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    How to talk to your boyfriend about group sex

    A little backstory: I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now, I am vers but prefer to bottom. I have always had a bit of a kinky side, while he has always been more on the vanilla side; he has said in previous conversations that he is open to trying things.

    My question is how would i go about talking to him about wanting to try group sex? Its something that i have always wanted to try, but i dont want to freak him out; or think that hes not good enough cause trust me he is.

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    Re: How to talk to your boyfriend about group sex

    You start by being honest w/him and talk about things you'd like to try. He may either say yes/no/maybe. But if he does say no then you have to respect his feeling on that subject or risk your ltr.

    But if you don't talk it out first, and say all your fantacy's to each other you will never really know each other. We have been together for 28+ yrs, and our sex life is better now than b4 and mainly due to us exploring our kinky side of things to try. Some we liked and still do other we tried and said that's ok, and others either he or I did not want to try and left it at that.

    But it all starts w/ disscusion of your fantacy's....start talkling about it when your having sex when your both all hot N frisky and throw some ideas out there and see how he responds. You just have to give ur all and open up with ea other.
    You cant change the way the wind blow's, but you can change the angle of your sail to take you somewhere else!!

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    Re: How to talk to your boyfriend about group sex

    Quote Originally Posted by racer2438 View Post
    But it all starts w/ disscusion of your fantacy's....start talkling about it when your having sex when your both all hot N frisky and throw some ideas out there and see how he responds. You just have to give ur all and open up with ea other.
    Great advice! I've been with my bf for +5 years now and I do feel there are some things I'm missing (because I've never tried them and I don't want them to just fade), and sometimes I feel we'd be even better together if we would at least talk about stuff we might like.

    He's more "vanilla" than me too (even if I have never done anything kinky or cheated on him) so we might talk about it. No doubt things need to be talked.

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