It's hard to explain, but I'll try.
I'm not blind. I can see OK. But the visual input I get from guys is somewhat minimal. It can have an impact on me, but not that great of one. And I don't necessarily respond to physical attributes the same as most people, or even the same way at different times. Sometimes a bulging cock in tight underwear is a great turn-on. Sometimes, enh. The one thing that nearly always gets me going is a good ass. And I've seen good asses that are barely there, and ones that are gi-normous. It's hard o quantify, but I know a good as when I see it.
So what DOES attract me? A personality that I click with. Friendly. Funny. Fun. Playfully sexual. Why do I find this a turn-on? The same reason I find a great ass a turn-on - "this would be great to have in bed". For instance, I've played around with cocks ranging from four inches to nine inches. And the ones I've enjoyed the most weren't a particular size or shape, but the ones attached to a guy who I connected with the most. That's when sex (for me) is taken to a whole other level.
And yeah, some might think it's odd to be attracted to a personality instead of a hot body. But here!s the big payoff.
You meet a guy that turns you on. Hot bottom, great ass, cute face, whatever.
I meet a guy that turns me on. Nice ass, great fun personality, we cluck.
Which of us is more likely to get our guy into bed?
Lex