Tips on a giving BJ's?

[LebGuy]

A little embarrassing...

I suck at giving BJ's (no pun intended ). I KNOW how I should be giving it, as in I know what feels good to me and what doesn't, but I have a VERY sensitive gag reflex that just doesn't allow for a good BJ.

I've tried the "mind over matter" idea but my mouth is just TOO sensitive. Even when I'm brushing my teeth and cleaning my tongue I start to gag. I keep trying to get the back of my throat/tongue used to having something touching it, either with a popsicle or something like that, but I just keeep gagging over and over.

Anyone have any ideas? The guy I'm with loves to get sucked and I just end up choking and tears start coming down because of the choking lol.

Help please!

[G-Lexington]

* Put your thumb into your fist and squeeze. This helps diminish the gag reflex. (Try it with your toothbrush a bit to see.)

* The key isn't too see how much cock you shove into your mouth. It's to make the cock feel good. Running your tongue all over the cock and balls (outside your mouth) can be just as enjoyable.

* Use your hand in addition to your mouth and tongue.

Lex

[JWaggy]

What Lex said. The tongue works wonders on a cock and balls and taint. The beauty being that the tongue isn't restricted to the confines of your mouth.

[MisterMajestic]

LebGuy...We can give you lots of advice but what you really need is a DEMONSTRATION...I'd start by Licking your inner Thighs, twirl my Tongue all over your hairy-crotch, Lick and Suck on your Nutts and work my way up the Shaft of your Dick then let you watch & feel me taking care of your mushroom head...You don't have to Swallow the whole Dick in the begining...Swallow it half-way since it bothers your throat then slowly swallow it whole...I like tightening My Lips while Sucking and using my Tongue all at the same time..Every guy does something different......

You're so focused on taking all of his Dick you havent told us ANY details about how you use your Tongue on his Nutts, his Dick, inside his inner-Thighs.....

There's a lot more to Giving a Dude Good-oral than just Swallowing his Dick and Sucking him off...Practice makes perfect...

[loveguys72]

I also find most guys go nuts if you tongue the underside of their cock just below the urethral meatus (that's Latin for pee hole ).

[RaKroma]

If you gag while sucking, switch to licking and use hands.

[LebGuy]

Hmm...good advice thanks guys! and yep MisterMajestic you're completely right I've been just trying to take the whole cock inside my mouth that I don't even think about my tongue or anything else. I've just been going straight for deep throating.

I'll start out with these tips! Thanks guys! <3 Hopefully I'll eventually get the hang of it....I think I'm just a little nervous that he just won't like it at all and never ask me to do it anymore.

[Kien]

Remember to actually suck.

Some guys tend to think that giving a BJ just means putting it in your mouth and bobbing your head up and down; doesn't even get it wet. Suck dat bitch up, ya know?

[bankside]

I don't have to worry about my gag reflex with my guy because there is no way to get his giant dickhead that far past my teeth and back into my throat. He seems to like my tongue though

[loveguys72]

Baby steps, Kien. Baby steps.

Remember to actually suck.

Some guys tend to think that giving a BJ just means putting it in your mouth and bobbing your head up and down; doesn't even get it wet. Suck dat bitch up, ya know?

[Kien]

Baby steps, Kien. Baby steps.

I'm sorry, I got carried away

[M10000]

1. I had a popsicle and the wooden stick broke and there was a plinter in my throat. They froze my throat and I had no gag reflex as the forceps went to get the splinter at the back of my throat. Too bad they dont sell that kind of stuff

2. Dont think a stranger is going to give you a blow job and he will bite your penis off. Boy, that is a mind fuck I have had for years. I think its why I am not good at getting blow jobs. I think he might bite it off

[dereperez]

1. I had a popsicle and the wooden stick broke and there was a plinter in my throat. They froze my throat and I had no gag reflex as the forceps went to get the splinter at the back of my throat. Too bad they dont sell that kind of stuff

2. Dont think a stranger is going to give you a blow job and he will bite your penis off. Boy, that is a mind fuck I have had for years. I think its why I am not good at getting blow jobs. I think he might bite it off

No glory holes for you then I take it.

[M10000]

Nope

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[JustMe5]

Maybe I'm missing something here, but if this guy needs tips on how to give head then why the hell is even trying to deepthroat yet? Leave that to the pros. He sounds more like he still needs to take a "BJ-ing 101" course.

[Coward92]

First of all:
Giving Deep Throat is not neccessary at all if you know what you're doing. Use your lips and your tongue, and don't be afraid to experiment with presure. You can actually suck a cock in a way that the guy feels nothing, but that is pretty much not what you want.
So to achieve the desired results, apply pressure with your lips. Start with gentle and proceed to mildly rough.

Do not create vakuum in your mouth while sucking. That will damage the tissues in the penis and it will also reduce the erection.
Kiss the penis, caress the penis, love the penis, and listen to its owner.

I don't even know how can you do that wrong if you love doing it

[bike10]

It takes a little practice but once you master the are of giving blow job the rewards are great.

[Str8Top14701]

Practice in the morning, when the gag reflex is lowest.

[borg69unimatrix]

Grab it, and suck it like YOU own it. Be it's master, and it's slave.

[Hard-up1]

Kiss the penis, caress the penis, love the penis, and listen to its owner.

BE the penis!

[Tadaa]

Kiss the penis, caress the penis, love the penis, and listen to its owner.

BE the penis!

[xbuzzerx]

I'm sorry, I got carried away

Suck more, talk less Kien!

[CowboyBob]

I'll go out on a limb here and volunteer myself so you can improve your skills. Practice makes perfect.

[derelictdarrel]

You have a dick too don't you?

Just do to him what you would like done to you, does it have to be this complicated?

You could probably try and hold objects of equal size in your mouth (like a flashlight while reading a book) for a minute or two at a time.. this way your jaw at least won't get so sore..

[LebGuy]

Meh i suck I just start gagging when i try to suck his dick. I barely put his dick in my mouth and I start gagging and tearing up. That's how sensitive my gag reflex is Same thing happens to me when I'm brushing my tongue; I stick it back just a bit and bam I start to gag.

Damn I hate this. Tried all those tips and nothing seemed to work. I'm pretty sure I just have a fucked up gag reflex. I should invest in a dildo and practice.

[godson112]

Is it really that hard? Either I'm doing it terribly wrong or it just comes naturally to me. You just suck... alternate your technique, just focus on sucking (using your tongue at the same time, or not), using your hand, slowing down, speeding up, focusing on the head, taking as much as you can. Variety is the spice of life, as they say.

My guy often has to pull me off because he's close to cumming, and he makes noises, which I assume most guys do, so I know when I'm doing something that feels good to him.

[LebGuy]

Is it really that hard? Either I'm doing it terribly wrong or it just comes naturally to me. You just suck... alternate your technique, just focus on sucking (using your tongue at the same time, or not), using your hand, slowing down, speeding up, focusing on the head, taking as much as you can. Variety is the spice of life, as they say.

My guy often has to pull me off because he's close to cumming, and he makes noises, which I assume most guys do, so I know when I'm doing something that feels good to him.

I understand what you and everyone else are saying....and it's not that it's hard. I just can't seem to keep it in my mouth. There's a point on my tongue which if i go past it I gag. And it's not even that far back. Like i said i get the gagging even when I'm brishing my teeth or eating a popsicle.

Maybe I just need a xanax next time lol