what tangled webs we weave
True vegetarians or vegans would not give in to eating meat even when they are dining at a chicken, seafood, or steak restaurant.
I'm confused as to the point of the thread, who said it was okay to sleep with married men and even moreso, who said it was the thing to do around here?
All of the things I know about my brother are wrong and the women he sleeps with that aren't his girlfriend are innocent. I thought that they knew he had a girlfriend and that he was a douchebag for cheating and they were bitches for helping him cheat. It turns out, after all of these years, it's the homosexuals fault. It all makes sense now.
I encourage straight couples to get married.
I have videos to proof it but not going to show.
NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.
Last edited by opinterph; February 7th, 2013 at 09:50 PM. Reason: removed verbiage quoted from another poster
So, it's dandy for women to kill children?
There must be some statistically significant relationship here. THERE JUST MUST BE!!
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^ Yup, it's a lot of "it's easier to hate the third party and scapegoat them, rather than come to terms with the fact that your spouse isn't trustworthy and betrayed you."
Last edited by Medusa; February 7th, 2013 at 07:38 PM.
^ but woudn't that man be bisex rather than gay?
Straight guys cheat on women on the "dl" all the time... yet you keep focusing only on the gay ones as being more in the wrong. You bias and homophobia is perfectly clear.
I'm in a monogamous relationship, and of course I would not be cool with my guy pretending to be monogamous to my face but actually sleeping with someone else. That would be his failure.
But there is a big difference in the moral quality of the guy he sleeps with in our bed under a picture of us on our wedding day, and the guy who says "Wait, I thought you said you were single?! You brought me over here to fuck you under a picture of you and your husband? Go fuck yourself."
The fact that so many of us see those two third-wheels as morally equivalent, or just making a neutral choice to "do what they do," and where neither response matters, explains a lot of the fucked-uppedness of the world.
Last edited by bankside; February 7th, 2013 at 08:24 PM.
I sympathise with what you say about the "dl", Medusa.
I just hope in the near future guys won't have to go "on the down low" to get good man sex. And hopefully all those guys who might be calling themselves bi can be more open about what they want.
How the fuck is infidelity part of the same subject as getting 'bamboozled' into marrying a homo?
Your automatic assumption that every homo married to a woman is going to cheat is not only grossly erroneous, it is seems to be indicative of some kind of animus you bear toward gay or bisexual men.
While others are accusing you of trolling, I'm beginning to suspect that in your past you have had a bad relationship or an unrequited relationship with a homo or bi-sexual man and use JUB as a way of working out your angst.
But what I really suspect is that you have no real understanding of relationships or homos or bisexuals at all. It is like there is some significant disconnect in your logic stream whenever you are discussing issues like the ones you have mooted here.
What would you say if I suggested that in 99% of the cases of a homo marrying a woman...it is the guy that is being bamboozled into marrying a woman? Or that in almost all cases...there is no bamboozling at all?
I would suggest that you read 'Homos For Dummies' perhaps.
Last edited by rareboy; February 8th, 2013 at 04:09 AM.
First...I agree with Matt...
Second...the elephant in the room...there are alot of conscious and unconsious reasons women marry closeted gay men ranging from an inability to connect emotionally to a man to needing to control everyone and everything around her. RARELY is one party a victim in ANY relationship.
if my buddy wants to have his cake and eat it too then im not in a position to judge my buddy
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Medusa...you heteros having skrewed up marriage for centuries...with domestic violence, cheating, DIVORCE, and aplethora of other things. That you as a hetero would even have the nerve to direct this topic at us in the manner you worded it is some nerve. GO MAKE THIS ON SOME HETERO FORUM...y'all are getting divorced from each other like it's going out of business.
But bigots always spin every story and angle to somehow blame gays, fault gays or make gays feel guilty.
Your agenda got called out boo boo.
Medusa is banned.
Anybody who willingly sleeps with someone else's partner, boyfriend or husband is a nasty ass tramp.
I don't even care.
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I have some experience in this area. The first men I ever had sex with were all married. It was always for money, and I never had a moment's hesitation. These guys seemed happily enough married, considered themselves primarily straight, and occasional or even regular sex with a professional was not going to destroy their marriages. I always imagined that for many of them it actually helped the marriage.
you know something, i don't get why people always frown down on the person that the married person is cheating on their spouse with. i never understood why the spouse who has been cheated on is ready to fly off the handle at that person and not their husband/wife. never understood that. you can do whatever but prepare for the consequences that come from it.
one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry
I laugh at the word "Banned"
NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.
What gets me is when an audience full of women yell at the hookers...they should instead THANK THEM because alot of them wouldn't be married anymore had hookers not taken up their slack. There is alot of dishonesty in relationships and I especially find alot of dishonesty from professional victims who always have things "happen to them".
Same with Hillary...when you are the First Lady of the United States of America...you shouldn't have to suck anyone's dick. Hillary should have baked Monica some muffins.
The bottom line is that alot of people marry for reasons OTHER THAN LOVE and aren't entirely honest about it. Alot of people shut their partner down emotionally and sexually and go to great extremes to control the other person in order to keep their...money...security...social standing...image...fear...dogma....
...and it is amongst this group that hookers do the greatest favor.
I am keeping it real...I think this is the elephant in alot of people's rooms.
Personally...I hate the chronic victims who take no responsibility for their role in their relationship....I often find them to be more dishonest than the cheaters.
Sounds like a setup for extortion.
I just watched this unfold for the 10,000th time (I got to see alot of this...day in and out...when I bartended)...the person got together with the other person because they were "cute" and pretty much ignored who they were...then cried victim when they weren't the person they wanted them to be after ignoring all the signs..because they were "cute"...SO FUCKING COMMON! Owning that is a freedom for the "victim" and anyone who tells them that is doing them a favor.
Last edited by sixthson; February 12th, 2013 at 12:23 AM.
Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.
Get out with your reason and logic, we're trying to justify banging married men here.
Last edited by Anders123; February 12th, 2013 at 12:35 AM.
Damned if I know why you'd want to play without someone else's toys. I refuse to sleep with a partnered or married guy.