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    How do you deal with people you donít like?

    When meeting in person?
    I couldn't get my mind off you all day.
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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    Depends on the situation.

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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    With disarming politeness. I tend to want everyone to like ME in real life ^_^

    That, or I just act super cold and kind of ignore them.
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    ^lol I thought I was the only one
    When I dislike someone I tend to be more and more polite with her/him
    And in the end I'm icy cold.
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    I am terrible at poker.

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    Ignore them totally

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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    I spent my life dealing with fucktards

    and now that I can do what I want. I ignore them or if they are in my way when I'm trying to do something I tell them to shut up and get the fuck out of my way.

    they are bullies but really cowards.




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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    I have a psychological test to konw are u a popular person

    Q: If you break up with your bf/gf , how would u dispose the Teddy bear your ex sended to you?

    A. Burn it B. Re-gift it to others C.Throw it into bin on the street D. Sell it on secondary market


    Anyone wanna try?

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    If it's former bf's/fucks/wotever then just twats...fock 'em...just fock 'em.....

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    I just don't have it in me to be abrupt or disrespectful, so I tend to treat them as I would any other person. The only real difference is that my curiosity is feigned, so naturally lesser. I might be thinking "Christ, you're annoying", but I will always smile and be courteous. It's a little dishonest, I suppose, but I much prefer that to the alternative of making a person's day worse by subjecting them to unnecessary rudeness, especially if their only crime is having a personality I find to be grating.

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    I ignore them as much as possible, and try to remain somewhat civil if they want me to acknowledge them.

    Depends how they are acting really. Nobody really goes out of their way to be hostile to me. Mostly its general petty behavior. I'm pretty good about giving the 'fuck off and die' look when this situation arises..

    And I would probably return the teddy bear. leave it on their front porch or something.

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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    Quote Originally Posted by derelictdarrel View Post
    I ignore them as much as possible, and try to remain somewhat civil if they want me to acknowledge them.

    Depends how they are acting really. Nobody really goes out of their way to be hostile to me. Mostly its general petty behavior. I'm pretty good about giving the 'fuck off and die' look when this situation arises..

    And I would probably return the teddy bear. leave it on their front porch or something.
    If that's you in the avatar then yeah....your fuck off and die look would work!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    If that's you in the avatar then yeah....your fuck off and die look would work!
    If I'm anything like the character in my avatar, they should consider themselves lucky lol

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    LIke this


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    I'll be a lil less attentive

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    It depends on why I don't like them.

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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    Hire body guards?
    wait fa UN fins their tea ans cookys?

    anyway

    sure world leadurs figa it out

    thankyou
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    Just see how I deal with buzzer.
    Pretty much re-watch the youtube I posted and that's my face everytime Kien's mouth opens.

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    Easy



    Last edited by HunterM; February 10th, 2013 at 01:21 AM.

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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    It depends on the situation. Usually I just try to be nice to them, or I just ignore them and only speak to them if I have to.
    There's my boss (who's the biggest asshole on earth), who can't know how I feel for obvious reasons. I just try to avoid him.
    Then there's my friend's sister... she's a stuck up bitch. I just ignore her when she's being bitchy. She obviously hates me too, but sometimes she tries to be nice, so I just return the favour.

    [EDIT] OOOOOH when meeting someone from online in person! I see.
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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    Quote Originally Posted by littledaisy View Post
    I have a psychological test to konw are u a popular person

    Q: If you break up with your bf/gf , how would u dispose the Teddy bear your ex sended to you?

    A. Burn it B. Re-gift it to others C.Throw it into bin on the street D. Sell it on secondary market


    Anyone wanna try?
    None of the above. I keep it. It's mine. xD
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    You friendzone them right away. ...or make excuses to gtfo.
    You're not a god. You're a serial killer. No more, no less.

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    Depends. At work I'll be professional but aloof. In my private life I avoid people I don't like. On JUB, I stick 'em on ignore.

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    If it's business, I have to put my feelings aside and get the work done. Personal, I see no need to act cordial towards them. I will let them know I do not like them and keep it moving. Also Action do speak louder than words, I can ignore them too.
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    I am civil and cordial with them, they prolly don't even know I don't like them.
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    I fart in their general direction.....
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    LOL well since FPNY beat me to my first inclination i will have to say being short.

    I am not rude. I just don't add to the conversation. One word answers. And i will end the convo if they dont get the hint.

    "Yep"

    "Nope"

    "Okay, well I am busy"

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    "Yeah I see, ok well bye"
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    Quote Originally Posted by JWaggy View Post
    No decapitations
    No angry scowls
    No growling
    No hissing
    No abrupt mid-conversation walk off

    DISAPPOINT.

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    I'm polite, and I just minimize our exposure. No drama, I'm afraid, but I'm trying to make it easy for me rather than entertaining for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FPNY View Post
    I fart in their general direction.....
    Like the Monty Python reference.


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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    really don't care enough to go out my way to let somebody know that i don't like them to tell you the truth like what anders said. not going to make a big fuss out of it or whatever. i just treat them like everybody else and keep it moving BUT i will say something if they really piss me off. otherwise, i don't give a shit.
    Last edited by refujiunderground; February 10th, 2013 at 10:43 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    No decapitations
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    No abrupt mid-conversation walk off

    DISAPPOINT.
    Must it always be about sex with you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Must it always be about sex with you?

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    Lemme think about it...




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    I usually try to ignore them. Don't want to cause trouble. I won't fake pretend to be nice to you though. I am not a faker.

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    Like strawberries and cream
    Its the only way to be




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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Lemme think about it...




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    ...excellent.

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    Thanks everyone.
    I couldn't get my mind off you all day.
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    I was getting ready to come in here and read thinking the topic was about people in this forum.


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    I've been on an ignore streak here because I got fed up with some people's egos and one-dimensional behaviors that boarder on trolling.

    I'm typically not a confrontational person. I usually try to defuse a quagmire as soon as one arises [although dealing with a drug-addled person is a different story]. In person, I am not gonna bullshit you if you ask for advice. This is what causes people to have a love-hate relationship with me personally because they are not ones to handle reality. They come around eventually if my advice was adherent to their situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    ha. it's a lot easier to ignore people on forums than IRL.

    I've only got one person on my ignore list, but there are several on my "do not engage" list.

    I guess maybe that's similar to real life too... I'm not a terribly argumentative person, so when I encounter someone who's always looking for a fight and will never admit to being wrong, I generally just smile and nod and refuse to engage them.
    I darn near added one toewad to my iggy list today but "he's not worth it"...only one is on my list and he will be on that forever.




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    Re: How do you deal with people you donít like?

    Quote Originally Posted by unloadonme View Post
    Depends. At work I'll be professional but aloof. In my private life I avoid people I don't like. On JUB, I stick 'em on ignore.
    Sensible.... but in business doesn't being aloof cause problems?

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    Quote Originally Posted by derelictdarrel View Post
    If I'm anything like the character in my avatar, they should consider themselves lucky lol
    OK...that's a bit of a worry...a hyena comes to mind...

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