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    True Confessions

    The problem with confessions is that they have consequences.

    Just ask Lance Armstrong.

    Or some others.

    Confessions extracted under threat are never as satisfying as those that pour from the soul out of an innate sense of wanting to set things right.

    And confessions without remorse are a waste of everyone's time.


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    I think a true confession has an element of humility that cannot be forced...or faked.

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    confessions can be an honour because it means someone opens up and lets you in, if only for a moment.

    confessions can be burdens if they are thoughtlessly thrust upon someone who didnt ask for any such shit.

    confessions on the dancefloor was way overrated.

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    "A fault confessed is half redressed."

    Only half mind you.

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    ^ don't confess it then - leave it totally naked!

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    "Confession of errors is like a broom which sweeps away the dirt and leaves the surface brighter and clearer. I feel stronger for confession." ~ Mahatma Gandhi


    "The surest way to make a monkey of a man is to quote him."
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    Quote Originally Posted by quasar View Post
    ^ don't confess it then - leave it totally naked!
    For you, Quasar dear, nothing but the naked truth.

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    Confessions are selfish.

    Give a man a fish, he'll eat for a day.
    Give a man religion, and he'll starve praying for a fish.

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    By and large, my true confessions are met with a much higher degree of skepticism than my insincere confessions. Especially when it comes to family. I guess suspecting the unknown is easier than accepting the known, so true confessions get blown off while bullshit gets a pass.

    Honesty guarantees nothing. Confessions can't be controlled.

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    I confess I love this album.


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    I will assume we are talking about the confession of some wrongdoing and not, let's say, the confession of love to another person.

    The nature of true confession of wrong is humbling. As it should be. When the confession comes with the addendum "this doesn't make me a bad person" or "at least I didn't kill someone", the confessor is less than contrite or honest.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Agreed.

    True confession evokes forgiveness and redemption on the part of the observer, as an honest person recognizes himself in the contrite before him, and knows what it is to want to begin anew.

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    I was wondering any other big names cyclists cheated the sport ?

    Example, did these people cheat ?
    Greg LeMond
    Miguel Indurain
    Any other big names ?


    Also, why are there no punishments for the East German sports ?
    That is why not ask them to return all their medals.
    I think it is unfair to punish one person harshly but let East Germans keep their titles.


    NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.

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    So few so-called "confessions" are in fact confessions.

    A good chunk are gossip. "I confess I have a ten-inch cock." "I confess I had sex with three different guys last night...and a fourth is pounding me as I type this." Meant to enhance your reputation rather than cleanse your soul.

    Other are mild admissions. "I confess to loving Gangham Style." "I confess I cried at the end of Bambi." Maybe mildly embarrassing, but nothing beyond that.

    Still others are quiet requests for pity. "I confess I cried myself to sleep last night again." "I confess I feel very lonely all the time." I'm not deriding those who try to get emotional strokes any way they can get them, but they're not really confessions.

    A true confession, I think, was like posting my first nude photo. Literally. Laying yourself out bare, showing not just the positive sides but the negative as well. And just as uncomfortable, since you don't know how people will react.

    I don't have anything to confess, so far as I know. Maybe I'll think of something later.

    Lex

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    I'm annoyed that its taken so long to have the real conffession thread come back, all these imatation confession thread is just not the same.

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    Tell me..... tell me everything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bonerfied View Post
    I'm annoyed that its taken so long to have the real conffession thread come back, all these imatation confession thread is just not the same.
    I doubt if the original thread will ever return.

    It was okay as long as people didn't actually confess anything that could actually damage their reputation on JUB.

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    ^^^

    Too many people used it more of a "Dear Diary" then a true confessions of heinous acts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    ^^^

    Too many people used it more of a "Dear Diary" then a true confessions of heinous acts.
    Honestly it sorta seems like that's all the mods WANTED us to use it as.

    One true confession and they close it. lol.

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    Confessions can sometimes lead to large consequences, but if planned correctly, can lead to massive benefits.

    http://www.amazon.com/If-Did-It-Conf.../dp/B002HJ3HOS

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    Quote Originally Posted by youfiad View Post
    Confessions can sometimes lead to large consequences, but if planned correctly, can lead to massive benefits.

    http://www.amazon.com/If-Did-It-Conf.../dp/B002HJ3HOS
    I half expected that to be written by OJ Simpson.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Honestly it sorta seems like that's all the mods WANTED us to use it as.

    One true confession and they close it. lol.
    True... we were told, "You Can't Handle the Truth".
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    The worst thing I have done in the past 10 years....and if you judge me it is OK because I judge myself all the time because of this...

    I have a horrible case of Survivors Guilt and it sometimes cripples me...

    I helped with a quilt early on and I can't even get in to the building to see it or any of the rest of them...I can't stop crying. It is too much for me...this is the only thing I hope to still overcome because I REALLY want to see the quilt...I have accepted that I will have to live with the rest of it...

    So...my confession...when I was on facebook after a short time when a couple people found me I got a slew of friend requests from people I hadn't seen in years...and I accepted them...and then the new stories (and some old one) of what HIV and AIDS has done to them and requests for help and companionship...and I totally freaked out.

    The thing is...I have nothing left. I lost too many people and I was very involved and I just can't face it anymore...and there is NO WAY I am going to say that to any one of them...so I left like a coward. My official reason is that facebook is creepy...and it is for me... because it is nothing but a marketer's wet dream IMO... and just imagine if Hitler had access to Facebook...YIKES...and I probably would have left anyway...but I just can't handle dying and death anymore. I yell at myself for being a prick because my discomfort is nothing compared to what they are going through and I dont' think I have any right to feel the way I do...but I do feel that way and I have tried but I can't help it.

    So...that's it.

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    I can understand. It's tough to have to face this sort of thing on a regular basis. You don't always "build up a tolerance to it".

    Lex

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    You're not being a prick. Nobody owes anyone this type of strength and involvement and there is nothing wrong in not having it. I don't think I do either, and I have far less of a reason than you.
    That we are capable only of being what we are, remains our unforgivable sin.
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    Even on an airplane they tell you... secure your oxygen mask before helping others.

    I think it's totally understandable, Eastofeden, and I think it's only a disservice if you try to make yourself give support you can't afford to give.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    So few so-called "confessions" are in fact confessions.

    A good chunk are gossip. "I confess I have a ten-inch cock." "I confess I had sex with three different guys last night...and a fourth is pounding me as I type this." Meant to enhance your reputation rather than cleanse your soul.

    Other are mild admissions. "I confess to loving Gangham Style." "I confess I cried at the end of Bambi." Maybe mildly embarrassing, but nothing beyond that.

    Still others are quiet requests for pity. "I confess I cried myself to sleep last night again." "I confess I feel very lonely all the time." I'm not deriding those who try to get emotional strokes any way they can get them, but they're not really confessions.

    A true confession, I think, was like posting my first nude photo. Literally. Laying yourself out bare, showing not just the positive sides but the negative as well. And just as uncomfortable, since you don't know how people will react.

    I don't have anything to confess, so far as I know. Maybe I'll think of something later.

    Lex
    Sounds like more of a combination of "mild admission" and "request for pity" to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    Sounds like more of a combination of "mild admission" and "request for pity" to me.
    "request for sex" imo.

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    I'm over the Benderboy inccident.

    So for me its all forgiven.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    "request for sex" imo.
    That I'll confess readily.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bonerfied View Post
    I'm over the Benderboy inccident.

    So for me its all forgiven.
    Well, that makes one of us. Two if you count Benderboy.

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    ^ lol.

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    If CupidBoy can forgive everyone can. I cared the most. It seems that the people most concerned are the ones who cared the least.

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    No doubt everyone can forgive Bendy, but, as is always the prerogative of the transgressed, forgiven is a choice.

    I look back on the PMs and comments I have had with Bendy over the months, and I can't find anything to forgive from my perspective. He never asked me to admire him, never sent pics or anything of that nature to get into my good graces, and never encouraged me to be a devotee. We were online friends, mostly with humor or philosophic discussions, as I am with dozens of guys here. To be sure, it was fun in a different way due to the perception that it was with a sage and handsome young Scot, but not predicated on that.

    To the point that he misrepresented himself, I resigned myself a few years back to that not being the most important thing, as I remember my dear friend RobertAC and his mea culpa about his fabricated relationship on here. I was and am certain that Robert is a fine man, just one who wanted something, something basic, so very, very much. I can see that may be the case for Bendy, but I'm not assuming that, just giving it room to be.

    I have several good friends on JUB and have never seen their real faces, such as Anders123, Sixthson, and others, and I love them no less for it, so I don't have to see Bendy to remain his friend.

    As for coming clean, that would provide closure in my mind and probably for others, but coercion is a poor motivation. I'm interested in people, and Bendy remains a man whom I'd like to understand more, so I'm here for that when he wants to share it, privately or otherwise.

    Others have the right to not feel that way, and justly, so I have no upbraiding for them either. This forum is a voluntary confederation, and none of us have an onus to like everyone here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    If CupidBoy can forgive everyone can. I cared the most. It seems that the people most concerned are the ones who cared the least.
    Nicely stated.

    As Cupid says, if anyone has had their trust in a person dashed on the rocks in plain view of everyone else...it is Cupid.

    What a wonderful person to forgive someone for doing this to them.

    To be honest everyone, it just isn't worth belabouring.

    We can go to our respective corners on this whole affair. Without having to compromise one's own feelings about all of this.

    I guess what it comes down to at the end of the day is that not one of us can actually trust one another to be open and honest about ourselves on JUB. As long as no one is socio-pathologically vile and destructive, I can live with that.
    Last edited by rareboy; January 22nd, 2013 at 06:29 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    If CupidBoy can forgive everyone can. I cared the most. It seems that the people most concerned are the ones who cared the least.
    Perhaps that's because those of us furthest from the situation can see it the clearest. If you have forgiven him, that's all to the good. And if anoyne wants to think less of me for thinking less, that's of course up to them.

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    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
    - anonymous quote.

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    I confess that this gif is very useful...

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    I'm sorry I'm not being more interesting. But the fact is - I'm not more interesting.

    ...that'll have to do for a true confession for now. I think Johann can provide the deets.

    Lex

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    I confess this has now become my favourite gif.

    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
    - anonymous quote.

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    MOVING IMAGE: A green-skinned, side-winged gargoyle glances up for a second from his game of solitaire, then resumes concentrating on the tableau in front of him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    I'm sorry I'm not being more interesting. But the fact is - I'm not more interesting.

    ...that'll have to do for a true confession for now. I think Johann can provide the deets.

    Lex
    I'mma go get the 4-1-1 from the J-dawg on the downlow brb.

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    Step carefully, sir, because there's more tea there than will fit in your pot.

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    I confess this has now become my favourite gif.


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