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    What's wrong with me?

    At the late age of 29, I've finally started to explore my sexual needs for real when I finally had sex with one really cute guy that I have been in contact with for 2 years. We met twice within the span of 1 month but the problem was that during our sexual encounter (which involved me fucking him), it seems that I am unable to cum at all

    I personally thought that maybe because I was nervous and it was mostly my first/second sexual experiences that I only came once I was back at home while thinking back at what happened between us.

    Today, I had an encounter with another guy, also just about as cute as I could possibly imagine. This time, it took us almost 3 hours with me just being able to get close but not cumming at all. Same thing happened when I got home, I came within minutes just thinking about him face-fucking me with his nice tool

    So I'm wondering, my dick obviously work but not while actually having sex. Is it a performance anxiety thing? or is it because I'm just really still inexperienced? or maybe I'm just too used at doing it at my desk/bathroom by myself on a specific sitting position? What is wrong with me?

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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    You answered your own question, in my opinion. If I had to guess I'd say it's performance anxiety coupled with your routine and technique when masturbating. If you plan on seeing either of these guys give yourself a few days without masturbating and I'll bet the problem will be solved.
    Last edited by Seasoned; February 16th, 2013 at 10:36 PM.
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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    Stop worrying about whether or not you cum. For at least some bottoms, premature ejaculation is a lot more irritating than someone taking too long to shoot. If you can set off your date a few times before you have finished, he will probably follow you around like a suck-egg pup. Concentrate on your date's pleasure, and let nature take care of the rest.

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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    thanks for the advice, i did concentrate on my date's pleasure most of the time altho it is kinda embarassing that i can't get off with someone that i find to be really hot. i'll try to hold off for a week like season said.

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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    I bet it will get better for you. Good luck!
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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    Umm... maybe you aren't really there. Are you?

    Are you really there?

    Perfect, is pretty, seductutive, sweat, but... not erotic.

    Do you really want to touch and be touched by random?


    Is he not random? OK, forgive and forget.


    Random is... not HOT to me.

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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    Also when somebody does his 1st sex at the age of 29, it means that he has been masturbating for almost 13~14 years. This long period is more than enough to attach your body perfectly to be able enjoy from masturbation. Switching from that well-established pattern to another one (having sex!) needs a little time and mental preparation.
    Cheers!

    Quote Originally Posted by tylerhart View Post
    At the late age of 29, I've finally started to explore my sexual needs for real when I finally had sex with one really cute guy that I have been in contact with for 2 years. We met twice within the span of 1 month but the problem was that during our sexual encounter (which involved me fucking him), it seems that I am unable to cum at all

    I personally thought that maybe because I was nervous and it was mostly my first/second sexual experiences that I only came once I was back at home while thinking back at what happened between us.

    Today, I had an encounter with another guy, also just about as cute as I could possibly imagine. This time, it took us almost 3 hours with me just being able to get close but not cumming at all. Same thing happened when I got home, I came within minutes just thinking about him face-fucking me with his nice tool

    So I'm wondering, my dick obviously work but not while actually having sex. Is it a performance anxiety thing? or is it because I'm just really still inexperienced? or maybe I'm just too used at doing it at my desk/bathroom by myself on a specific sitting position? What is wrong with me?

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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    Quote Originally Posted by tylerhart View Post
    At the late age of 29, I've finally started to explore my sexual needs for real when I finally had sex with one really cute guy that I have been in contact with for 2 years. We met twice within the span of 1 month but the problem was that during our sexual encounter (which involved me fucking him), it seems that I am unable to cum at all

    I personally thought that maybe because I was nervous and it was mostly my first/second sexual experiences that I only came once I was back at home while thinking back at what happened between us.

    Today, I had an encounter with another guy, also just about as cute as I could possibly imagine. This time, it took us almost 3 hours with me just being able to get close but not cumming at all. Same thing happened when I got home, I came within minutes just thinking about him face-fucking me with his nice tool

    So I'm wondering, my dick obviously work but not while actually having sex. Is it a performance anxiety thing? or is it because I'm just really still inexperienced? or maybe I'm just too used at doing it at my desk/bathroom by myself on a specific sitting position? What is wrong with me?
    On the bright side, if you ever thought of a career in porn, you're set.

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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    It will get better sooner or later.

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    Re: What's wrong with me?

    Just be patient. It will come.

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