by this i mean, how does one know when they're being sensibly and fairly turning someone down as opposed to just being picky and superficial?
i dont know if im saying this right... i had the idea right in my head but its hard to get out here.
basically, i feel too superficial and picky at times when it comes to potential interests. on one hand, i hope thats not the case because i want to be fair and give chances, but on the other, what am i supposed to do if im not attracted to said person, in that way? or theres not enough attraction? is it possible to be somewhere in between?
any advice/ experience(s) are welcome... or just random talk i suppose is fine. whatever :P