I'm talking dirty with a guy through text, and I'm saying stuff to him I never would have said even three years ago. So of course, now I have to ask all you guys!
When I first became sexually active, I was very much a total sub bottom (I didn't even enjoy getting head, just giving it). I was also very vanilla. I stayed that way for quite some time; over the last year and a half or so, I've discovered kink and S&M, and I've dived right into it. I've become a lot more dominant, I'm not a total bottom (I almost prefer topping now) and I'm pretty freaky, all things considered.
What about you?