My long-distance sub would feel the extra weight of his submission if some of you guys helped decide what I did to him. His asshole is currently off limits, but I can order him to do a variety of things or deny him certain activities (sexual or otherwise, like sleeping on the floor or not being allowed to have beer). He's primarily straight but knows I'd like to see him with men (which he won't have direct access to, unfortunately, so this is as close as well get for now). He's into humiliation/degradation/suffering, etc.
We don't have the webcam set up yet, but he can take pictures for me (not for posting, sorry).
It's not that I don't have ideas - I want him to know he's been discussed in the forum and that men he doesn't know have influenced what happens to him.