Is three months of abstinence normal for a just-turned 25 year-old?
I feel like the Sahara, empty and dry...
Is three months of abstinence normal for a just-turned 25 year-old?
I feel like the Sahara, empty and dry...
"... You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you ..." - Colours of the Wind by Vanessa Williams
Lol..Sahara ^^
3 months still intermediate, try 6th months and your third eye will open (srsly)
3 months? Not impossible at 25.
But 3 months and a week? Time to hit the bars or the bathhouses.
Self-inflicted or just a run of bad luck? If you want it broken, get on Grindr or something.
Lex
Haha... I guess I played a part in it. Grindr and the other websites don't really do it for me. All I do is to chat on there and make friends. Yes, I've been making friends on Grindr instead of finding a hook-up.
I'm a classy ladee here love, I go to bathhouses to enjoy the jacuzzi and the steamroom. lol
@JP: LOL, 6 months and I'll be a virgin all over again!
"... You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you ..." - Colours of the Wind by Vanessa Williams
"Miso Horny"
For some reason I immediately thought of Jar Jar Binks when I read that in my mind.
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i'm sorry, maybe it's because i'm a virgin and etc BUT i don't see what is so hard or painful about not having sex for three months. i get annoyed whenever i see somebody complaining about that. no offense but whenever i hear somebody whining about not having sex for a day or two, a month or whatever, i'm like just shut up and masturbate. you ain't gonna die from not having sex. play with yourself, call it a day and smile. maybe this is because i never had sex or been in your position so i can't understand where you or most of these people that say all this is coming from but still....
one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry![]()
Although it's an ambiguous term, I certainly wouldn't classify it as abnormal. Still, I wouldn't suggest having sex just because it dawned on you that it has been a while. If you're comfortable with hooking up, and you're genuinely in the mood for it, then go for it, but don't feel pressured to go out and find some strange just because it's been a few months.
I'm only twenty-two, and it has been a whole lot longer for me. I am in no rush.
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I'd say it's within whatever parameters you want to set it in. Is this a self-induced and purposely chosen period of abstinence? Or is it just that you're not really motivated to have sex, or, just not finding the right guys/girls? *you're bi, right?
I mean if you were having sex every day and night for the past two years and then suddenly you were not, for three months straight, -- then that might be out of character for you. But it's all where you lay it, right? Do you think you should be having sex more?
I've had stretches where I go without sex..... just because I don't want to or because work interferes, etc. Never been three months, but a few weeks, certainly.
I'd say it's nothing too out of the usual. Unless you just have suddenly lost desire completely and are suddenly uninterested in sex. And in that case, you might want to look a little deeper.
Last edited by MattClaimer; January 28th, 2013 at 12:14 AM.
Ha! I wish it was only 3 months for me.
Try 51 years, then you'll have a reason to complain...
Any life amounts to no more than one drop in the limitless ocean. Yet what is any ocean but a multitude of drops?
Three months is not abnormal; it's not even all that long a time. If you want to get laid, get laid; if not, don't sweat it.
The title is the only thing that brought me in here, though; I have a friend whose drag name is Miso Hornay.
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Ok, reon..I want to explain more my first post.
sounds like kd but what I meant by third eye is your understanding..of what you really want in hook up. Sometimes we get emotional/mental block due to many reason which I dont push you to explain here. I sense that 'cuz it seems you hv inhibitions in your tone and sometimes we dont know why but our body just warn us if we're not ready.
Even a pro-prostitute must taking a charge. Remember that hooking up needs preparation, a bad hook up just leaving unpleasant memory or even scars if you're sensitive person. So, be ready, get the right guy and have fun ^^
Eh, I don't think I like the use of the word normal at all here.
Do what works for you. If you aren't feeling like having sex...don't have sex.
If you think it's time...make it happen with someone. But don't just do it because you feel like it HAS to be done. You don't HAVE to have it at all.
Have some miso soup and meditate...
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I am working on what form my JUB reincarnation will take...
Ommm...
Ommm...
Ommm...igod am I horny.
Lex