Yeah double post!
I think a certain someone on here is a younger version of johannes and suffers from "white knight syndrome" just like him. He is probably oblivious to it but hopefully it catches up to him in due time. I know my roomie has the female equivalent of "Florence Nightingale syndrome" which easily explains why she drowns herself in her work and me too [I have read the diary she has kept on me in which she attempts to unravel my psyche but she hasn't met my dad ever so that is a big '?' in her book.] instead of looking for poon to trib.