but I can suck it up till May, I'm just exhausted from getting nothing but stress from this arrangement.
I think this (mostly) selfless act is giving you good Karma points. It's pretty rare that people really help each other out anymore these days unless they get something in return. Even though he doesn't show it, I'm sure he appreciates it. It could be that he's trying to stay out of your way so as to not be a pest, or to bother you. I know if I was imposing on someone like that, I'd try my damnedest to keep out of their way as much as I could.
Or you could just end up being known as "that guy you can get a room for eight months from for a few blowjobs".
Years ago, I got a late night phone call. One of my co-workers was in jail, and mine was the only number she knew. I went down, bailed her out, and through her tears, she promised eternal friendship and swore she'd pay me back. I told her not to bother paying me back, but to start paying her roommate (another co-worker) the money she owed HER. The first "payment" would've been the next Friday, which I didn't get because she spent it on coke. And I got another panicked phone call from her three months later, again from jail. I hung up on her.
but after he's gone, I'm getting rid of the bed in my spare room so I can have space for a treadmill or something. any future guests will have to sleep uncomfortably on the couch where they can't settle in for the long haul.
So one of my former professors contacted me about her being offered to teach a queer lit/film class at my alma mater. She gave me a list of materials that she considered and I had to shoot down a few of them. One obvious one was History Boys for its adoration of hebephilia [only compounded by the "why doesn't he want to touch me?" scene]. The other big no-no was Angels in America. Considering the length of the material [and I love anything with Meryl Streep too] I suggested 'Holding the Man' for the AIDS aspect. Also, Fuck Rent.
I want to say something..I forgot!!
No, that's me. And ass.
O yeah..there is something different in the way I play the sims 3. When it was the era of sims 2, I just had a fixed idea of how my town must be populated. I only allowed hot-good looking-male-bodybuilders with skimpy clothing, no female character exist. No excuse. It was truly man's man's world.
But right now..I dont care if there are females in my game, I let them populated. I let straight couple exist in my game x_x, my sims aren't must be good looking or wearing sexy clothing, I let the base game created them.
If they born geek, chubby, eccentric, let them be.^^
Yes I still play with gay couple-characters that can pregnant. Yes, my characters still fit and pretty but the difference from my previous way playing sims that I DONT overly micromanaging the simulation world. ^^
Still, I can't bear horrifying sight that my game often randomly generate harsh looking sims with horrendous clothing (Jockstrap for outwear anyone? ) It must be a bug in the game a hell of crazy bugs. Lol ^^
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Many people prefer taking freighters because one gets an authentic experience. By contrast, taking a cruise ship is more like staying in a fancy American hotel.
If anybody else is interested in the topic of sea travel, let me know. I saw a very interesting thread on sea travel on REDDIT that you will find absorbing.
Being a Hornblower fan since I was a kid, I'd love to go on one of these. But only if the cruise company supplies the rubber parrot and no one's flogged for being the last one down from the topmast yardarm.
Quick question ( I almost made a thread about it, but nah ^^)
I have a computer desk with legs around 26.5 inch height, with indentation for keyboard shelves around 3 inch.
I NEVER bought the right chair for my desk- it's always rather too high/low. Too high until I bump my knee a lot or too low until my back hurts.
To all you math advance: What is the appropriate height for my chair so I can sit comfortably enough?
Im 5.8 fyi
Get a height-adjustable chair.
I always got that first but idk the chair feels like hanging mid-way like my feet not really stepping on the ground and holy shit! Very hurt when I stand up.
I asked this because I hunt my chair from thrift store (pardon my budget), they mostly sell auto-fixed adjustable chair, so ^^
I will never have the right desk or desk chair unless I get custom built ones because at 6'4", nothing works well.
Forget the chair, I just witnessed crime scene from the balcon of my apartment
Still I dont know what's going on but I gotta let go my chest 'there!'
On Sunday, I'm flying to Hawaii for a week-long vacation. I'm excited and I know I'll have fun (mostly), but I'm very stressed about it at the moment.
I'm excited and I know I'll have a lot of fun, but I also know that my brother needs about a week to recover emotionally from his week-long fishing trips with our dad.
I just saw the hottest guy in the grocery store. I was so turned on by him I had to rush home and take it out on my better half.
confession: seeing hot guys like the one above makes me (temporarily) miss being single.
Is that wrong?
^It's quite normal, Neo.
After a while, you may find you and your OH checking out other guys together.
MY OH likes Bobby Flay, while I like P. Allen Smith.
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^ Yeah...my partner and I have such different tastes in men that I sometimes go out of my way to point out a "hot" guy, just to see his reaction.
EuroSoccer, I don't think Huntneo is saying that he does it to upset his partner or something. I think he's saying that he does it to amuse his partner because it highlights how different their preferences are. It seems that they're both comfortable with it.
But, yeah, it's certainly not something all couples can do without it leading to awkwardness and jealousy.
I'm always the first person to scoff at superstition and stuff like that...
but the first guy I ever seriously dated claimed to practice "magic" and a small part of me always wonders if he put a curse on me after our breakup, because every relationship problem I've had since him has been a reverse of what happened with us (when we dated, he was way more into me than I was into him... every relationship since has put me on the receiving end of that instead)
80% of me thinks it's all bullshit. But the other 20% wonders.."What if?"..I've heard so many stories over the years, and..
...to digress a moment: years ago, when I worked on a mental ward for a short time, I was the only one who didn't just dismiss the hallucinations that the patients had. Secretly, I wanted to go to the patients, and ask them what the voices were saying to them.....
So I WOULD be just the type to wonder if those stories of hexes, magic, or so, had just the teensiest bit of truth in them. I think there's a lot we humans don't know about the unknown.
Very rarely have I found attraction to be mutual.
^I agree 100%, Borg.
Have give in and been watching a lot of daytime soap dramas with gay characters in the story line. Don't know why so many of the story lines are so sad and depressing I confess looking at them kiss is my favorite part
This might reminds you of Enchanted/Sex Kitten. I have a new genetics prof today and he is smoking hot. I mean when I first met him in lecture, I was blown away, he is in his mid-40s and with his sweet German accent. Perfection. Looking forward to his lectures!
I used to really like Verbotene Liebe - Christian & Oliver they are soooo cute together! I had their pictures as my desktop BG for a while lol.
Currently like Finland's secret Lives - Lari & Elias Very depressing story line Always thought hockey players are hot