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    How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    OK so everyone's got a little bit of fear when it comes to being rejected and I thought this might be interesting to ask. How many of you guys go for guys that are completely out of your league and don't mind the risk of being rejected however extreme it might be? When I say out of your league I mean a guy who might be smarter, sexier, muscular, charismatic, rich, broke, thuggish, affluent or even straight. The next question is.. 'Have you ever managed to woo a guy into liking you despite the difference in leagues? This is a question I'm basing off of society - and certain gay guys in particular who will right you off the moment they see you are not in their league (racial preference, social class, or even physical shape and appearance). It happens all the time in the strait world.. where a guy puts his neck on the line for a very very beautiful girl but I feel like gay guys are little less prone to putting themselves out there to be turned down. I dunno questions down below... lets chat about this.




    How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?



    this is kind of funny:
    http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...0your%20league

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Since this is dealing with hypotheticals I'm going to move it to Hot Topics. As for me, I think the best connections are personality and emotionally based regardless of "types." Guys into types may be settling for facades rather than substance, but to each his own.
    "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Wow, if rejection really rolls off your back like that, more power to you. This kind of thrill-seeking is an exercise in confidence, which is healthy I think. I don't think I ever had a thrill going after a hot model looking guy, just a feeling of potential reward for spending the risk. Good thing to, if it were my enjoyment in life, I don't think I would be good relationship material.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Not for me, thanks. But then, I'm with Seasoned on this one. Personality and all before externals.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    I don't consider any guy out of my league. That doesn't mean I will score with any given guy, or even might, but you never know. Then again, I'm attracted more to personalities than looks. A friendly fun demeanor is better at engaging my interest than a hot ass or chiseled face. And if thry have a friendly fun demeanor, one might argue they're more likely o give me a fair shake, no matter what he looks like. I've connected with guys ranging from nothing-special to godlike, and I've enjoyed them all.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    I would love for this to happen, I just don't hold my breath for it.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Quote Originally Posted by greenblue View Post
    I mean a guy who might be smarter, sexier, muscular, charismatic
    But you just described me tho.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    But you just described me tho.
    You forgot humble, CB.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Quote Originally Posted by loveguys72 View Post
    You forgot humble, CB.
    Oop.


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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    ^^^
    Aww, it's so cute and tiny.



    Dat body, tho.






    As for me, I don't know. People not in my league still have a shot.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Probably nobody I'd go for would go for me, so...

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    As I have been the recipient of Unnatural Selection before, I am a believer in it. That doesn't mean I truly ascribe to the idea that we are actually in any leagues, but I am realistic when I concede that the majority of the world, not just gay men, see dating that way.

    Just as on JUB, I flirt via comments with guys of all sorts, just in case there is any latent interest out there in my circles. There are so many things to find attractive in a man, I'm glad I have varied tastes. Some are young, old, my age, and along a huge range of personalities.

    If someone simply flirts back, or smiles, or laughs, then I've had my thrill. Some day, a guy will respond with more, but I'm happy just to be attractive in platonic way for the many. We all need someone to cheer us and converse about things we enjoy, and we all need friends who admire us as people, even if we are not going to fuck them or marry them.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    When I was single...If I wanted to meet you or have sex wth you...you knew it maybe 10 seconds after it occured to me. I am not really sure what "out of my league" means. I am not afraid of rejection in general but the handful of times I had a huge crush on someone I would get really nervous and shy.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Always.........otherwise where is the excitement?

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    There's a thrill if I'm attracted to them.

    The funny thing is: there are a lot of plain, conservative, clone-looking guys who most gay guys would lay in a second because of their muscles, etc.... that I don't have the slightest desire to touch. And in those cases, people look at me, see that I'm no "ten" or even close and then they suddenly act like I'm pretentious or lying to myself when I say I wouldn't touch these guys.

    To me, that's funny. People think of it as some sort of flat scale where someone who is a "2" or "3" (as I likely am) will automatically want someone that society would deem a "9" or "10." It doesn't work that way.

    Short story: beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    In a case where a guy is out of my league... he'd have to make the first move or at least show a sign. When I know someone is out of my league, I don't really bother.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    So funny looking back on it.

    A couple guys that I thought were physically 'out of my league' but hooked up with by surprise when I was younger turned out to be about as normal as anyone else. I certainly learned that if you love to fuck and can hold a conversation and have a sense of humour that you appeal to the right kind of guy...no matter what they look like.

    In a couple of instances, I learned that the prettiest in the shop, weren't necessarily to my taste if they were looks obsessed or shallow, and there were a few times that I found myself making polite excuses to shut down any further action and move on.

    One of the prettiest guys I ever fucked around with became very ordinary looking as he aged into his later twenties....so you can never tell.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    If you are beautiful, smart, etc "higher" than me, you are definitely out of my league. But what is it to say that you probably think that I'm in your league. Now that's a win-win situation which do happen.

    If I did manage to woo them, well, that's coz I probably have an ass they would happily sink their tongue into.

    If I don't, then, oh well, you'd never, ever, have the chance to know how much I can do to/for you!
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    Are the people who look and think like you ..." - Colours of the Wind by Vanessa Williams

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    With gay men there's never been a man I wanted that I didn't get when the opportunity presented itself.
    It's a different situation with straight men. There are a number of straight guys I'd like to seduce but I know there's no chance of even trying.
    I fucked once with a straight friend years ago. My best straight friend is recently divorced and I sometimes think I now have a chance of getting him into bed. He's my former workout partner, gorgeous and sweet, and is not shy to comment on goodlooking men with buffed bodies nor shy about discussing gay sex with me.
    My partner has encouraged me in this regard, knowing how hot this guy is.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Having dated an actual model (I'm a middle aged ugly mother fucker), I don't think it's thrilling at all. But what do I know, I don't really care if I get rejected. I just move on.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Back in my slut days, I managed to bed almost every single guy I showed interest in.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Quote Originally Posted by AshyPhoenix View Post
    Back in my slut days, I managed to bed almost every single guy I showed interest in.

    I have friends like you. Whats funny is they even tend to go after all the guys they seem to not even like. They have this weird mixture of desperation and confidence that I can't pull off. Not to mention their lack of insecurity. I don't mind being rejected in the nice and honest since but I'm a black guy who really admires red heads and otter types who are artistically inclined. Its a really hard group of guys to infiltrate especially living in LA.

    Ashypoenix are you considered good looking by our society?
    Last edited by greenblue; February 7th, 2013 at 11:05 PM.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    I don't think anyone is out of my league but I readily admit I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Different people have different tastes. I just never want someone to "slum it" with me because I've never done that with anyone, conventionally beautiful or otherwise.

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    Re: How many guys actually enjoy the thrill in the possibility of scoring a chance with a guy who wouldn't necessarily go after you?

    Quote Originally Posted by greenblue View Post
    I have friends like you. Whats funny is they even tend to go after all the guys they seem to not even like. They have this weird mixture of desperation and confidence that I can't pull off. Not to mention their lack of insecurity. I don't mind being rejected in the nice and honest since but I'm a black guy who really admires red heads and otter types who are artistically inclined. Its a really hard group of guys to infiltrate especially living in LA.
    Yeah. I'm twenty different kinds of fucked up and went through a major self-loathing phase that I chose to fill with mostly-anonymous sex. I hooked up with pretty much anyone who showed even a little interest.

    Quote Originally Posted by greenblue View Post
    Ashypoenix are you considered good looking by our society?
    Lord no. I'm fat and have zits all over my face. Basically all I've got going for me is that I have a fairly big cock.

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