A little embarrassing...
I suck at giving BJ's (no pun intended ). I KNOW how I should be giving it, as in I know what feels good to me and what doesn't, but I have a VERY sensitive gag reflex that just doesn't allow for a good BJ.
I've tried the "mind over matter" idea but my mouth is just TOO sensitive. Even when I'm brushing my teeth and cleaning my tongue I start to gag. I keep trying to get the back of my throat/tongue used to having something touching it, either with a popsicle or something like that, but I just keeep gagging over and over.
Anyone have any ideas? The guy I'm with loves to get sucked and I just end up choking and tears start coming down because of the choking lol.