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    i just broke up with my boyfriend

    yes. we werent together too long (at all) but i felt like it just wasnt working out... this is the first time i really had to break it off with someone, and it SUCKED

    i feel like SUCH A DICK. i tried to be reasonable, be nice and caring when breaking it to him and he just seemed hurt :/

    ugh.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Oh well. Nothing a fifth of bacardi won't solve. Lol

    You were to good for that asshole anyways.
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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Sorry the relationship didn't last. Breaking someone's heart is never easy. Remember that.
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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Nobody ever walks away from getting dumped with a huge smile, so that's to be expected. Sorry it didn't work out.

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    Breaking up with someone, if you know they are still into you, is hard. But if you didn't feel it was working then you had to do it, it's better to break it off now instead of a few months down the line when the person really has major feelings for you.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, hookup and breakup is part of life's journey. Get some sleep. Hope you'll get a better perspective tomorrow.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    thanks guys i think im going to make myself a cup of tea and watch some reality tv. i hope hes doing okay but i shall give him his space

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by Taralen View Post
    Oh well. Nothing a fifth of bacardi won't solve. Lol

    You were to good for that asshole anyways.
    ^ Hmmm...If the ex is also a JUBer and posted his breakup here, bet you'll give him the same advice then...not knowing him and the OP were in a relationship eh?

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    yea i dont think hes on here :P hes seen this forum once and instantly hated it

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Didn't you just become bfs last week?
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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    2 weeks ago but yea like i said, really short relationship

    basically, i felt rushed into the whole thing and it took me this amount of time to realize it

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Sorry that happened but you did the right thing by letting him know. It is never easy and usually quite uncomfortable....especially when you see that they are hurt.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by menRsexii View Post
    yes. we werent together too long (at all) but i felt like it just wasnt working out... this is the first time i really had to break it off with someone, and it SUCKED

    i feel like SUCH A DICK. i tried to be reasonable, be nice and caring when breaking it to him and he just seemed hurt :/

    ugh.
    What was your choice ?
    Stay in a relationship that you did not like ?
    As for you were to good for that asshole anyways , *great supportive advice* NOT .

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    It was nothing too serious then.
    You will both recover quickly, I am sure of it.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    If it ain't working out, what can you do really...better go on separate ways.

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    You didn't break up because you were missing your Ex that treated you like crap, did you !?!?!?
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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    you should probably take the time to work on yourself before trying to persue somebody else. just a thought. you sound like you have issues with yourself that you think will go away if you get a boyfriend.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Hope you're feeling better today after a good night of rest.

    Look forward to your next thread "I just found my next boyfriend"

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    not to be mean but two weeks does not a boyfriend make.

    now go slap yourself with reality and if you're really looking for a relationship then get your ass out there and find one.




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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by menRsexii View Post
    yea i dont think hes on here :P hes seen this forum once and instantly hated it
    Give me his number.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Sorry to hear the relationship didn't work out. Breaking up is never pleasant, no matter how brief the relationship. You'll both get over it in time. For now, I think Fuji's on to something. You should probably take a breather from dating and such and work on figuring yourself out and what you really want and need in a relationship.

    Good luck, buddy.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    You didn't break up because you were missing your Ex that treated you like crap, did you !?!?!?
    no dont worry! i deleted my ex off of facebook because of course he pulled the "but i still wanna be friends" -- i tried contacting him once or twice and he never replied so basically, fuck him, thats what i think.

    my recent ex was very kind and considerate but i felt kinda closed in and rushed :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    you should probably take the time to work on yourself before trying to persue somebody else. just a thought. you sound like you have issues with yourself that you think will go away if you get a boyfriend.
    you know i have given this thought. i dont think i have a problem where i think getting a boyfriend will help. i think i just need to figure out what i want.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by PreTTy PeTe View Post
    not to be mean but two weeks does not a boyfriend make.

    now go slap yourself with reality and if you're really looking for a relationship then get your ass out there and find one.
    I know! exactly my point! but he wanted to label it as such like right off the bat and initially, i agreed. but then i just felt almost claustrophobic in the situation because after just meetin each other, he wanted me all to himself.

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    Sorry it didn't work out. At least you got a few good rolls in the hay.



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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Most importantly, what did you learn from this experience? If you're taking no life lessons away from this you'll end up doing the exact same thing six months later. Trust me, I've done it.

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    ^ exactly. i view it as a learning experience. basically, from this, i think ive learned more about what i want currently, what im looking for with a guy. i am most definitely not one to take things fast... i want everything nice and slow. why label everything so damn quickly??

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    so, he texted me and said he was sorry for reacting the way he did. apparently, which i had figured, he unfriended me on facebook lol. he wants to be friends on there again.

    im also glad to see he sees eye to eye with me now and sees that we did rush into this relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taralen View Post
    Oh well.


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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by menRsexii View Post
    so, he texted me and said he was sorry for reacting the way he did. apparently, which i had figured, he unfriended me on facebook lol. he wants to be friends on there again.

    im also glad to see he sees eye to eye with me now and sees that we did rush into this relationship.
    All well that ends well....


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    Please take your time the next time.

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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    Better that you did it now, than later. Would have been a lot worse for both of you if you let it drag out and pretend things were OK.

    As has already been said, but just to reiterate - Next time, don't rush into it. Take the time to feel things out and make sure it's what both of you want.

    Honestly can say, a couple of weeks is not going to be enough time to make such a decision to commit. Learned that the hard way myself.

    But it's good that you still have an open line of communication and that you're willing to be friends. THAT is very important and will help you both get through the difficulties of calling it quits so suddenly.

    Life goes on...
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    Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

    yea i totally get it. i thought we were rushing from the beginning really but since im still fairly new to all of this (dating and stuff) i just thought id go along with it and see what happens. well, i found out i wasnt comfortable haha

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