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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    Yeah double post!

    I think a certain someone on here is a younger version of johannes and suffers from "white knight syndrome" just like him. He is probably oblivious to it but hopefully it catches up to him in due time. I know my roomie has the female equivalent of "Florence Nightingale syndrome" which easily explains why she drowns herself in her work and me too [I have read the diary she has kept on me in which she attempts to unravel my psyche but she hasn't met my dad ever so that is a big '?' in her book.] instead of looking for poon to trib.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I confess this time of year I am busier than god ...
    Buzzer's busy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    This is one of the most cold-hearted things I've ever read on JUB. Honestly.
    I enjoyed firing those obnoxious annoying people who deserved it too. Although I hated doing seasonal lay offs or when business got slow and it wasn't their fault.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    Yeah...and I've heard of fired employees going back to their place(s) of employment and riddling everyone with bullets.
    I have worked at places where after certain employees were fired, the company was on lock down for a couple weeks where the doors and front gate was locked because the exemployees weren't trusted, or made threats.
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    Pretty scary to think about it Usually only just see the said event sin Tv shows and such. But in tight economy crisis time these days, people can break down emotionally easily over losing jobs.

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    The more I listen to JT's new album, the more I'm liking it. Didn't think it would grow on me but it did.

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    So I was doing my typical Sunday work today and I came home to find a new car parked next to mine and my roomie said that she bought a new car. It was an Audi Q5. I don't really care that she bought that car but I am just baffled that she didn't ask for any input on it.

    God, now I know how it feels to react to dealing with a real introvert like myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    That just seems so out of character for you.

    I admit that I have thoughts about it, but I don't have the temperament to actually carry out someone else's misery.
    There are some people who can't seem to follow rules, thrive on drama and conflict, can't seem to make it to work every day or on time, slack off, aren't team players, and are totally incompetent. These are the ones I am happy to get rid of. They're disruptive to production, and morale.

    As I said before, it was the seasonal lack of work lay offs that bothered me, when I had to let good employees go because the upper management wanted to save a buck.

    You think I picked this avatar out of thin air?
    I am all about efficiency and production and have no qualms about getting rid of the slackers that just show up expecting a free ride.
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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    I should make an addendum I guess. I had patrons complain at the bar I work at on Saturday afternoons that one of the bartenders reeked of marijuana. I normally wouldn't care as long as it doesn't effect their job performance and in this case, it did. I could easily smell it on him and he tried to deny it at first but admitted to after and I had to fire him. Why I got a jolly out of it is because of my "type A" personality. If you have to fucking smoke pot on the job because your life is supposedly that miserable, then you need to reevaluate your life.

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    ^I'm in the same boat. I would rather have an asshole that was good at their job than a nice person that sucked at it. Reckon a lot of "assholes" at work would be a tad aggravating so I could tolerate some "suckers" but I would determine asshole suckers easily.

    TBH I learned about that back when I raided while playing World of Warcraft. I had to deal with an asshole officer who would point out everyone's flaws [including his own too] but it helped us improve as a collective group.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    INTJ? ^ Borg?
    No idea. Never took the test/quiz. Not that I believe in astrology either, but I am an Aries, if that tells you anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    No idea. Never took the test/quiz. Not that I believe in astrology either, but I am an Aries, if that tells you anything.
    LMAO! INTJ relates to psychology and the Jungian personality profiles.

    As an aside, I had to put someone on ignore on here because they said they were and INTJ and a socialist and those two should never be together. INTJs are the "libertarians" of the world and are self-sufficient. 'NT' personalities tend to be the most "conservative" of the Jungian personality types.

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    I wish I have more time and money to invest on cooking. I really like cooking especially for my friends and family, to see how impress they are on my cooking. I get a thrill out of it. I describe my cooking skills as odd. I don't follow recipe, I just add things as I feel like, and most of time it turns out really good. I am not really good with herbs thou. It's so expensive in here and I just couldn't afford it, so most of my ingredients will be onions, chili, capsicums and cabbage.

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    Of all the household chores, I actually don't mind scrubbing out the toilets.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by glasvegas View Post
    I wish I have more time and money to invest on cooking. I really like cooking especially for my friends and family, to see how impress they are on my cooking. I get a thrill out of it. I describe my cooking skills as odd. I don't follow recipe, I just add things as I feel like, and most of time it turns out really good. I am not really good with herbs thou. It's so expensive in here and I just couldn't afford it, so most of my ingredients will be onions, chili, capsicums and cabbage.
    That's how I tend to cook, when I get a chance to. I call it free-lance cooking...
    I don't really cook for others that often but when I do, they are usually pleasantly surprised and ask for the recipe out of curiosity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    I believe that individual may have a low "T" score.
    Yep. NFs are the "moralist" archetype with INFJs being the socialists. Said person may like to think they are an INTJ but they really are a INFJ. I know I have a soft "j" when I get really moody but that has no relation to this discussion.

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    ^It's the mannequin problem and tattoos do not make you "unique"!

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    ^
    The other day I was watching a porn where all 4-5 guys looked nearly identical in their build, hair color, cock size/shape... all nearly hairless on their bodies... it was like watching a drawer full of Ken dolls being shook around.
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    @ glasvegas @dereperez
    I think it' awesome when guys can and like to cook. I would love to learn how to cook too. It would probably save up some money as well. My housemate currently studies Culinary arts yet she never cooks or bakes anything even for herself which seems really odd. But I guess it could be because she have already spent her whole week dealing with work aka cooking so it would be annoying when you have to work again during your free time.

    @JP
    Yeah haha. Photoshop does wonders Social media can make the any guy "hot" if it is spread around enough and get enough "likes" or re-blogs. It's all in the head. I don't see a lot of model looking guys around my school but I do see some really good looking/ hot/ model like people that goes to the rink quite often when I practice. I admit they are good eye candy but I am not really inclined to approach or know them just because they are hot unless they stop me for chat.
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    ^^^ This one... but with 4-5 guys. The way it was edited, and they kept changing camera angle all the time it was hard to tell.
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    I gotta confess even though close, sometimes talking about gay sex and relationship stuffs with str8 guys feels a little bit weird. (Since I don't have rl gay friends ) At least they are open about it and not too judgy.

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    ^I'm in the same boat. I would rather have an asshole that was good at their job than a nice person that sucked at it. Reckon a lot of "assholes" at work would be a tad aggravating so I could tolerate some "suckers" but I would determine asshole suckers easily.

    TBH I learned about that back when I raided while playing World of Warcraft. I had to deal with an asshole officer who would point out everyone's flaws [including his own too] but it helped us improve as a collective group.
    Then I doubt you've ever worked in a workplace where teamwork and cooperation are at all a part of a job, because someone being an asshole in that context DOES affect their ability to do said job, regardless of their raw natural talent. Someone toxic even socially to a workplace environment is not as good at their work as someone more mediocre but more of a team player.

    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    LMAO! INTJ relates to psychology and the Jungian personality profiles.

    As an aside, I had to put someone on ignore on here because they said they were and INTJ and a socialist and those two should never be together. INTJs are the "libertarians" of the world and are self-sufficient. 'NT' personalities tend to be the most "conservative" of the Jungian personality types.
    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    I believe that individual may have a low "T" score.
    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    Yep. NFs are the "moralist" archetype with INFJs being the socialists. Said person may like to think they are an INTJ but they really are a INFJ. I know I have a soft "j" when I get really moody but that has no relation to this discussion.
    This is about me, btw, Johann.

    And I might throw in, the idea of "I put someone on ignore because he dared to identify as Socialist and INTJ unlike pure, true INTJ's like myself who are libertarians such as myself" is possibly the dumbest reason I have ever heard in my life for anyone putting anyone else on ignore in an online community. Max doesn't know the first thing about me, least of which being that I am a reformed conservative.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Then I doubt you've ever worked in a workplace where teamwork and cooperation are at all a part of a job, because someone being an asshole in that context DOES affect their ability to do said job, regardless of their raw natural talent. Someone toxic even socially to a workplace environment is not as good at their work as someone more mediocre but more of a team player.

    This is about me, btw, Johann.

    And I might throw in, the idea of "I put someone on ignore because he dared to identify as Socialist and INTJ unlike pure, true INTJ's like myself who are libertarians such as myself" is possibly the dumbest reason I have ever heard in my life for anyone putting anyone else on ignore in an online community. Max doesn't know the first thing about me, least of which being that I am a reformed conservative.
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    YES!!! I can hear the music playing now!!!
    I can hear you drooling.
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    Well...I don't think I ever knew an INTJ before Buzz but thanks to him I am a fan now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    I can hear you grunting, dragging your club.
    Are you mocking my club foot?
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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    I can hear you drooling.
    I've drooled over Buzzer a time or two.
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    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    Well...I don't think I ever knew an INTJ before Buzz but thanks to him I am a fan now.
    Likewise due to you I am a fan of INFJ.

    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    Are you mocking my club foot?
    That was your foot?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    I've drooled over Buzzer a time or two.
    Was it just a reaction to the cybernetic implants?

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    if teamwork is a part of the job and their attitude is detrimental to that, then obviously you couldn't simultaneously say that they do a good job even though they're an asshole.

    in my current field, there isn't much teamwork involved. for the most part, everyone pretty much does their own thing and the only major work-related interaction I have with most coworkers is passing off on-going issues when I'm going off shift (or getting stuff passed down to me in the morning). I've got a few coworkers who I haven't actually spoken with in the 4 years I've been in my current position... they could be raging a-holes and I'd have no idea.
    It depends on the work environment. In corporate business, you have to be cutthroat or you can expect to see the ax several times. I learned this after a few months on my first "real job" that people are only nice to you if they want something out of you. Had a falling out with a few friends because I had trouble separating my business persona from my actual self. Thankfully I no longer work in that type of environment.

    Course now at my current work, they are all really pleasant to be around but most of them are terrible at their job and only stick around due to seniority and the current head is too nice to let those "senior" people go. If they company wasn't struggling and being bought out, she probably would care more.

    Life lesson for others: "a jovial accountant is a bad one."

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    Was it just a reaction to the cybernetic implants?
    ...Resistance was Futile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    It depends on the work environment. In corporate business, you have to be cutthroat or you can expect to see the ax several times. I learned this after a few months on my first "real job" that people are only nice to you if they want something out of you. Had a falling out with a few friends because I had trouble separating my business persona from my actual self. Thankfully I no longer work in that type of environment.

    Course now at my current work, they are all really pleasant to be around but most of them are terrible at their job and only stick around due to seniority and the current head is too nice to let those "senior" people go. If they company wasn't struggling and being bought out, she probably would care more.

    Life lesson for others: "a jovial accountant is a bad one."
    I work in accounting as well and while I wouldn't coinflip do precisely what you have done and insist that my experiences represent the universal totality of all experiences, I can definitely say that your wide-reaching statements are not at all accurate about the field, and that accountants much like hairstylists or even doctors are frequently re-visited because people trust and feel comfortable with them personally, and personality is a big part of the job. Also, I have found most frequently that people who adopt your stance of "anyone nice to you is just preparing to backstab you" is most usually just projecting their own behavior onto everyone else and assuming it's how everyone is because that's how they are.

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    I confess that I'm back.

    So did I miss anything in my absence?

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I work in accounting as well and while I wouldn't coinflip do precisely what you have done and insist that my experiences represent the universal totality of all experiences, I can definitely say that your wide-reaching statements are not at all accurate about the field, and that accountants much like hairstylists or even doctors are frequently re-visited because people trust and feel comfortable with them personally, and personality is a big part of the job. Also, I have found most frequently that people who adopt your stance of "anyone nice to you is just preparing to backstab you" is most usually just projecting their own behavior onto everyone else and assuming it's how everyone is because that's how they are.
    SO TRUE!!!!!! I found the same thing with people who think everyone else is a thief. You learn everything you need to know about people by what they say about other people if you are paying attention. As I rent square footage to people in my store to sell antiques....I do not let anyone in who thinks everyone else is a thief...or a liar. The other big red flag..."At my last place we were all one big happy family" Fuck that! LOL As a result...I have pretty much zero internal theft and thanks to leaving the "family folks" out of the picture...no drama!

    You are right about accountants too. I went to maybe 15 of them in a row many years ago...went through the phone book...until I found the one I have had now for many years. She made me laugh and feel comfortable instantly and come to find otu,,,she has spoken before Congress....has had lunch with Clinton and Feisntein and knows Boxer...has her pic with each of them...very political Democrat. I have brought her maybe 20 clients over the years who all still use her and love her as much as I do. She has quite a fan club!

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    With all due respect, Max, I have to echo these sentiments.

    I see a common thread of mistrust in other human beings in your nature. Why?

    I think most people are basically good, even though we all do have a little bit of devil in us.
    That is chalked up to being bullied as a teen. No sympathies please.

    Anyways, as I pointed out "in the corporate world" it is very cutthroat. Particularly when I worked in corporate finance where many people will in fact steal your good ideas and claim them as their own. Still am pissed at my coworker for claiming my section of a SWOT on a company I did.
    I love doing bookkeeping for the smaller businesses like the bar and yes, I do the books for a hair salon on Newbury Street in Boston. At those jobs, I get sit down with the owners 1-on-1 and actually have a conversation instead of just mindlessly going through a list of clients who are 90% of the time, calling about a complaint or me doing the same to them at my current job. It really takes a lot of the wind out of your sails.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    The fact that you don't welcome a sympathetic ear sugggests to me, Max, that you may be afraid of letting people get too close to you, lest you get hurt.
    I'm well aware the fact that I put up a tough front and have been told by several others that same thing. I was a doormat for others throughout my teen years and I probably have overcompensated for my brutishness in my early adult life. Again, nobody wants to continually revisit bad memories in the past which is why I don't want people to feel bad for me because it's like reopening the same wound over and over again.

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    I like maxpowr9, he's cute and friendly.

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    1. I've become quite apathetic when it comes to my nonexistent dating/sex life. Other people seem very concerned by this.

    2. A few of my friends (not those who know me really well) think I'm cocky or arrogant. This has always perplexed me as I feel like I'm lacking self-confidence in many areas and am always second guessing myself and my abilities (to the point that I sometimes don't take work that I know I can do). I do display an air of confidence and comfort with myself and I'm usually pretty laid back (on the outside). I try to set others at ease by being assertive and acting like I know what I'm doing.

    I've worked hard to cope with all of my anxieties and health issues over the years and part of that involves putting up a bit of a barrier and practicing a certain composure. I think this, mixed with my shyness, is sometimes mistaken for something like arrogance.

    But most people (especially those who really know me) don't seem to think that about me at all so I guess I shouldn't worry. It does kind of upset me, though, to know that people think I'm cocky when I find humbleness to be an important attribute. Plus, the friends who do think that I'm cocky have enormous egos and I usually see that in people who are not really that comfortable with themselves.

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    I'd go out with you in a New York minute. (I've seen your picture, Mister. )


    The problem is that I won't go out with anyone. I'm not opposed to the idea, but I'm also okay with being single right now so I feel like it's fine to be picky.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justsimon View Post


    The problem is that I won't go out with anyone. I'm not opposed to the idea, but I'm also okay with being single right now so I feel like it's fine to be picky.
    I'm in a similar boat. I just have no interest in playing the game to meet someone atm. I'm well beyond that pettiness. I need someone with conviction who at least as has an idea of what they want out of life.

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    Are we playing diagnose JUB members now?

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    I'm usually very laid back and don't easily get annoyed, but there is one poster that constantly irks me lately.

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    ^^^^
    If it's JUST one, you're doing pretty good!!!
    I've got a list.
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    I'm well aware the fact that I put up a tough front and have been told by several others that same thing. I was a doormat for others throughout my teen years and I probably have overcompensated for my brutishness in my early adult life. Again, nobody wants to continually revisit bad memories in the past which is why I don't want people to feel bad for me because it's like reopening the same wound over and over again.
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster.

    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    Subconsciously, I think you're afraid of commitment, due to an underlying fear of being hurt.

    On the other hand, you have shared with us the fact that you're an INTJ. INTJs, more than any other group, can remain very happy staying single.
    I feel that I am definitely OK with the state of being single, though I had thought this was more a "maturing" thing and hadn't thought of it as an "INTJ" thing, but maybe it's both.

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    My daily confession...sometimes I'd like to say "fuck everything" and abandon my current life, move to Japan, and attend sushi school. This feeling usually only happens when I eat amazing sushi (ex. two minutes ago), and want to binge-eat raw fish like there's no tomorrow. I have no idea what it was, haha...avocado, cream cheese, onion, lobster, shrimp, crab, teriyaki sauce and spicy cherry mayo...altogether...but ahhhh! SO GOOD!

    I love seafood so much. Should have been a hetero.
    blacksyringe

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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    Quote Originally Posted by JP. View Post
    ^
    I thought straight guys love chicken wings (hot wings) much haha ^^
    kudos for your love of sushi
    I must eat sushi at least twice in a month ^^

    (and you're not even japanese?)
    Nope, not Japanese, but I do have an affinity for Japan. I'm not a crazy-anime-furry/overblown-stereotype though. I worked for Honda once. Does that count?
    blacksyringe

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    I can't figure out if I should know who the JUBber called crimsonpaine is.

    (I'm assuming he's someone who's changed his name? Yes? No?)

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    I really want to own some fur.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    (I'm assuming he's someone who's changed his name? Yes? No?)
    God, am I tired of the name changing game.

    If you've changed your name multiple times, or you can't be forthright about your name change: you suck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    I can't figure out if I should know who the JUBber called crimsonpaine is.

    (I'm assuming he's someone who's changed his name? Yes? No?)
    Well this sure is random.

    I am who I have always been, have never changed my name.
    I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it.



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    Re: The Official Unofficial Provisional Impromptu 2013 Confessions thread

    Kinda excited for tomorrow's shooting as there's not much going on this week other than JUB. Hopefully things go well and my shooting partner would be able to put his family drama thing on hold so we can conecentrate.

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