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    Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    My cousin who is one of the greatest people in my life her and her gf know this guy who is gay and apparently wants to meet me and be friend's with me. And believe me im all for it he also told my cousins gf that he wouldnt mind if i moved in whith him because he would enjoy the company. The thing is my cousins gf told me i wasnt his type and that kinda hurt but if i did meet him and we hit it off despite me not being his type would it still be possible to have a physical relationship with him if not more after we get to know each other or do you think it is a lost cause beacuse i am not his type? Any advice on how to maybe persure him and get him to like me or anything would be of help.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Tell your cousin and her girlfriend that you would like to meet him...regardless if he's your type or not. Say you're always looking forward to make new friends. Get his number from them; then call him. Don't wait for your cousin or her girlfriend to arrange the date for you.

    Take control of your own life. Don't let other people run your life for you.

    Good luck!

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    dude youre probably gonna think im mean but ill just say it: judging from this question, youre not mature enough to move in with anybody.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Thanks to both of you. And hylas trust me i know im not.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    All the above advice is true.....SLOW DOWN ! Meet the guy on your own and make your own grounded decision if you think you are ready to do so. You have not met the guy yet and you are talking about moving in and having a relationship whether you two get along or not! Really... slow down and think. Think for a really long time if needed.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    if I didnt meet guys simply because they werent 'my type' then i would have missed out on alot great relationships.. you will never truely know a persons 'type' until you actually get the know them.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Im not the one think about it he said he owuld like for me to move in. ALl im thinking about is the relationship part. Thanks for your help and thanks for not being too harsh You guys are really great.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Why get stuck into a relationship so soon and with someone you really don't know. I agree with Jensu.

    translate it this way, when he says you're not his type, he most likely means he doesn't usually go for guys like you but he finds you hot none the less...


    I don't usually eat seafood, can't stand it, but I love grilled talapia and some nice crispy fish n chips.
    (just don't fuck any fish while you're trying things out with this dude)

    I have a thing for redheads, that's "my type"
    doesn't mean it's the only type of person I go out with or date.
    I love black chicks and latino dudes make my dick hard, go figure.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Well ill be meeting him soon. I ask my cousin what he looks like he sounds exactly like what id like to have in a bf. I hope it comes to that. Eventually.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Good luck man. Be yourself and be confident!

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Thanks dude you guys are amazeing.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    The guy turned out to be a total prick. I could do soooo much better.

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    Re: Need a bit of advice and maybe a bit of help

    Well, there you go. Sorry to hear that, and better luck next time.

    I know it's after the fact, but I'd like to throw my $0.02 in just the same:
    Next time try not to think about it so much, and just go with the flow. Over thinking will just stress you out. Just try to relax and have fun seeing where it goes.

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