I know they exist, and they are kinds of men I'm attracted too, but the only gay men I ever seem to meet are the 'camp' and flamboyant types of gay men (now this is the part where some people here get greatly offended, fly into a rage, and assume that I must 'hate' feminine gay men-----NO. I do not 'hate' feminine gay men. In fact I respect them for not conforming to what society wants them to be, but I'm also just not attracted to them. I've dated feminine gay men in the past, just to see if I could learn over look their feminine mannerisms and honestly....I felt like I was dating a woman....of which I am not attracted too. I want a guy who has not even a trace of a feminine tone in his voice, dresses casually, doesn't over do it with his hair and combs it to the side or dye it bright colors, no feminine mannerisms at all, etc. I want to say 'straight acting' but we all know what happens when you use that term so I'm not gonna go there.
Do such men exist? I've been told they do but lately I've been feeling so discouraged because such men are so hard to find because they blend in with the straight guys and are usually in the closet and would only ever want to some 'down low' stuff and keep it at that.