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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I blame that midget you were sleeping with, Ashy. Once you do a major fetish icon like that you gotta go for the more extreme.
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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    They haven't changed so much as refined somewhat.

    When I first realized I was gay, I was the prototypical semi-homophobic gay. I only wanted to top and get sucked. I quickly got into kissing, though, and it wasn't too much longer before I got into "working a guy's body over". Not just sucking his cock, but manually and orally doing a guy all over. I finally did bottom, and enjoyed it, but I still much prefer topping.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by AshyPhoenix View Post
    I'm talking dirty with a guy through text, and I'm saying stuff to him I never would have said even three years ago. So of course, now I have to ask all you guys!

    When I first became sexually active, I was very much a total sub bottom (I didn't even enjoy getting head, just giving it). I was also very vanilla. I stayed that way for quite some time; over the last year and a half or so, I've discovered kink and S&M, and I've dived right into it. I've become a lot more dominant, I'm not a total bottom (I almost prefer topping now) and I'm pretty freaky, all things considered.

    What about you?
    Ashy this post goes GREAT with your avatar, especially the first couple lines. lol.

    Hmm... I don't know about 'changed.' I'll steal Lex's term "refined." I do more of this or that but the things I like to do haven't swung 180 or anything.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Oh God. I guess I've always been a horn ball. Some things never change.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I think there will always be a large swig of vanilla in my sex life, but that's my favourite flavour and no less delicious for it.

    I used to think that kink was the opposite of love. I no longer do, which is why I can appreciate some aspects of it. I like what some people can physically accomplish when they work on their sexual skills. Whether it is self-sucking or taking a fist comfortably, I respect the athleticism and skill that I see. I don't relate to, and doubt I ever will, games of power in the bedroom. I don't find it erotic. Actually I still find it juvenile or pointless. So for example, I like the tom of finland physiques, but not the campy attitudes and the top/bottom typecasting, and the roleplaying. I like different aspects of leather. Slings are great. But not the "uniforms" etc.

    So I get that people don't want to have vanilla all the time, but a lot of it seems like their alternative to yet another vanilla ice cream is to eat moss out of a bog or something. I get the desire for variety, but not the menu on offer.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by youfiad View Post
    Oh God. I guess I've always been a horn ball. Some things never change.
    I would echo those thoughts. My tastes have definitely evolved though. I started out mainly topping, but gradually increased my bottoming until I do each about equally now. Though I have to say I get great enjoyment out of being a bottom who the tops all say that "I certainly know how to tire them out" I like bottoming in that I can go for hours doing it versus having to relaod when topping. I have gotten more kinky too in that I enjoy watersports and fisting at times. I have always been more a power bottom but have developed a desire to let myself be submissive at times. Hence, that is one reason I let myself be fisted last year for the first .
    Last edited by NW007; January 24th, 2013 at 10:26 PM.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Can someone define "kink" for the purposes of this discussion? Are we just talking anything non-vanilla?

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    I used to hate Justin Bieber and now I want to fuck him in his little boy-pussy. :c)
    Quote Originally Posted by BustinJeiber View Post
    Oh behave! You aren't ready for this boy-vagine!





    Anyway....

    Im so vanilla is not funny, BUT I do have a fouler mouth than I used to.
    Last edited by MissAnne; January 24th, 2013 at 10:32 PM.
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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by AshyPhoenix View Post
    Bankside: I agree. I'm not wild and crazy kinky, I'm just less vanilla than most.

    And dom/sub doesn't matter to me. How dominant or submissive I am depends on what the guy I'm with wants. I'm not into power games either.



    That's what I mean by it. I'm talking leather, whips, CBT, bondage; all that kind of stuff.
    I guess that was the exact question in my head-- does kink always refer to something "S&M-esque"?

    Or does it cover everything outside of "garden variety"-- handjobs, blowjobs, anal between two partners?

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    I used to hate Justin Bieber and now I want to fuck him in his little boy-pussy. :c)


    Hey grown into quite a fine little bottom, in my opinion.... So I totally agree.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    As I've gotten older, I find that the idea of sex with men has become really appealing. I now enjoy gay porn, pics, occasional camming sessions, etc. and can even imagine myself being very intimate with another guy one day. This is something years ago I would never have let myself even consider.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by AcquiredTaste View Post
    As I've gotten older, I find that the idea of sex with men has become really appealing. I now enjoy gay porn, pics, occasional camming sessions, etc. and can even imagine myself being very intimate with another guy one day. This is something years ago I would never have let myself even consider.

    Welcome to the dark side.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I think we really need to define these terms... I am so confused right now -- what's vanilla? I know I use vanilla when I bake (if I bake).

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I must say I think every adult should have his toys.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    When I first realized I might be gay, I only wanked off to cock, and in denial, I just thought I had some weird fetish for dick but it would pass, and in denial I told myself I only like solo porn, but I slowly began to enjoy watching oral, still not crazy about fucking, but I'm a top so I'd do it for the right guy, and now I love it all, and back then I said I would never kiss a guy, though I still haven't, only 20, maybe I am sad, I am eagerly waiting for the right guy.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I would say yes. When i was a kid I always only fantasized about sex with big gym boys. These days, as long as they are bigger than me i can totally see the sex happening. Gym are overrated anyways.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I used to think oral sex was repulsive. Literally, whenever I saw someone put a penis in their mouth while watching porn I would cringe, then skip to a different photo or different part of the video. Now I'm indifferent to it.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    just two facets of the disco-ball that is my sexuality:

    i started topping about a year ago, and god i love it. i tried it a couple of times before, but i either couldnt get it up, or i just didnt get much out of it. i dont know what exactly changed, but im very happy that ive switched from bottom to versa!

    as a teenager, i never even imagined that feet could be erotisized. in my early 20es, i had a wonderful boyfriend who wanted to lick my feet. it felt really good, so i reciprocated. its been in my repertoire since, and most guys love it. i dont think im a foot fetishist, exactly, but i have started noticing when men have nice, broad feet... before, i didnt pay attention to feet at all.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I started out only being interested in topping, but slowly that changed to the point where now I typically am only interested in bottoming. I never thought it would happen, but here I am
    "I want to sleep with you in the desert tonight, with a million stars all around."

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    My sexual tastes, or skills, haven't really "evolved."

    Just perfected


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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    My sexual tastes, or skills, haven't really "evolved."

    Just perfected

    I....can't.....stop......looking! ^^

    As for me, once I became comfortable in my own skin I figured out what makes me feel good. I'll try damn near anything these days as long as it's with the right guy. There was a time that the thought of sucking dick was pretty repulsive.

    NOT ANYMORE!!!! HAHAHAHA!

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    "Evolved" would be putting it mildly. There has always been a kinky theme, to some degree, but the gender of the partner, activities of interest, and my role in them have changed radically. Mostly adding, not subtracting, except I've given up on being a proper lesbian. I've stopped using the word "never" for most things sexual since I don't like being wrong. I still surprise myself occasionally - get turned on by something I wouldn't have guessed could work for me.


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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    My sexual tastes, or skills, haven't really "evolved."

    Just perfected

    This.


    Though I guess looking back, one thing which surprised me about myself, is that I never thought I'd enjoy rimming, but I love it. If I could visit 12 year old me and say "One day you will love rimming", 12 year old me would be horrified.

    I mean c'mon, it's your tongue pushed up against and inside a guys shithole.

    But it's amazing

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by LaughOutLoud View Post
    This.


    Though I guess looking back, one thing which surprised me about myself, is that I never thought I'd enjoy rimming, but I love it. If I could visit 12 year old me and say "One day you will love rimming", 12 year old me would be horrified.

    I mean c'mon, it's your tongue pushed up against and inside a guys shithole.

    But it's amazing
    Yeah, another thing I thought I'd NEVER do... but when I did.... holy cow! Funny that.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    My taste didnt change many times.
    My dadīs family including him, was (well, and still is) pretty racist. They have always seen blacks/muslim/latin like some kind of trash and my dad kinda influencied me when i was little. I was pretty averse to liking black or latin men until i hit 13, when i started getting atractted by Lil Bow Wow. I didnt even like his music but i found him kinda cute and goofy. I started to open my mind a little more and forgetting all that shit my dad told me about races (Anyways, he hadnt even talked to me for years when he found I was gay). Now i like men from every races. I didnt like oral sex when I was 16 and now I love it. My taste hasnt changed that much since...

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    My personal practices remain somwhat conservative. My understanding of

    others needs and want has expanded exponentially. I may not do but I

    will not castigate ....(pedo and scat not included in that tolerance)

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    As I have matured as gay I enjoy the company of guys my age but also find strong like for twinks age 18 plus. As cut guy have cum to enjoy the pleasures of guys who are uncut and into the art of Docking. Fan of vintage gay porn which was what first saw years ago. But have enjoy the works of BelAmi boys, Michael Lucas, Titan, Hot House guess I just enjoy porn. Still fan of the jockstrap never was jock but have been loyal athletic supporter.
    Finally made my first venture to bathhouse in 2005 in St. Louis and enjoy going back when the need arises.

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    I used to be a total top and now I'm a total bottom. I can't explain why!

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I too left vanilla behind for hardcore leather sex swing parties.... <<~~ umm too much?
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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by JayHawk View Post
    I too left vanilla behind for hardcore leather sex swing parties.... <<~~ umm too much?
    I think somebody TROLLEN!

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I'm now more accepting of the fact that occasionally, all I want is to see two hot guys fucking, or to imagine myself having sex with a hot guy. In reality, I still wouldn't get between the sheets with somebody unless I trusted them completely, but I no longer deny the part of myself that is turned on by men purely for their masculinity.

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    I started a bottom (sorta... no sodo) only attracted to +20 guys (not a daddy replacement thing though)
    Nowadays much more on the top side, although I love giving head and being wanked, and managed to lower age requirement to +5/10 guys, or even guys my age in exceptional cases (mostly Spanish)...
    The constant, I'm (still) a cuddle/kiss freak, I'll probably die from frenchkissing asphyxia

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    at first i like having control, though i typically bottom, if it started to hurt or i started gagging it was over. Now i seem to be oposite to that. I love it when my BF fucks my mouth like a pussy or when he forces his cock in me. I love it when my partner denies me pleasure and just dominates me.

    I have changed so much over such a short period of time

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by Anders123 View Post
    I'm now more accepting of the fact that occasionally, all I want is to see two hot guys fucking, or to imagine myself having sex with a hot guy. In reality, I still wouldn't get between the sheets with somebody unless I trusted them completely, but I no longer deny the part of myself that is turned on by men purely for their masculinity.
    I used to be very annoyed and bored by people who looked at what I wanted out of life and very cynically would say "there is a difference between love and lust you know," which of course I did know, I just wanted them together. I'm greedy that way. And I do enjoy being able to make love with my guy, or to fuck him, depending on the mood.

    Anyway I suppose I used to feel the lust part was somehow undignified or shameful. It isn't. But I still see a relationship that affords the possibility of love and lust as being the ideal. Even in my wildest orgy room fantasies my brain always adds in some element of longstanding emotional connection between the guys.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    I used to be into men older than myself, now that has morphed into borderline twinks.

    It isn't that my taste changed, it's that I got older.

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    I started out I just wanted to suck cock, but guys I met wanted to fuck me, and that thought turned me on so much I love being the bottom.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    I used to be very annoyed and bored by people who looked at what I wanted out of life and very cynically would say "there is a difference between love and lust you know," which of course I did know, I just wanted them together. I'm greedy that way. And I do enjoy being able to make love with my guy, or to fuck him, depending on the mood.

    Anyway I suppose I used to feel the lust part was somehow undignified or shameful. It isn't. But I still see a relationship that affords the possibility of love and lust as being the ideal. Even in my wildest orgy room fantasies my brain always adds in some element of longstanding emotional connection between the guys.
    I was actually discussing this privately with another JUB member, and said essentially the same thing. It's exceptionally rare for me to fantasise about being with somebody I don't know, and even when I do that, in my fantasy, I tend to imagine that I know them and that we have a connection. Over time, it is becoming slightly more common for my fantasies to centre around the act of sex itself with an attractive man, but the decided majority of them still involve something cheesy like cooking dinner together, eating out together, or watching a movie on the couch before we get down to business.

    I'm not sure why I've always had such an aversion to fantasies based entirely on physical lust, but I suspect the reasoning is similar to your own. I value so highly a strong connection between two people, and that itself creates a unique kind of lust. I guess it's just taking me a little time to come around to the fact that whereas I believe one kind of lust is greater than the other, they are both enjoyable in their own way.

    I'm yet to experience them both combined in reality, but I look forward to the day.

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    Re: How have your sexual tastes evolved over time?

    My tastes changed for the better I was straight. Got curious watched gay porn finally tried cock realized its better than pussy I finally realized I'm gay I don't ever want any more pussy I love cock forever

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