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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    This is all you need to know:

    Never go to a public orgy.
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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Quote Originally Posted by Just_Believe18 View Post
    This is all you need to know:

    Never go to a public orgy.
    Yeah, but it's a private orgy


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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    dude you have to go

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    i would try to find out who organises the orgy (in whose house it takes place) and then make contact with him, to see what vibes he gives off.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    If I were you, I would drive (or get someone to drive you) by this address/house and check out the neighborhood the next few days. If it is a house alone in the woods in the swamp, skip it!

    If it is at the White House, GO!

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I would check the date.

    The 26th is Saturday.

    Sunday is the 27th.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Be funny if the 60 year old is the hottest one there....
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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Sounds like fun! Better see photos of them first and play safe!

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    You're welcome to go and sit on the periphery as they start. If it doesn't float your boat, you can leave.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Hmm... I think you'll turn up and it will just be you and some dude in his 60's.

    Oh look I guess it's just us so shall we get started?

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I'm thinking AshyPhoenix's avatar should go here.


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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I would... even though I'd be the youngest one there.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Its the woman in me saying this but...

    I wouldn't go if I were you. Id be worried about getting gang raped, tortured and murdered. Be careful if you do go.
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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    hell ya, i would go!!!

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    He was impressive. He answered in detail every question I had like what happens at orgy. he has had one before. He said he will show me his photo if he knows I am coming. For me, knowing what to expect - what guys look like - is important. So there are no surprises.
    did you guys just communicate with chat/text/mail, or did you talk to him on the phone or video chat? in my experience, its hard to "get a vibe" through chatting or texting alone, and lies come easy in written form. but if you can hear his voice, and you have a good feeling about him, then id say youre good to go!

    i will however not even say anything about your anxiety issues or whatever youve got going on there, because thats something you and only you can make decisions about.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    I checkedd my mail and I have two offers to drive me. One I would pass on but the other guy was sexy.
    Good. Never accept a ride from an unattractive man.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Can someone educate me? I may be the most naive gay man on the planet. Or the least exposed. Are orgies common? Who organizes these things? Are they private parties thrown by a couple or a group of friends? Or by unofficial bathhouse clubs or?

    I'm so perplexed. I wasn't seriously aware that orgies actually went on. Since Rome.

    Is there etiquette to orgies? What happens if someone you really really aren't attracted to just starts manhandling you?

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Can someone educate me? I may be the most naive gay man on the planet. Or the least exposed. Are orgies common? Who organizes these things? Are they private parties thrown by a couple or a group of friends? Or by unofficial bathhouse clubs or?

    I'm so perplexed. I wasn't seriously aware that orgies actually went on. Since Rome.

    Is there etiquette to orgies? What happens if someone you really really aren't attracted to just starts manhandling you?
    "How do orgies work?" is a bit like asking "How do parties work?" It depends on the orgy.

    Some are private affairs. You invite your sexually open friends to come over and have sex. Sometimes, a friend might suggest bringing a new friend along, but that's as far as that goes.

    For the online ones, I'm assuming there's a filter in place. Somebody organizes the event and gives the date, time and vague area. Interested parties contact him, he chats with them, decides if they're "cool", and if so, he'll give the location.

    I'm assuming etiquette is similar to bathhouse etiquette. Be open to possibilities, but respect people's boundaries. If you really don't want to do something, you say so, and they're supposed to respect your wishes.

    No, never done one. I might be up for one someday. The fact that I tend to like "regular" people means I might enjoy it.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    If I had the anxiety issues you say you have I wouldn't even consider it.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I don't doubt your anxiety - I'm just unclear if an orgy is a necessary step in this equation. Because I'm guessing 99.9% of people never take part in an orgy. And 99.9% of them aren't avoiding orgies because of anxiety issues. They just have no interest in taking part. It may be that you at some point down the line said this: "I've always dreamed of taking part in an orgy. The only thing holding me back was my anxiety." And if that's really and truly the case, then yeah - go for it, and I hope it kicks ass. But if you think taking part in an orgy is just some random stepping stone towards "feeling good about myself again", I'm not sure I agree. It reads like those hucksters who say they'll teach you to "live your dreams" by making you go firewalking.

    Lex
    Last edited by G-Lexington; January 22nd, 2013 at 01:49 PM.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    So I should just waste away? not try anything?
    that's productive, not
    I do not know you, other than from this Forum. I do not doubt your anxiety issues. I have them myself -- although not as severe as you. I have conquered them very gradually.

    Go if you think it will advance your "cure." But for goodness sake leave yourself boltholes or escapes. A full blown panic attack under these circumstances could be more regressive than therapeutic.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Don't do it OP I'm only teasing. Just do me a favor and be safe.
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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I would give it a miss if I was you mate.
    An orgy with strangers is never a good idea.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I haven't been with a "bunch of naked guys" since...well, I don't know. Maybe when I changed at the water park a few months ago? When I was in a steam room a couple years back? I don't think I have body issues, really (the naked photos suggest that), but neither am I all that interested in tracking down groups to be naked in. It's just not a situation I find myself in.

    Again, I'm not interested in talking you out of this. I just want to make sure you're doing this for the right reason. To wit, "taking part in an orgy sound really fun and hot". If so, then yes, feel free. Play safe, play smart, but go play. But if you're still equating "not taking part in this orgy" with "giving in to my anxiety fears", I think there's a disconnect there.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I'd forget it. Way too complicated.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    Maybe Im dumb but I dont know what that means.

    If I dont go, that means I am letting my anxiety get the best of me?

    confused
    Close. You shouldn't equate "maybe I shouldn't go to this orgy (or any orgy)" with "I'm letting my anxiety rule my life". Because there are plenty of reasons not to go to an orgy that have nothing to do with your anxiety ssues. There are other ways to push you anxiety limits that don't involve orgies.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    My friend went to one to look around. I guess I'd go if it were close.
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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    I personally am not into orgies, but if you have a curiosity that needs to be scratched, then hey why not? But just as with most things in life, take it with a grain of salt. Find out more from the guy and if it's truly legit, he would be comfortable enough in divulging more info to you. Maybe bring a willing friend along?

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Do it if you really want to, not someone pressuring you to. I am not into orgy, I am not even into threesome. Perhaps just watch at the sideline first then decide if you want to be in it?

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Intimacy with strangers?

    Oxymoron

    To touch and be touched by...

    some random person. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT.

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Quote Originally Posted by IAMTHATIAM View Post
    Intimacy with strangers?

    Oxymoron

    To touch and be touched by...

    some random person. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT.
    Some people get off on that, nothing wrong with it. Different strokes (pun intended).

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    Re: I was invited to an orgy - Sunday, Jan 26 - not sure if Im going to go

    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    Lex beat me to it.
    Cupid and Lex and Palbert beat me to it.

    But if you think you might enjoy it...then go for it.

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