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    Three-some, is it wierd?

    Out of curiosity, How does a monogamous couple manage to do or setup a 3-some?
    Especially if the 3rd person is a complete stranger you just met. Where do they/you look to add that person to the mix?
    It seems uncomfortable to sexually perform with 3 people, but that's why I come here, to get some opinions and answers.
    I'm just curious

    If anyone can please share some experiences, positions, was it a bad idea? good idea?
    I'm just full of questions

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    In our case, the third person is usually a single friend or part of another couple we know. Or, sometimes it's at home during a regular social visit, but the person was spending the night. Someone we'd socialize with without sex too. Other times, it's at a party with other couples (mostly) who don't think sex and love have to be combined all the time.

    When it's two guys and me, they only want to play with me and not with each other. In that situation, we're all doing it at the same time. When a female friend visits, it's more likely to involve taking turns, or the third person being more of a helper -touching or whatever. For example, I discovered during a group session that having my legs rubbed a certain way during sex made me come faster and harder. Weird, but it wasn't a one time thing. If we hadn't been three, I wouldn't have known that.

    Never had any problems.

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    For three men, this web site has ideas: http://gayspirit.me/gay-sex-guide

    Scroll down to Group Sex, and then to Threesomes (about two-thirds down the page). The pages have techniques, pictures, conceptual issues, etc.

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    wow sounds like a hot experience! but question for you, why the sad face if they want to play with you?
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    Thank you for the link!

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    As long as all three people are consensual about it and safe sex is practiced there shouldn't be a huge issue. Presumably the thried person would have no interest in anything else besides sex. The difficulty arises of course when they want more and will turn into a problem threatening your relationship. That's why you set ground rules. Good 99% of the time!

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    Depends on the situation and the couple. I think three guys who are just "pals" can proceed to have a threesome more easily because there are no deep emotions involved.
    On the other hand if there is a couple and they invite a third person, than the dinamics of the relationships will be possibly upset. Threesomes are not for everyone, as neither are relationships.

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    Awkward when you meet and are attracted to one, but not the other.

    YOU will likely be a sexual surrogate for one or both's fantasy. (a fuck and suck doll -- not a human being)

    Even mono-y-mono that's usually the case, which sucks when you perceive.


    Sucks... I see guys as Swiss cheese(decent, SEEN... conflicted, strange--ok--so are we all), with holes I'm eager to slowly see filled over time. Other guys don't see me or anyone that way. They have shallow, stupid lists, ratings.

    You know what I mean.

    You should not touch nor be touched by those guys.

    They are not like you. They are lost. They are shaddows of humanity, by their own choosing.
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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    Quote Originally Posted by MascutarHero View Post
    wow sounds like a hot experience! but question for you, why the sad face if they want to play with you?
    It's easy to get people to play with me. I don't get to see men playing together. At the risk of stating the obvious, considering the site I'm on, I want to see guys doing each other.

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    Quote Originally Posted by IAMTHATIAM View Post
    Awkward when you meet and are attracted to one, but not the other.

    YOU will likely be a sexual surrogate for one or both's fantasy. (a fuck and suck doll -- not a human being)

    Even mono-y-mono that's usually the case, which sucks when you perceive.


    Sucks... I see guys as Swiss cheese(decent, SEEN... conflicted, strange--ok--so are we all), with holes I'm eager to slowly see filled over time. Other guys don't see me or anyone that way. They have shallow, stupid lists, ratings.

    You know what I mean.

    You should not touch nor be touched by those guys.

    They are not like you. They are lost. They are shaddows of humanity, by their own choosing.
    Oh my...there is so much wrong with this and I am not going to break the no flame rule if possible but I cannot just pretend I didn't see this. "Shadows of humanity" ...because they like three ways??????

    As for the original question...I have had three ways with two of my four lovers and I had a great time...almost every time. It isn't for everyone though. If you are the jealous type or are insecure if your BF looks at or lusts after someone else...probably isn't a good idea if you have a three way.

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    Re: Three-some, is it wierd?

    I think it would be weird if the idea came out of the
    blue one day, after a long monogamous relationship,
    can get kinda awkward.

    However, if a monogamous relationship consists of
    two people who are aware of each others kinkiness,
    and it begins as such, a threesome can happen with ease.

    FYI: I'm NO expert here, just my own hypothesis.

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