So the other night I met up this guy to hook up. We met online and both of us said we only do safe sex. He's about 10-11 years older than me. Anyways so meet up at his place and I immediately was uncomfortable. I should have left and followed my instincts but I didn't. We barely even spoke before he started kissing me. He performed some oral sex on me and started getting a little rough while getting on top of me. He wasn't hurting me and I never felt threatened but it was just weird.
Mind you I've hooked up with guys I met online before but it never was this uncomfortable. It usually goes well for the most part. He then proceeds to try to put my unprotected penis in his ass. Mind you we had both said safe play only! I immediately said no and he stopped. He looked a bit surprised and a little annoyed. He tried doing oral again and I finally told him to stop and I didn't feel well. He wasn;t happy about it but he wasn't rude or anything and walked me out.
Have any of you had an experience like this before? I don't want to overreact but I feel a bit violated and uncomfortable about the whole thing. Just wanted to get some friendly and honest feedback.