Does seeing straight/masculine dudes cry make you hard?

[bladerunner]

I've always found it to be extremely hot seeing straight/masculine guys cry (or get teary), to the point that I would get hard......

One example is this video of basketball player Meyers Leonard.


Does anyone else feel the same way?

[LatinJay]

I'm gonna have to say no.

Seems like an odd reaction, but it sort of makes sense. I'm guessing it likely has something to do with the display of vulnerability, or the "softness". Like, the guard is down and they are exposed somehow. Interesting.

[HunterM]

Uh..........NO!

If a masculine man is crying and sucking my cock, then YES, it gets me hard every time!

If turns you on, more power to ya man.

[BENDERBOY]

The soldiers ears made me hard.

[jensu846]

hard? no. that made me sad tho. Seeing straight guys cry makes me cry easier than seeing a big ol queen cry.

[tomhrdhat]

I'm very masculine and can't imagine myself crying in front of anyone (not even at funerals). That's just not in my playbook.

[dangerguy]

Hard? No. But I do find it strangely endearing/attractive. Well, on movies and TV anyway. Dunno if I'd feel the same seeing it in real life lol.

[fundavid101]

I had a boner...until I watched that. Now a solo jack off video of the ball player???? Hell yes.

[blackbeltninja]

No. I don't find that type of vulnerability to be a turn-on.

Not that it's a turn off, per se, but I'm certainly not going to get off from it.

-d-

[andyspete]

I don't get a hard on but I do find myself attracted to a tenderhearted guy who will cry on occasion.

[Kyanimal]

As GUYS, in cultures all over the World, we are taught/coerced, from birth, that Controlling our Natural emotions is the MASCULINE thing to do! Show NO vulnerability or it will lead to your Demise!

SO ... When we Do see another Dude, especially if he's SO Male, tearing up, or showing his "Softness", just like what is in ALL of Us, not only can we Relate, butt we can also be a bit overwhelmed by such a display because we don't see it that often, even though it is an Intimate part of ALL of Us!

It touches a part of our own Hearts. It reminds us of our own Humanity. And, as anything that we're "Forbidden", it can also appeal to our Libido!

It's all a bit of a conundrum when we take the time to actually Think about it!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz