A guy and I have been seeing each other for six months. It has gotten to the stage that I am spending every night at his place. I think I am definitely in love with him. He treats me well and seems like he enjoys having me around. I only moved to this town a few weeks before I met him so don't have my own place. My mum lives here so am based there for now. My mum has met him and really likes him. I feel like I would like to move in with him on a permanent basis. However, I am getting the feeling from him that he doesn't want this and he is encouraging me to buy my own place. He is actually encouraging me to buy a house opposite his mother. This is giving me really mixed signals. On one hand he is saying that he wants me around, on the other he is telling me he doesn't, at least not as a partner. So the message I am reading is that he wants me around as a friend but that's it. He has mentioned that he wants me to come around occassionally when I have my own place. But that is not what I want. It seems to me that he wants me as a fuck buddy and to service him occassionally(he is a total starfish) and hasn't really reciprocated sexually for the last few months. Living opposite his mother would make it extremely difficult for me to visit him as she knows we are friends but not lovers. I actually feel that he wants he to live opposite his mother in order to stop me from coming around too regularly. He is a slut and so I know that I wouldn't be the only one he was having sex with. I really feel that as much as it would hurt it would be best for me not to see each other again. The problem with this is that, living in a small city, we have common friends and social circle, which means that we would still see each other regularly. I am so confused as to what to do right now and would appreciate some advice. I haven't really talk to him as he is not easy to talk to when it comes to things like this. I am tempted to pack up and go back to my previous city, even though it would mean leaving a job that I really love, and my family who are based here.