Tidy or a messy person. How would you react #9

[blueranger]

Are you a tidy or a messy person? How do you prefer a guy to be?

How would you react if a guy takes you to his room, and it's like this?

[loki81]

I'm a pretty tidy person, but within reason, a little clutter/disorganization doesn't bother me. (I'm far from perfect myself, I've got a bad habit of letting my clean laundry sit around on top of my dresser in stacks)

if it's outright unsanitary (dirty dishes left out for days, food not put away, etc) that might be a different story. I tried dating someone like that once and it was definitely a deal breaker... I'll never forget the time I had dinner at this guy's place and I set my plate on the counter when finished (with some food left on it, but he told me just to leave it there and that he'd clean up afterward). I went back there a week later, and my plate was still in the exact same place, with the food still on it.

of course, that was the same guy who clipped his nails in the living room and swept the clippings into the couch cushions when he was done. he couldn't understand why that grossed me the fuck out, but I could never sit on that couch again.

[Nishin]

Messy ... but trying to control it

[ronboy]

I like neatness, but it's his place...I would just move stuff aside and dive into all that sexiness!

[Audio Tech]

A little messy but not dirty does not bother me. My own house is lived in, but generally clean. Martha Steward doesn't live here but I WORK here.

Now dirty laundry, dinner plates and 6 week old sheets.... umm..... no.

[blackbeltninja]

Untidy... fine. Dirty... not so much, no.

He wins, though, because I see a copy of Gattaca in that stack of DVDs.

-d-

[ElmosToe]

I'd be too distracted by all the DVDs and books. I'd probably ask to borrow a couple.
My next question would be, what bizarre sex toy is he sitting on...

[borg69unimatrix]

This is an unfair question. The guy in the pic could probably get away with just about any thing.

[AshyPhoenix]

I'm incredibly messy. I manage to keep my apartment clean enough that I can get it nice, tidy and clean with about an hour's work in case someone's coming over, but I can't be arsed to clean half the time.

[diamondstar]

Untidy is fine. Dirty is a whole different story

[GiancarloC]

Clean it up. I don't like untidy or dirty apartments/houses. My apartment is always kept clean and I recently revamped my organization (paying a visit to Staples for storage containers with labels). Not that I have much stuff anyways. I have a big aversion to any sort of clutter...

[Hard-up1]

His underwear looks clean and not worn out -- that's worth a lot.

I'm more troubled by his proximity to a book on Glee and another on Lhasa Apsos.

But no, I don't find untidiness to be a concern unless he is nutsy about not letting anyone else straighten up from time to time. If it's like marking his territory, I might take that to heart.

[crimsonpaine]

There is a difference between clutter and dirty. I don't mind clutter since I more or less thrive in controlled chaos, no one seems to understand that. But I'm not dirty. I don't keep garbage around.

But then I have my moments when I just need to be very tidy with everything in it's pace. But it doesn't last very long.

[Pianist]

I have a tendancy to let my room get a little untidy, and I'm a pack-rat when it comes to paper but I can only tolerate it for so long. Right now there's a pile of papers of all sorts on my 'puter desk but it's starting to make me antsy so a purge is coming up.

[loveguys72]

There's a room in that pic?

Are you a tidy or a messy person? How do you prefer a guy to be?

How would you react if a guy takes you to his room, and it's like this?

[JohannBessler]

I couldn't care less about the clutter.

The presence of filth, or especially vermin, is quite a different matter.

[Scealle]

I am tidy but I tend to be lazy. When I am in a bad mood my room looks like a tornado swept through it lol. I clean my room very often but I think I am bad at organizing it. So I wouldn't really mind the mess when I am in a bad mood

Messy does not = clean
I have seen very organized rooms with thick layer of dusts and bugs around.

[GregKII]

Ughhh!!! NO! I would probably leave or make him help me start cleaning. I can't stand a dirty room. I think it comes from being exposed to m mother's overboard perfectionism when I was a child.. that room would make me flip my shit.

[GiancarloC]

I was just browsing on Youtube... feel bad for this guy. Hope he called an attorney. This is hoarding though... it's a whole different level of dirty. As I said, I have a relative that is a hoarder... and it really drives me crazy. We've tried helping him numerous times... and it all fails. It's why I have an aversion to any sort of clutter.

[Scealle]

I was just browsing on Youtube... feel bad for this guy. Hope he called an attorney. This is hoarding though... it's a whole different level of dirty. As I said, I have a relative that is a hoarder... and it really drives me crazy. We've tried helping him numerous times... and it all fails. It's why I have an aversion to any sort of clutter.

Dang that vid's nasty!

My previous housemate like to hoard Ribena Glass bottles. But at least she washes them then put them on a shelf neatly.

[Scealle]

I cannot imagine what type of fleas or mites that live in that thing

[GiancarloC]

Yea, it's pretty gross, especially that bathroom. But such things don't really surprise me. After dealing with a relative that is a hoarder and a few episodes of the TV show hoarders... it doesn't surprise me anymore or shock me...

[teadrinker]

I don't mind a bit of mess or clutter, as long as it's not pathological... but as others have said, dirt, vermin, filth is a no-no.

-T.

[Ryuukie]

If the place looked like that I'd be grossed out. I would probably start making suggestions on how he could organize things.

[ozguy]

How would you react if a guy takes you to his room, and it's like this?

If he looked like that, he could fuck me in a garbage dump and I'd be happy!!

As for me, well I'm a neat freak .... a place for everything and everything in its place at my house!

[EuroSoccer]

Are you a tidy or a messy person? How do you prefer a guy to be?

How would you react if a guy takes you to his room, and it's like this?

I am messy and I like messy guys but not dirty, personal hygiene is important

[EuroSoccer]

Nvm...............double fucking post