My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now, getting close to five and he's got this one best friend of his that I don't like,and I mean I don't like this person to the point that hearing his name annoys me. The reason why I dislike him is because about 2.5 years ago they met and as time went on they started to grow feelings for each other. Their relationship was unknown to me until my boyfriend told be that he chose me instead of him. Nothing happened sexually, he just told me he started falling in love with him. As you can imagine it was hard news to take, but I thanked him for his honesty and we stayed together but that's when I began to dislike his friend.
After that they didn't talk for about 3 months but then started hanging out together again just being friends. That's pretty much how it's been since then. They hang out a lot and even get into weird arguments, etc. I know my boyfriend and I trust him. They really are just friends even though they go out to dinner all the time etc (almost exactly like a relationship (my boyfriend has boundary issues, but he's trustworthy)). The friend even called my boyfriend babe but I put a stop to that real fast.
But since that time, I've stopped liking his friend. I don't want to see him at all, and it's annoying to hear his name. And yes my boyfriend knows how I feel about him, even his friend knows how I feel about him.
SO the question is:
Am I being wrong to dislike him? I ask this because I just got a lecture from my boyfriend about them being best friends and that I should get over it because he isn't going anywhere. This came up because I didn't want to go dinner with him and his best friend. This isn't the first time either. It just got me feeling like I was crazy for feeling the way I do about his friend. I just need to know what others think because I think I'm reacting normally.