A somehow religiuos guy - How would you react #7

[blueranger]

So you're about to have sex with a guy you find very hot, and when you come out from the bathroom you find him lying on a bed doing this. Maybe praying to be forgiven for the sin he's about to commit?

How would you react? Would you still go for it?

[blueranger]

Or would you?

[M10000]

Id say "You be Regan and Ill be mother"

[AshyPhoenix]

I don't care how hot he is, if he's having to break out the rosary and pray to some imaginary friend in order to un-shame himself from having gay sex, I'd be out of there so fast I don't think I'd have time to get dressed.

[Coward92]

I don't care how hot he is, if he's having to break out the rosary and pray to some imaginary friend in order to un-shame himself from having gay sex, I'd be out of there so fast I don't think I'd have time to get dressed.

Nah, you're just saying that

[Corny]

Well .. my body is a temple

[AshyPhoenix]

Nah, you're just saying that

No, I'm not. Any guy who needs to pray away the gay is going to treat me like a piece of meat. I'm a hell of a lot more than that.

[BENDERBOY]

I'd still go for it.

[Hard-up1]

I'd be polite and wait until he finished. If he wanted to discuss it, he would be welcome to it. If not, he was doing it in private before I came across it, so I can't see how it would be my business.

I wouldn't assume it had anything to do with sex. He may simply be in the practice of praying before going to sleep, and a lot of guys zonk out after sex, so it would see perfectly natural to pray then otherwise.

He may be just hoping to get a better pontifex this go-round.

[TheSpectatingLoner]

I don't care how hot he is, if he's having to break out the rosary and pray to some imaginary friend in order to un-shame himself from having gay sex, I'd be out of there so fast I don't think I'd have time to get dressed.

Hahaha.

I was thinking the same, but let's be real... I'd just hit it and not call him.

It'll be easier for God to forgive him after he's cut ties with me.

After all, this is presumably a "sex only" situation. I wouldn't have had any serious thoughts about someone that religious, to begin with.

[Pianist]

I'd dress, and head out to the kitchen to make tea, then find something to watch on TV. He could let himself out.

[borg69unimatrix]

I've had guy's try to keep me away with crosses before... resistance was futile.

He can pray all he wants... assuming everything goes right, he's going to be screaming, "Oh God!" anyway.

[blueranger]

I'd be polite and wait until he finished. If he wanted to discuss it, he would be welcome to it. If not, he was doing it in private before I came across it, so I can't see how it would be my business.

I wouldn't assume it had anything to do with sex. He may simply be in the practice of praying before going to sleep, and a lot of guys zonk out after sex, so it would see perfectly natural to pray then otherwise.

He may be just hoping to get a better pontifex this go-round.

So you would think he's praying before the sex because of the nap or sleep he's going to have after the sex? And you wouldnt think it's because of the gay sex which is an awful sin and abomination according to Church?

[ronboy]

One look at that ass, and I couldn't hold myself back from him.....

Afterwards, I'll say a prayer of thanks with him for having had such great sex!

[jaysizzles]

even though I'm not religious, I'd have no problem screwing around with a guy that was. It would never occur to me that he'd be praying to be forgiven for what he's about to do since he's laying naked in my bed and obviously willing.

[Hard-up1]

So you would think he's praying before the sex because of the nap or sleep he's going to have after the sex? And you wouldnt think it's because of the gay sex which is an awful sin and abomination according to Church? It just escapes logic.

The bolding is mine, but the original quote is yours.


It escapes logic if you don't know any men who are gay and religious, but if you get to define their beliefs into literalism or blind adherence, you would find it illogical.

I wouldn't.

And, contrary to another poster's assumption, there is nothing in the OP to suggest this an NSA encounter. For all I know, the guy could have just as easily been praying for this guy to the "the one."

One of the classic problems in solving a logic problem is to buy into the assumptions that were too-overtly stated in the original question. It would not have occurred to me that the man was asking for forgiveness for sex. That idea was injected by the OP, not my mind, and I would not have concluded so based on such a flimsy premise.

If you would have done so, then that is really what this thread is all about, isn't it, the range of reactions from a range of JUBBERs. We are different men, as should be expected in a global website.

As you ARE the OP, this seems to call into question whether you are seeking real reactions, or simply trying to elicit reactionary responses. So far, you've gotten both.

With the wide range of isms and fetishes and personal habits that one encounters, I find religion to be potentially a lot less of a source of a problem than drug use, mental illness, class self-identification, violent tendencies, lack of education, dishonesty, materialism, obsessive attitudes about fitness or diet, etc.

[blueranger]

The premise is not anymore flimsy, than your premise that he's doing it because he's going to sleep afterwards.

[rareboy]

I'd hit it.

I've known religious catholics who prayed and it wasn't for forgiveness because they were about to suck my cock.

Some people pray for other things....sometimes just for thanks.

You are being pretty presumptuous here.

[jaysizzles]

Some people pray for other things....sometimes just for thanks.

Thanking God for what he is about to receive...amen.

[blueranger]

I'd hit it.

I've known religious catholics who prayed and it wasn't for forgiveness because they were about to suck my cock.

Some people pray for other things....sometimes just for thanks.

You are being pretty presumptuous here.

Having in mind that he's using cross and pontifex, it means he's probably Christian, and the biggest christian Churches consider gay sex - that is about to happen in this situation- an awful sin and aboomination, so it would be logical if he's a christian to be praying to be forgiven for a sin. Though it doesn't have to be the (only) reason.

[Kahaih]

I’m more weirded out by the collection of burial shrouds on the bed.

[OPHELIA_HARDIN]

Id say "You be Regan and Ill be mother"

LOL! "If this bed's rockin', don't bother knockin'"

[rareboy]

Having in mind that he's using cross and pontifex, it means he's probably Christian, and the biggest christian Churches consider gay sex - that is about to happen in this situation- an awful sin and aboomination, so it would be logical if he's a christian to be praying to be forgiven for a sin. Though it doesn't have to be the (only) reason.

Well to begin with, he has to be Catholic, not just Christian if he's saying a Rosary. And Catholics know two things.

There are a thousand sins they should no commit. And.

That they are forgiven for all of them.

So no biggy.

You really shouldn't place such a priori expectations on the pics and scenarios you post.

It ends up making you look like you are trolling for an argument about religion instead of what people would do if they had a guy in their bed saying the rosary.

As for me....if someone wants to pray before they fuck....no problem.

[blueranger]

I put a question mark, I wasnt claiming it has to be like that. It would be my assumption, and it's logical to me, and I explained why. If they are truly Catholic or Orthodox Christians, even if they know they will be forgiven, the declarative essence of that religion is not to do sinful things (and do what's "right"), and gay sex is very despicable and awful and sinful for the Church, it talks about it all the time. So it should be a biggie for them.

[bankside]

I'm ready for whatever kink he has. I'd get out my "Jackhammer Jesus" silicon crucifix dildo.
http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys...ic_dildos.html

[nycguydowntown]

I'd just tell him if he doesn't want his rosary to get sticky--I'd put them in the side drawer.

[Kahaih]

Well to begin with, he has to be Catholic, not just Christian if he's saying a Rosary. And Catholics know two things.

There are a thousand sins they should no commit. And.

That they are forgiven for all of them.

So no biggy.

You really shouldn't place such a priori expectations on the pics and scenarios you post.

It ends up making you look like you are trolling for an argument about religion instead of what people would do if they had a guy in their bed saying the rosary.

As for me....if someone wants to pray before they fuck....no problem.

Doesn’t that only work if they ask for forgiveness after they’ve been naughty?

[Huntneo(PT)]

I'd still have sex with him.

And that is all.

[cityboy-stl]

So you're about to have sex with a guy you find very hot, and when you come out from the bathroom you find him lying on a bed doing this. Maybe praying to be forgiven for the sin he's about to commit?
How would you react? Would you still go for it?

First I think I'd find out exactly what he is praying for. You never know...he could be praying I have a big dick and know how to use it.

[Kahaih]

^Believing in that ‘miracle birth’ stuff, he could be a virgin praying that he doesn’t get knocked up.

[blueranger]

Doesn’t that only work if they ask for forgiveness after they’ve been naughty?

Maybe trying to pray away those sinful thoughts, or for knowing he couldn resist what's going to happen?

[FPNY]

Id fuk him silly....silly i tell ya....

[PreTTy PeTe]

I am nice guy always. Probably hold him a little and then sure made he got home safe even if I had to go with him and back to my place.

[Audio Tech]

So what. I don't care what your beliefs are just as long as you don't try to impose them on me.

Finish your prayer and let's get with it.

[blackbeltninja]

I still would. He's hairier than I usually go for, mind, so for it to have got this far already I must be up for it enough to not let a little unexpected pre-activity put me off.

-d-

[Huntneo(PT)]

Finish your prayer and let's get with it.

LOL! I know right.

[Hard-up1]

The premise is not anymore flimsy, than your premise that he's doing it because he's going to sleep afterwards.

But you see, I didn't have any assumption about his prayer until you posted that you thought it only logical that he was praying about the sex. All I needed to do was to consider it and find some plausible reason why he could be praying on the bed. It didn't require any leap of logic, as many people pray in bed.

The difference is I am not finding what he's doing objectionable and don't really have a compelling need to conclusively guess what he is doing. You do in your scenario, as you find it objectionable.

It has become obvious from your responses to several posters here that you think your understanding of Christianity/Catholicism is definitive, and moreover, that you want your posters in the thread to find offense in the seeming contradiction. To hear you tell it, a religious person never tells a blue joke, and apparently takes vows of chastity in order to be as pristine as you imagine him to be. It's well and good to assume what "they" believe, but it's another thing to be mature and understand that religious adherents are often not strict zealots. That's more of an outsider's perspective than one from within the faith.

People are full of contradictions, although it is not necessary to see this picture as a big example. Christians may swear, not observe religious holidays, etc. It's their business, and doesn't seem to have any impact on me unless the real scenario is that some sort of proselytizing is about to occur, and that wasn't in the OP.

I have a Jewish friend who absents himself to make ritual cleanliness whenever we dine out. I don't dwell on it, nor begrudge him his belief. He also violates kosher readily, but that is against his belief, not mine, so I am not offended by it.

There are more than 1.2 billion Holy Roman Catholics in the world, and they are quite diverse as well as contrasting with the many stripes of Protestant and Orthodox. A quip that illustrates the differing attitudes is the joke about what is the difference between a Methodist and a Baptist. The answer is that Methodists speak when they see one another in the liquor store.

There is plenty of conflict over religion in this world without making up some over some hypothetical picture.

[loveguys72]

My first question would be to ask if I was interrupting. Second question would be to ask if we're still on. If the answers are no and yes respectively, I'd offer up a quick prayer of thanksgiving myself.

Then we have the fun.

[Saybrooke]

Hit'em and quit'em

[blueranger]

But you see, I didn't have any assumption about his prayer until you posted that you thought it only logical that he was praying about the sex.
All I needed to do was to consider it and find some plausible reason why he could be praying on the bed. It didn't require any leap of logic, as many people pray in bed.

I didnt say it was only logical, but I said that it can be. Ofcourse, there might be many reasons why people do stuff, but some reasons can be assumed. And you did have assupmtion before I mentioned anything logical, you told that he's practising prayer maybe because he's going to bed and that that's perfectly natural. I didn't see why it shouldn't be "natural", or requires more "leap of logic" in the same sense to be praying to be forgiven for the sin of having gay sex.

And why do they pray, if you ask them? Because they believe in God, and they wish their sins to be forgiven. And the rosary suggests that is a God depicted by Cathollic church. And Catholich church and majority of catholics consider gay as sinful act. So it is logical that sin of having gay sex be included in the list of the sins to be forgiven during prayer.

The difference is I am not finding what he's doing objectionable and don't really have a compelling need to conclusively guess what he is doing. You do in your scenario, as you find it objectionable.

The reason why he's doing it can be objectionable. So I just find it questionable (in my mind at least). I put a question mark, and didnt say it was a sure fact, but it makes sense as an option.

It has become obvious from your responses to several posters here that you think your understanding of Christianity/Catholicism is definitive, and moreover, that you want your posters in the thread to find offense in the seeming contradiction. To hear you tell it, a religious person never tells a blue joke, and apparently takes vows of chastity in order to be as pristine as you imagine him to be. It's well and good to assume what "they" believe, but it's another thing to be mature and understand that religious adherents are often not strict zealots. That's more of an outsider's perspective than one from within the faith.

My understanding of Catholicism is no more definitive than Catholic's church understanding of Catholicism itself. And Catholic's church condems gay sex as pure evil. And the great majority of Catholics condemn i too. Maybe there are exceptions, but they are only exceptions, so i did put a question mark in OP.

People are full of contradictions, although it is not necessary to see this picture as a big example. Christians may swear, not observe religious holidays, etc. It's their business, and doesn't seem to have any impact on me unless the real scenario is that some sort of proselytizing is about to occur, and that wasn't in the OP. I have a Jewish friend who absents himself to make ritual cleanliness whenever we dine out. I don't dwell on it, nor begrudge him his belief. He also violates kosher readily, but that is against his belief, not mine, so I am not offended by it.

There are more than 1.2 billion Holy Roman Catholics in the world, and they are quite diverse as well as contrasting with the many stripes of Protestant and Orthodox. A quip that illustrates the differing attitudes is the joke about what is the difference between a Methodist and a Baptist. The answer is that Methodists speak when they see one another in the liquor store.

There is plenty of conflict over religion in this world without making up some over some hypothetical picture.

Catholic church and catholicism interpretation of most of the catholics don't just mind their own business, and I don't mean proselytizing necessarily. Catholic church is spreading hatred against gay people, most of the Catholics don't want gays to have equal rights, they tell gay sex or relationship are a sin. And still, no proselytizing of gay people there.

[oakpope]

I put a question mark, I wasnt claiming it has to be like that. It would be my assumption, and it's logical to me, and I explained why. If they are truly Catholic or Orthodox Christians, even if they know they will be forgiven, the declarative essence of that religion is not to do sinful things (and do what's "right"), and gay sex is very despicable and awful and sinful for the Church, it talks about it all the time. So it should be a biggie for them.

I'm Catholic. And gay sex is absolutely not an awful or despicable act. Belonging to a Church doesn't remove the brain from the skull. I disagree on some matter with the authority, and in the case of homosexuality I am convinced I'm right and the pope is wrong.

There is far far more texts about love than text against same sex acts in the Bible. Far. Far. And none in the New Testament.

I would find a man praying with a rosary very sexy in fact. And I pray every night, certainly not for being gay, I thank God for Love and Life.

[Telstra]

What would i do?

I would let him pray as long as he like.
But during his prayer, my hands would be touching his body everywhere, no big deal.
Oh and also i would be on top of him touching his ears, neck and chest ...

[oakpope]

And Catholich church and majority of catholics consider gay as sinful act.

You would be mistaken. American Catholics are more in favor of same sex marriage for example than white protestant.

[blueranger]

I'm Catholic. And gay sex is absolutely not an awful or despicable act. Belonging to a Church doesn't remove the brain from the skull. I disagree on some matter with the authority, and in the case of homosexuality I am convinced I'm right and the pope is wrong. There is far far more texts about love than text against same sex acts in the Bible. Far. Far. And none in the New Testament. I would find a man praying with a rosary very sexy in fact. And I pray every night, certainly not for being gay, I thank God for Love and Life.

That's nice you dont find it a sin, but your Church still does (and majority of Catholics around world). I guess the situation in US is different than in Europe where I'm from. I looked into some research and I'm glad something is changing. But still, the Church is one of the loudest speakers against gay rights.

[CupidBoy]

No, but not because he's praying, because his ass is too hairy.

[rareboy]

That's nice you dont find it a sin, but your Church still does (and majority of Catholics around world). I guess the situation in US is different than in Europe where I'm from. I looked into some research and I'm glad something is changing. But still, the Church is one of the loudest speakers against gay rights.

You know, the more you write, the more you end up looking like all you were doing was making a baiting, troll thread designed to provoke an argument about religion. It is clear that you don't really understand Catholicism or even the act of saying the rosary. You should stick to your other fetishist threads on guys on the beach or with bananas and stay away from subjects like faith and prayer.

Just sayin'.

[blueranger]

You know, the more you write, the more you end up looking like all you were doing was making a baiting, troll thread designed to provoke an argument about religion. It is clear that you don't really understand Catholicism or even the act of saying the rosary. You should stick to your other fetishist threads on guys on the beach or with bananas and stay away from subjects like faith and prayer.

Just sayin'.

I dont need to provoke argument about religion. And religion is a very very broad term. I'always try to accept good arguments based on facts. And the fact is : the Catholic church and majority of catholics in the world consider gay sex to be a sin. But not all of them, ofcourse. If someone points out that I'm wrong about something, I would gladly accept if it's relevant. I am not saying that I know everything on this planet, and I'm certainly willing to learn, and change my opinion if someone gives me strong arguments. But "stick to your other fetishist threads on guys on the beach or with bananas and stay away from subjects like faith and prayer." is certainly not an argument of any value of relevance.

[gsdx]

I dont need to provoke argument about religion.

Perhaps not, but I heartily recommend that you review the Code of Conduct and its section on the types of photos you can post in Hot Topics. There is a forum where your photos are welcome and, perhaps, even appreciated. Hot Topics isn't the forum.

[blueranger]

As far as I recall, the photos of frontal nudity are not allowed.

So let me rephrase the OP question: How would you react if he told you he was praying to be forgiven for the sin of having gay sex with you?

[Telstra]

You know, the more you write, the more you end up looking like all you were doing was making a baiting, troll thread designed to provoke an argument about religion. It is clear that you don't really understand Catholicism or even the act of saying the rosary. You should stick to your other fetishist threads on guys on the beach or with bananas and stay away from subjects like faith and prayer.

Just sayin'.

I am laughing at you pounding on afew guys on JUB.
Lucky i'm not at the receiving end.