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    So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

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    I have notice that some men here will glorify the act of sleeping with a married man, like it's a badge of honor, that they will wear with pride. How fucked up is that? And that saying can be reversed as well.Does anyone else have a problem with that? Why is it so fucking cool around here to sleep with a married man?

    And also since I am on the subject. What would you do if you find out that a female friend or family member, or hell even a female stranger, was being bamboozled into marrying a gay man? Would you do something like what these people did in WWYD?:, and btw, all thoughts are welcome regrading to this video.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    No, nobody has glorified it.

    Yes, people have been sleeping with married men since literally Biblical times-- and before.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Medusa, you really shouldn't drag arguments and ugly pettiness from thread to thread.

    As for the vid, can't get it to work.
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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    Medusa, you really shouldn't drag arguments and ugly pettiness from thread to thread.

    As for the vid, can't get it to work.
    Agreed and it's particularly tasteless when it's directed by name at someone who just left the forum and can't answer.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    everything that you've said on here is intended to basically stir shit up on here. you've been doing that from the jump. the only reason why you're here is to play the asshole where you basically have us riled up ready to throw shit @ you because you're throwing shit @ us. there's NOT one thread that i've seen you in where you haven't disagreed with anybody or tried to get someone to argue with you over whatever.

    for real, it's time you go somewhere else. here is NOT the place and damn near everybody is tired of you and your trolling.
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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    What would i do?

    I wouldn't react like the first couple (the old guy with his bf)


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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    I wouldn't say it's cool but on the other hand I don't think there is anything wrong with it. There are only two people responsible for a marriage.

    It's a different story if the spouse is a friend of yours because then it's a betrayal of the friendship.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    You mean the straight(-acting) guys who are horny, desperate, and somebody else's problem? Yeah, I can't see the appeal.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    I think that you are full of shit.

    People on JUB definitely do not glorify adultery...straight or homo.

    Just the opposite from what I've seen.

    Will it mean that guys won't sleep with married men?

    Nope.

    I know I did in the past...when I didn't know that they were married.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    I don't think it's cool at all. Screwing other people's live isn't something to be glorified.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Medusa.

    I think it is time that you and I had a little talk about a few things.

    In 261 posts, you've managed to make quite an impression. I wonder if there is a way to make it a good one?

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Where is Perseus when you need him ????? How long is Medusa's tirades on gays and bi's going to go on ?
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    I will pay for a JUB VIP upgrade for the first person who can find me a troll who has conceded being a troll.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Married men wear a wedding ring.

    The wedding ring reminds them that they're not to play around. And it's a signal to others that they're not to played with.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    Married men wear a wedding ring to show that they're married.
    Your responses to virtually any topic:

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Different people have different moral compasses to live by. Your moral values are different than other people's moral values.

    Is it illegal to sleep with married men? No.
    Is it immoral to sleep with married men? Yes and No. Yes because the spouse will get hurt emotionally. But what if two people who are married to each other have an open relationship (I know a few)? Married couples who are swingers? Is it immoral to sleep with these married people?

    It takes two to tango. Are married men being forced to have sex with people outside of their marriages? Most likely...NO! If married men don't want to have sex outside of their marriages, then they can turn down the offer.

    If it is not your thing, then it's not your thing. There's nothing wrong with that. Just like some people are into piss and scat. But I'm not. I don't tell them it is wrong that they are into those fetishes.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    @ #15

    ad hominem

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    No, it's not cool (to me, at least). But at the same time...you can't stop people from doing what they're going to do. It's not illegal, and there's really nothing you can do about it.

    And Medusa is not all bullshit here. There have occasionally been guys on this site speaking about sleeping with married men as if it's something to boast about. She didn't pull that out of thin air.

    I don't think it has anything to do with hating women at all though, as was implied in the linked thread.
    Last edited by Huntneo(PT); February 7th, 2013 at 03:50 PM.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    @ #15

    ad hominem
    Non sequitur more in more topics please.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    I'm not gonna judge someone for what goes on in their sex life, just like how I don't want people judging me for sleeping with men.

    I have my opinions, but I won't get riled up for disagreeing.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    Married men wear a wedding ring.

    The wedding ring reminds them that they're not to play around. And it's a signal to others that they're not to played with.
    It's a wedding ring, not a chastity belt. I know a couple gay guys who consider a wedding ring the best sign yet that they guy will be dtf.

    Lex

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    …. I know a couple gay guys who consider a wedding ring the best sign yet that they guy will be dtf.…
    Are those couple of gay guys married to each other?

    (I don't know what 'dtf' is)

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    Medusa.

    I think it is time that you and I had a little talk about a few things.

    In 261 posts, you've managed to make quite an impression. I wonder if there is a way to make it a good one?
    Just to be clear when I said glorify it, mean that people encouraged one to sleep with a married man.That is something I notice with a few members.And as for making a good impression,ummm....,I don't know how is that possible.I like puppies, if that helps

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    Are those couple of gay guys married to each other?

    (I don't know what 'dtf' is)
    Down to fuck. Interested in having sex. And no, they're not married to each other. To the best of my knowledge, they don't even know each other.

    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    And as for making a good impression,ummm....,I don't know how is that possible.I like puppies, if that helps
    Oh, don't worry about the "impression" you're leaving. You're bravely and brilliantly challenging our long-held beliefs and myths, and you have to expect we're going to be petulant about it. Go on with your bad self.

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    Last edited by G-Lexington; February 7th, 2013 at 04:02 PM.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    …I like puppies, if that helps
    But are they black puppies? Johann specified black.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Non sequitur more in more topics please.
    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    But are they black puppies? Johann specified black.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    No, it's not cool (to me, at least). But at the same time...you can't stop people from doing what they're going to do. It's not illegal, and there's really nothing you can do about it.

    And Medusa is not all bullshit here. There have occasionally been guys on this site speaking about sleeping with married men as if it's something to boast about. She didn't pull that out of thin air.

    I don't think it has anything to do with hating women at all though, as was implied in the linked thread.
    Thank You so much. For a minute there I thought I was going crazy, and seeing things, with the way people responded in this thread.

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    If you are free and single, no blame should be rightfully directed in your direction should you be involved with somebody else's partner.

    Exception of it being the partner of a friend or family of yours, where you have betrayed their trust. Joe Bloggs who you don't know, you don't owe anything to. It's their partner that has to take responsibility for that. Like Laufey said, only two people are involved in a marraige.
    Last edited by mitchymo; February 7th, 2013 at 04:08 PM.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    Thank You so much. For a minute there I thought I was going crazy, and seeing things, with the way people responded in this thread.
    Probably because you're taking a small minority opinion and asking the forum en masse to address it, and probably as yet another of your very many attempts to justify your bigotry against gay men.

    You think if you were on a heterosexual porn geared forum you couldn't find men and women who would talk about having affairs like it was no big deal?

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    But are they black puppies? Johann specified black.
    I love all puppies,especially blacks ones. I will love them even more if they are a ROTWEILER.To me those are the best dogs.They are beautiful, and very loving, and protective.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Xbuzz, you keep on doing the ad hominem.

    The OP is raising what will be big issues soon. There will be much legal drama over marriage, divorce, property settlements, breach of trust, pre-nups etc, etc

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    Xbuzz, you keep on doing the ad hominem.

    The OP is raising what will be big issues soon. There will be much legal drama over marriage, divorce, property settlements, breach of trust, pre-nups etc, etc
    Non sequitur more in more topics Pat.

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    Looks like there's a few of 'em in here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Probably because you're taking a small minority opinion and asking the forum en masse to address it, and probably as yet another of your very many attempts to justify your bigotry against gay men.

    You think if you were on a heterosexual porn geared forum you couldn't find men and women who would talk about having affairs like it was no big deal?
    Oh hell yeah. I have stated many times, on how cheating is bad, on all accounts. Please don't think you gay guys get all of my undivided attention alone,honey. Everybody gets it.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    Oh hell yeah. I have stated many times, on how cheating is bad, on all accounts. Please don't think you gay guys get all of my undivided attention alone,honey. Everybody gets it.
    All of your posts have been anti-gay/Bi since you first started coming here. Now you're trying to cleverly disguise your hatred behind the guise of an infidelity rant.
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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    All of your posts have been anti-gay/Bi since you first started coming here. Now you're trying to cleverly disguise your hatred behind the guise of an infidelity rant.
    No, that's not what I said. Go back in read my post. This is not the only site I post on, and i clearly said gay men do not get my special treatment when it comes to infidelity.I have called many people out on it, like I am doing now.Actaully is my first time with gay men,though.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    Oh hell yeah. I have stated many times, on how cheating is bad, on all accounts. Please don't think you gay guys get all of my undivided attention alone,honey. Everybody gets it.
    I've read most all of your posts here at JUB, in multiple forums. They ALL have the common theme that you do NOT like gay and Bi men.
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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    That video has me HOWLING and i'm not even 2 minutes into it yet.



    Lemme perch

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?


    I'm hungry, anyone want some popcorn?

    To be on topic, yes I have a problem with people knowingly sleeping with married men. That is not always the case.
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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    I've read most all of your posts here at JUB, in multiple forums. They ALL have the common theme that you do NOT like gay and Bi men.
    Hmmm,OK.That cool

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by justanothershyguy View Post
    …I have a problem with people knowingly sleeping with married men. That is not always the case.
    You'd know if they were wearing a—
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...72#post8692272

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    You'd know if they were wearing a—
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...72#post8692272
    If they were, yeah, but it's not like the ring is superglued to their finger. Pretty easy to take the thing off if they want it that bad
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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    I don't condone infidelity and I probably wouldn't sleep with a man if he told me that he himself considered it cheating on his wife, but if a married man tells me that him and his wife have an open relationship then I also don't consider it my responsibility to investigate any further, even though he could very well be lying.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by MysteryLovesCompany View Post
    …if a married man tells me that him and his wife have an open relationship then I also don't consider it my responsibility…
    Does it make a difference if the married man tells you he has an open relationship with his husband?

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    Does it make a difference if the married man tells you he has an open relationship with his husband?
    No. This is mostly hypothetical though as I'm in a monogamous relationship myself.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    It is not just "uncool" or "a different moral viewpoint" or "inevitable" that some people will sleep with a person they know to be monogamously married, it is just wrong.

    There is no justification for it; they are personally, and equally, responsible for entering into an unreasonable relationship that is hurtful to a third party. I'd exile those people to an unpleasant island, tbqh.
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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    i have no idea what this thread is about but it fucking reeks.

    token on-topic contribution: yeah, i will fuck a married man if i feel like it. its him whos breaking his promise, not me. i know, many will not agree with this stance. judge me if you feel like it, or come up with some stupid analogy about bank robbers and drivers, i dont care. i wont fuck married men on a regular basis for the very selfish and practical reason that i dont want to put up with the shit that happens when hes finally caught (and you just know he will be, eventually).

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    It is not just "uncool" or "a different moral viewpoint" or "inevitable" that some people will sleep with a person they know to be monogamously married, it is just wrong.

    There is no justification for it; they are personally, and equally, responsible for entering into an unreasonable relationship that is hurtful to a third party. I'd exile those people to an unpleasant island, tbqh.
    I personally disagree. This viewpoint shifts more of the blame than is fair onto a party that didn't take or break any vows.

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    Re: So it's cool, and dandy to sleep with married men now?

    I'll explain my view on this further...

    Like I said there are only two people responsible for a marriage, the people in it.

    The way I see it you have already cheated when you want to cheat. The cheater is the one who breaks his promise and the third wheel is just the flesh he uses to break it. If I say no because he's married then honestly I don't think it makes any difference. He's still a married guy who wants to cheat despite me saying no.

    I don't seek married men but at the same time it's not a deal breaker for me when it comes to sex. I'd never get romantically involved though.

    If I was married I'd have no problem with people hitting on him. I want him to be faithful because the chooses to and can resist temptation, not because he lacks the opportunities. Some people even ask a friend to hit on their husband or wife as a test (I wouldn't do that though because that means I don't trust him.)

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