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    Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    I'm a married guy who goes to the gym regularly. I've always noticed some pretty hot guys working out and have always wondered if any of them are gay or bi and interested in hooking up. I'm not sure how to approach guys to see if there is mutual interest. Are there any particular "signs" or "looks" that men have who are looking for hookups. I've brushed my penis a couple of times while a guy was looking at me, but don't know if I'm setting myself up for a hookup or a beat down. Any comments are welcome, and yes, I know one sign would be a massive hard on....lol...I'm looking for more subtle signs....

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    Good luck. I have found in non-gym settings getting a conversation about jerking off going some how. Initial approaches should be made so it can come off as a joke.

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    Unless you are at a gym in the heart of a gay community, I'd refrain from trying to hook up at the gym. It's very nuanced and can be extremely awkward if you make a mistake in judgement.

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    sauna is the best place. If a guy strarts touching his cock touch yours too.
    Holy Prostate Exam Batman! That was AMAZING!!

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    Ever try just talking to some regular dudes you see?
    For example if one of them finishes their workout at the same time you do and you both end up in the locker room showering and changing, strike up a conversation about something. The conversation would be while you are showering and changing, you'd be surprised how many straight dudes will openly stare at your cock if you are having a conversation with them while naked. If you get onto a topic like sports or investing or something you are both really interested in and you find you click well, it may open the door for a possible friend with benefits, you may decide to go for a jog together at the park and find some secluded area somewhere...your mind can finish the rest.

    Another thing to look out for with the friend who you may find staring at your cock in the locker room is if he starts talking to you about his sex life with his wife or girlfriend, how he doesn't seem to be getting as hard as he used to when they were first together. Comments or gestures like these may be clues that he could be interested in wanting to mess around with you.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    The closest I ever got to giving a blow job was when a good friend of mine complained his wife wouldn't suck his dick any more. We were watching some porn and both hard and I said to him "You need your cock sucked?" He didn't say anything and I didn't push because he worked for me at the time. So we went back to watching the porn. I know we would have traded blow jobs because my wife at the time, wasn't giving me any blowjobs either.

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    be careful

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    Divorce your wife, or tell your wife that you are cheating on her with men at the gym, and say the sex is sooo much hotter because they have big huge cocks, and big huge cocks are what you really desire. Not some woman with a vagina. That way hopefully, by the good grace of GOD she will divorce you. After all, that is what you truly want,isn't it? Good luck.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    @ Medusa

    These forums exist for Straight and bi-sexual men to discuss issues and to ask questions. Not for women with an axe to grind to go barking after them.

    We do not know all the circumstances of the OP's marriage, or whether he is, in fact cheating on his wife.

    He does not have to tell her that the sex is so much hotter; quite possibly, he enjoys sex with men and women equally.

    Certainly, if the OP feels that he is a partner in a sham marriage and that he is betraying his wife, he should be honest with her and tell her that he needs something that he cannot get only from her.

    But we don't know any of that from what the OP wrote.

    So save the snarling and nasty tone.

    OK?

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    Quote Originally Posted by rosemont36 View Post
    I'm a married guy who goes to the gym regularly. I've always noticed some pretty hot guys working out and have always wondered if any of them are gay or bi and interested in hooking up. I'm not sure how to approach guys to see if there is mutual interest. Are there any particular "signs" or "looks" that men have who are looking for hookups. I've brushed my penis a couple of times while a guy was looking at me, but don't know if I'm setting myself up for a hookup or a beat down. Any comments are welcome, and yes, I know one sign would be a massive hard on....lol...I'm looking for more subtle signs....
    If you're married and looking for a hookup outside your marriage I'd suggest you and your spouse try to hookup with a marriage counselor.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Springer View Post
    If you're married and looking for a hookup outside your marriage I'd suggest you and your spouse try to hookup with a marriage counselor.
    Thanks. It looks like you are the only one with some sense here. He can either do that, or get a divorce.If I was was his wife,and even if her entertained the thought of cheating me with another man I would divorce his ass ASAP, and go out fuck a good looking straight man, that loves yo do oral on a woman

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    That last post made my fucking head hurt.

    If you're not assertive enough to get out of a marriage with a woman while looking for a man, then there's no way you'll be subtle enough to get stranger sex. I suggest you stick to CL and cruising spots where the rest of your ilk hang.

    I'd also retort that if his wife allowed/encouraged it, he wouldn't have to try and get clandestine gym sex.

    There's refraining from judgment and then there's calling a spade a spade for the sake of all involved.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    A gym is a bad place for trying to explore, unless it is a gay gym. If you make a mistake you will create a scene and probably get barred. For that reason the gay guys are unlikely to approach.
    Try a gay bar.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedavo View Post
    That last post made my fucking head hurt.

    If you're not assertive enough to get out of a marriage with a woman while looking for a man, then there's no way you'll be subtle enough to get stranger sex. I suggest you stick to CL and cruising spots where the rest of your ilk hang.

    I'd also retort that if his wife allowed/encouraged it, he wouldn't have to try and get clandestine gym sex.

    There's refraining from judgment and then there's calling a spade a spade for the sake of all involved.
    Refraining from judgement? I don't see any restraint in your post at all.

    There are an unfortunate amount of trolls that have jumped in here to further their own cause. How about we get back on track for some constructive discussion?

    To the OP: It was mentioned before, but I will reiterate. Just talk to people. You will know soon enough if something clicks for you and them. Some people are overtly cruisy, so there's not much to be said there regarding transparency. I would caution against the REALLY evident cruisers though, but that's just me.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    How old are you? Signs? Looks? A gym isn't like the high school locker room. If you are interested in a guy talk to him. Getting a musclehead to talk about his body is a no-brainer. It doesn't really matter if he is gay or not. If you get into a coterie of guys you can find a guy to do something with I'm sure. Gay gyms are horrors. I wouldn't suggest that or the bars, not if you're married or want to remain disease free.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    Quote Originally Posted by Durango95 View Post
    How old are you? Signs? Looks? A gym isn't like the high school locker room. If you are interested in a guy talk to him. Getting a musclehead to talk about his body is a no-brainer. It doesn't really matter if he is gay or not. If you get into a coterie of guys you can find a guy to do something with I'm sure. Gay gyms are horrors. I wouldn't suggest that or the bars, not if you're married or want to remain disease free.
    Unfortunately its a sad truth. Gay gyms are full of the exhibitionists that don't hide behind their Squirt or Adam4Adam accounts, but don't want to be seen at a bathhouse. That said, they end up intermingling with the bathhouse/tearoom/backroom video store crowd. That is why I was advising against the blatant cruisers in a regular gym. Its the previously mentioned crowd trying to score in a mainstream gym.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    ...you essentially said the same thing I did, except you condone it. That's the only difference. I even admitted to being judgmental because there's cattyness and then there's truth.

    Oh and let's not touch the irony of accusing people of trolling when talking about someone looking for gay sex in a locker room. That's the highest form of trolling IRL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    Thanks. It looks like you are the only one with some sense here. He can either do that, or get a divorce.If I was was his wife,and even if her entertained the thought of cheating me with another man I would divorce his ass ASAP, and go out fuck a good looking straight man, that loves yo do oral on a woman
    We understand that you have some axe to grind and are looking for some guy to munch your rug....but once again, please don't assume that he is actually cheating on his wife unless he admits this.

    And just fucking stop it.

    You and the Springers of the world can spend all your time in thread after thread here accusing every bi guy of atrocious behaviour and cheating, but the fact is you don't have a fucking clue about the relationships they have with the wives or girlfriends.

    There isn't one guy here who gives a shit about what you would do or who you would fuck. Your own wretched life is of zero interest to the homos and the bi-sexual men who hang out here.

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    Medusa...not all of us believe your man made fairy tale BULLSHIT 'God'...so keep your God in your homophobic black church where it belongs. And stop selling drugs to people on the streets, and stop your under ground dog fighting.

    P.S~ To all posters here...Medusa is a known homophobe who has been banned repeatedly on here. WHY Justusboys enables the cunt to continue posting is what is puzzling many of us, but we'll get tot he bottom of it.

    Meanwhile, I've got a straight man I'm proudly going to have sex with in an hour....and Medusa, I'll eb thinking of YOU and how much that angers you the whole time. And yes, we are proudly taking away your men. C u next tuesday (without a man)

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    I am in the same positon, when I work-out, if I see a guy looking my way, I smile or give a nod of the head, ask about any routines he does for arms or legs, maybe that will get the conversation going, I stay away rom sex talk until I know him better, sometimes being friendly with everyone, they will find you. Good Luck and don't give up

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    We understand that you have some axe to grind and are looking for some guy to munch your rug....but once again, please don't assume that he is actually cheating on his wife unless he admits this.

    And just fucking stop it.

    You and the Springers of the world can spend all your time in thread after thread here accusing every bi guy of atrocious behaviour and cheating, but the fact is you don't have a fucking clue about the relationships they have with the wives or girlfriends.

    There isn't one guy here who gives a shit about what you would do or who you would fuck. Your own wretched life is of zero interest to the homos and the bi-sexual men who hang out here.
    Why do you post here rareboy if you don't give a fuck about anyone and what they do. That's being hypocritical to your own twisted views on relationships.

    Cheating is never a good thing. The OP expressed that he wanted to cheat.

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Springer View Post
    Why do you post here rareboy if you don't give a fuck about anyone and what they do. That's being hypocritical to your own twisted views on relationships.

    Cheating is never a good thing. The OP expressed that he wanted to cheat.
    There are a 1001 reasons why someone would want to go outside of their relationship. Speaking in absolutes isn't a good way to go about life, and limits your understanding of others. You aren't walking in this guys shoes, or anyone else's aside from your own. Bringing judgement here just underlines your ignorance and intolerance. It's nonconstructive.

    I know many people that go outside of their marriage for one reason or another. Some of them I disagree with, but its not my place to wag a finger at them. How does that help? I also know people that live very closeted lives due to work and family pressures and expectations. Other people I know got married early, have kids and love their family dearly then came out much later in life. There are many reasons why someone would go outside of their marriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Halifaxboy8 View Post
    There are a 1001 reasons why someone would want to go outside of their relationship. Speaking in absolutes isn't a good way to go about life, and limits your understanding of others. You aren't walking in this guys shoes, or anyone else's aside from your own. Bringing judgement here just underlines your ignorance and intolerance. It's nonconstructive.

    I know many people that go outside of their marriage for one reason or another. Some of them I disagree with, but its not my place to wag a finger at them. How does that help? I also know people that live very closeted lives due to work and family pressures and expectations. Other people I know got married early, have kids and love their family dearly then came out much later in life. There are many reasons why someone would go outside of their marriage.

    Just because there are many reasons to go outside a marriage, and cheat does not make it right. It still is wrong. I wonder how would the OP feel if his wife was cheating on him? Maybe she should go, and hook up with men, and other women cause apparently he is not satisfied with her.And she should know that. Look OP. if you have the balls to go fuck a man behind your wife's back, then you should grow another pair of balls, look your wife dead in her face, and tell that she's has a vagina, you are no longer attracted to vaginas, women disgust you, and then serve her divorce papers. Stop being a little boy grow up, be a gay man tell your wife, and start filing for divorce papers

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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

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    I want to read more about
    "guy looking for tips in gym hookups"


    Stop the "don't cheat" advice bullshit. The OP didn't ask for that advice.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DreamDancer310 View Post
    so keep your God in your homophobic black church where it belongs. And stop selling drugs to people on the streets, and stop your under ground dog fighting.
    She's DMX?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Springer View Post
    Why do you post here rareboy if you don't give a fuck about anyone and what they do. That's being hypocritical to your own twisted views on relationships.

    Cheating is never a good thing. The OP expressed that he wanted to cheat.
    No. You and your new BF Medusa are the ones who have it wrong.

    This forum and this thread aren't about you two coming in here and moralizing or chastising the OP and giving him marriage advice.

    You don't know Jack shit about him or his marriage.

    If you don't want to stick to the point of the thread, then you are the ones that should butt the fuck out.

    Okay?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
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    "guy looking for tips in gym hookups"


    Stop the "don't cheat" advice bullshit. The OP didn't ask for that advice.
    "any comments are welcome" ... I guess you missed that part.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    No. You and your new BF Medusa are the ones who have it wrong.

    This forum and this thread aren't about you two coming in here and moralizing or chastising the OP and giving him marriage advice.

    You don't know Jack shit about him or his marriage.

    If you don't want to stick to the point of the thread, then you are the ones that should butt the fuck out.

    Okay?
    The point of the thread is that the guy wants a way to get action outside of his marriage. He told us he was married.

    Almost sounds like you're in a position where you trying to justify cheating on a spouse.

    .. just saying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Halifaxboy8 View Post
    There are a 1001 reasons why someone would want to go outside of their relationship. Speaking in absolutes isn't a good way to go about life, and limits your understanding of others. You aren't walking in this guys shoes, or anyone else's aside from your own. Bringing judgement here just underlines your ignorance and intolerance. It's nonconstructive.

    I know many people that go outside of their marriage for one reason or another. Some of them I disagree with, but its not my place to wag a finger at them. How does that help? I also know people that live very closeted lives due to work and family pressures and expectations. Other people I know got married early, have kids and love their family dearly then came out much later in life. There are many reasons why someone would go outside of their marriage.
    If you're cheating .. you don't love your spouse or your kids. You love yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Springer View Post
    "any comments are welcome" ... I guess you missed that part.
    But he wants "tips" on how to hookup with guys in the gym so he can have fun!!!

    Not marriage advice.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Springer View Post
    If you're cheating .. you don't love your spouse or your kids. You love yourself.

    I hooked up with married guys all the time.
    If they want fun it is up to them and not their families.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Springer View Post
    If you're cheating .. you don't love your spouse or your kids. You love yourself.
    If you don't love yourself you won't survive.


    NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    I hooked up with married guys all the time.
    If they want fun it is up to them and not their families.
    No character, no morals ... you may just hate yourself instead of loving yourself.

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    Well anyway, back to reality.

    I'm not one for labels and I sure as hell can recognize that if you're messing around with someone of your own gender, you're not straight. That being said, it does not mean you are gay or bi or whatever. If you want to suck your buddy's cock every once in a while and go back to your wife to eat her out and still call yourself straight, who the fuck the cares; if that helps you sleep at night, more power to you.

    This whole married bi dude thing is quite common....

    I have hung our with a group a dudes many times who are all married with kids, they all consider themselves straight and are not all that welcoming or accepting of gay people.
    Their usual thing to do every other other Saturday night is to get together, watch some sports, play poker, drink beer and top the night off with some porn where they all usually end up naked, stroking and sucking each other off. They chalk it all up to "being drunk."

    The kicker here is these guys are really good friends, they've known each other since grade school so most likely were doing this when they were going through puberty etc. and to top it all off, their wives know they do this. The wives are fully aware they jack off together and their wives are completely ok with this. The wives just see it as something that guys do, no different than getting together to go see a ball game. These people are not fresh out of high school or college either, they are in their late twenties to mid-thirties.

    I know all this goes down because I have taken part in a few of these "guys nights" and once a few of their wives finally told me they are fully aware of what goes on when the boys get together I finally asked them what they thought. A couple of the wives laughed and told me it reminds them of being drunk in college when some of the girls would have "slumber parties." Two of them told me they find the thought of the guys getting together to jack off and possibly mess around a little is hot. One wife told me the turn on is the equivalent of men having a fetish for watching two women together. After that I guess I didn't really feel bad or guilty about it all since their wives know about it and seem to be ok with it. I still think it's weird that the wives know, but if it turns them, what the hell...besides my main buddy of the group is a ginger, we workout together and he has a beautiful fat cock that feels awesome in my hand.

    This is just one example of one group of friends that I hang with. These people consider themselves good church-going Christians btw.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Springer View Post
    No character, no morals ... you may just hate yourself instead of loving yourself.
    Yes, i'm evil.
    Lets hear your high morals.


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    Re: Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups

    Thanks for all of your comments...even the inimitable Medusa....she sure doesn't mince words... and gave me much to consider even if she didn't know my circumstances......from the comments I do have the impression that meeting at the gym is fraught with too many possible complications that I'd rather avoid, so I'll be going about meeting at places/sites other than where I work out....

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