemblance in reality. And in reality who is being the drone?

    We have some here that are simple YES MEN when it comes to anything the republicans and conservatives say. For example: Yes YES YES! They can DO NO WRONG... they may HATE gay people, but I like their "economic viewpoints"... same old type of mindless crap.

    And yes... homosex agenda... non-gay republican plant. You have that absolutely 100% right. I'm just tired of it. It's why I don't come here that often anymore. It's all the same old ranting by the right wingers about how we don't "think for ourselves", while they are perfectly content with being controlled like a cult.
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    At this point it is not even thought by the corpus of this forum that you are gay, and at the very least, it is definite that you are not supportive of causes that benefit this community.

    Furthermore, I concur that the phraseology you use is indicative of someone who not only frequents anti-gay news and opinion sites, but prefers the arguments they present.

    Therefore, the most plausible explanation is that you are a conservative plant here to screw with us for your own amusement.

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    Your desire to suck dick should have no influence on how the determinations you make regarding issues. Subjectivity is for the intellectually differently advantaged.
    Their is more to discrimination , violence or marriage then sucking dick. You ask many married woman who like sucking dick too, but you only applied the terminology to gays. You post a excellent example of the sort of thing a bigot would use as a defense to smear a minority.

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    It is, and often why judges have such a hard time searching for a record to infer meaning from the law.




    At this point it is not even thought by the corpus of this forum that you are gay, and at the very least, it is definite that you are not supportive of causes that benefit this community.

    Furthermore, I concur that the phraseology you use is indicative of someone who not only frequents anti-gay news and opinion sites, but prefers the arguments they present.

    Therefore, the most plausible explanation is that you are a conservative plant here to screw with us for your own amusement.

    I may have been born at night, but I was not born last night.
    I think the idea that Conservatives are so desperate to undermine liberal causes that they are seeding 'plants' into a gay porn website's political forum is rather silly. Aside from that, is there some condition of participation here that you have be gay and supportive of gay rights to participate in this forum? I find forums limited to one sided opinion to be quite boring, part of the reason why I'm usually willing to step in an play devil's advocate when I can at least understand the other side's viewpoint.

    Whether or not he is gay is irrelevant to the discussion, and his points are relevant to the discussion. Whether they are right or wrong is the point of the discussion but if you are unwilling to hold the discussion just because he might be a straight conservative then you have already spoiled any rational debate by making it clear you will attack the messengers you disagree with.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

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    I think the idea that Conservatives are so desperate to undermine liberal causes that they are seeding 'plants' into a gay porn website's political forum is rather silly. Aside from that, is there some condition of participation here that you have be gay and supportive of gay rights to participate in this forum?
    We gays are used to hate, but what we do not like are lies.

    I find forums limited to one sided opinion to be quite boring, part of the reason why I'm usually willing to step in an play devil's advocate when I can at least understand the other side's viewpoint.

    Whether or not he is gay is irrelevant to the discussion, and his points are relevant to the discussion. Whether they are right or wrong is the point of the discussion but if you are unwilling to hold the discussion just because he might be a straight conservative then you have already spoiled any rational debate by making it clear you will attack the messengers you disagree with.
    Your problem is you don't know the difference between neutrality and objectivity.

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    ^ WORD!

    Nobody wants to be slammed with being on "the bandwagon" but that's just a stupid sports analogy that really doesn't apply unless one is only talking about supporting "one team."

    On a Gay Porn discussion forum it's only reasonable that, when it comes to topics like this, that we'd all be on the same page...or "bandwagon."

    But, instead it DEVOLVES (sorry to those who don't accept evolution) into a partisan witch hunt, and everyone ends up talking past each other.

    So as a volunteer Moderator of this forum, where it's clear that I am bias, I prefer that we skip past the Fox/MSNBC News talking points and discuss how these issues effect us personally.

    Otherwise, (and this is me taking off my volunteer moderator / JUB T-shirt) right wing, or left, when it comes to Gay Equality there are quite a few TROLLS who post regularly in this forum.

    In some instances the only reason CE&P exists is so not to interrupt the more pressing topics in Hot Topics.

    Which, btw....

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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by JockBoy87 View Post
    We gays are used to hate, but what we do not like are lies.



    Your problem is you don't know the difference between neutrality and objectivity.
    Perhaps I could learn if there were an example of either in the last few posts but I must admit to failing to find any.

    I thought the one comment suggesting the board filled with right wing rantings amusing, compared to some message boards I've visited this one is clearly a liberal domain. This is really the only political message board I frequent anymore because I feel there is really honest informed discussion here. I would hate to see this become like all the others I've left because they had become so one sided in opinion that any real discussion dissolved in to bashing the offender who had the temerity to disagree right or wrong.

    That being said some of Itsmejeff's responses to being challenged were clearly out of line in reasonable debate, post 69 particularly. But he may just have a temper, something he is not alone with, my advice to him is focus on the subject and ignore the personal. And it is amazing to watch how quickly the wagons circle around the dreaded conservative plant, LOL. However unlike one or two others here who can only spout talking points and cliche's he is actually addressing the subject before things started devolving. Which makes this even more amusing since there have been a few posts lately asking for a Republican defender's response to the subject and now when you think you have one, it all turns into personal bashing and lamenting on the evil conservative plants. One would almost suspect that such posts were not really plea for an opposing viewpoint but bait for a trap.

    Everyone should take a step back and calm it down. You wanted a conservative to debate, be glad you got one that is actually debating and not another drone. Drop the personal unless you really are saying this is a Gay Progressive only board. It which case all of us who aren't gay progressives can just leave and let you'll have a nice quite echo chamber to talk in.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

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    Everyone should take a step back and calm it down. You wanted a conservative to debate, be glad you got one that is actually debating and not another drone. Drop the personal unless you really are saying this is a Gay Progressive only board. It which case all of us who aren't gay progressives can just leave and let you'll have a nice quite echo chamber to talk in.
    No, he's actually right. Certain posters here try to play the neutral ground and they fail miserably at I must add. It's not about making this neutral or objective, but rather looking at intentions. The poster in question seems to be incredibly bitter and defensive... resorting to insults when their argument fails. So I think telling some people here to step back and calm down is misdirected.

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    ^ Thank you.

    Yes that are some opinions expressed here that I personally don't agree with.

    There are some members who post here that I don't think are "conservative plants" but just random internet trolls.

    And there are "regular" posters who post here that do nothing more than to wrap themselves in the opposition (calling them devil's advocates gives them too much credit) that they themselves want to be the "lightening rods" for opposition, while branding everyone else as "percenters" and leaders of "bandwagons."

    Yeah, there are some TROLLS who regularly post in this sub-forum.

    When CE&P works best, it works when all of us can just "put it out there" and then we discuss it.

    Where and when this forum sucks (for all of us), is when avatars try to make it personal between each other.

    Then, as a moderator, it becomes difficult for us to untangle that discussion.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by GiancarloC View Post
    No, he's actually right. Certain posters here try to play the neutral ground and they fail miserably at I must add. It's not about making this neutral or objective, but rather looking at intentions. The poster in question seems to be incredibly bitter and defensive... resorting to insults when their argument fails. So I think telling some people here to step back and calm down is misdirected.
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    Quote Originally Posted by centexfarmer View Post
    Said the kettle to the pot.
    I don't tell anyone to calm down or step back. And I certainly don't do that myself.

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    I am bothered by heterosexuals coming here to bash gay people. I think it should not be allowed. Have all the homophobic notions in the world if you're some self-loathing closet case. I will gladly wipe the floor with you in an argument. But this forum does not need straight 'phobes who come here to bash us with their heteronormative view of what hole we need to crawl back in.

    So, as much as witch hunts have started pissing even me off, I have to ask - itsmejeff, are you gay? I don't give a fuck if you "don't like labels". You know exactly what I mean with that question and so you can answer it, with one word or ten sentences - I don't care, as long as the answer is clear.

    Because if you are not, then what you're doing here is a deliberate attack.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

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    I think the idea that Conservatives are so desperate to undermine liberal causes that they are seeding 'plants' into a gay porn website's political forum is rather silly.
    As silly as claiming God steers hurricanes at gay people?

    As silly as claiming that gay marriage will destroy straight marriage?

    As silly as claiming the military cannot function if it includes out gays?

    As silly as claiming homosexuality can be "cured" with a few re-education seminars?


    If the modern Republican Party has taught us anything, it is that conservatives are bat-sh*t crazy fanatics who will believe anything and do anything to feed their own delusions. They don't accept reason, they don't accept science, they don't accept evidence, they don't accept history, and they don't accept reality.

    All that matters to them are the (usually remarkably bigoted, intolerant, and hateful) pronouncements of a handful of their anointed prophets.

    Modern American conservatism is a remarkably dysfunctional movement. And we are witnesses to that dysfunction in this forum every day.

    That is the reason Republicans in the House have eliminated the LGBT protections from their version of the VAWA. It's not about crafting more reasonable legislation. It's about promoting their particular brand of hatred and intolerance. Conservatives believe that America will be a better place for straight, white, rich, male, Christians if certain minorities are beaten to a pulp.

    I don't happen to share that view.
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    Re: House GOP Strips LGBT Protections from Its Version of Violence Against Women Act

    Quote Originally Posted by Stardreamer View Post
    I think the idea that Conservatives are so desperate to undermine liberal causes that they are seeding 'plants' into a gay porn website's political forum is rather silly.
    You're apparently unaware that this did start happening, for real, and not in some kind of hyper-paranoid conspiracy theory world.

    This isn't about labelling someone a plant to discredit them. As far as I'm concerned Itsmejeff is already discredited because he's unable to defend his positions without beginning to shriek that we're all on a bandwagon or engaging in herdthink. I can't remember if it was bankside or tigersfan who said it -- but they said it incredibly well -- that if you could get 95% of people to agree the sky is blue, that is not proof of people jumping on a bandwagon.

    Coming to a gay forum and expecting there to be a Fox vs. MSN-esque appearance of 50/50 split on the topic of gay rights is ridiculous, someone who thinks or expects that needs a reality readjustment, and someone who is just here to yell at us that we're brainwashed sheep for generally being in unison that we support equal rights for ourselves is here with some agenda other than reasonable discussion.

    I have to agree with Jock on this one, Stardreamer. You engage in the sort of worldview that is totally poisoning public discourse and the information we receive in the mass media-- that worldview being that if we're not giving equal credence and respect to every possible side of every issue, regardless of how facts or reason may vary in their support of each position, we're engaging in "bias" or "closedmindedness." We shouldn't take a position for which there is no reasonable or credible argument as seriously as a position that does.

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    ^^^ This. Being closedminded to alternative viewpoints is incredibly dangerous, but to overcompensate by bending backwards to give every viewpoint equal consideration is pretty much intellectual suicide.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Coming to a gay forum and expecting there to be a Fox vs. MSN-esque appearance of 50/50 split on the topic of gay rights is ridiculous, someone who thinks or expects that needs a reality readjustment, and someone who is just here to yell at us that we're brainwashed sheep for generally being in unison that we support equal rights for ourselves is here with some agenda other than reasonable discussion.
    I think this is a very good summation of the entire page.


    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    ...that worldview being that if we're not giving equal credence and respect to every possible side of every issue, regardless of how facts or reason may vary in their support of each position, we're engaging in "bias" or "closedmindedness."
    Which is why I'm sick of seeing Tony Perkins in the news, because having a bigot on TV is somehow supposed to make them look neutral, when Perkins is neither rational nor honest.

    Favoring objectivity is favoring a side when the other side has nothing to offer, and only in that case is it the same as neutrality.

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