Ok so basically I'm not sure if I have an STD infection or some form of IBS. Stomach gets upset often, diarrhea and loose stool often with a yellowy mucus and fishy smell. Often never fully defecating and usually with thin small pieces of stool. I could tolerate the bowel movements and stomach ache if it wasn't for the extreme itching and tenderness that comes with it. I've had a generic blood sample std in the past (came back negative on everything) but was reading up about proctitis caused by STD and that sounded possible and wasn't sure if a general blood test would be 100% or if I needed a sample from the "infected" area. I'm usually a top and have only bottomed a couple times and once without a condom.
So I guess first question is has anyone had similar problems w/ confirmed cause of STD. Second question is if there is any place to get the necessary test done 100% anonymous (I am concerned about my privacy and don't want it appearing on any medical records). I'm assuming if I could get an anonymous test and it did come back positive I'd have to have medical records because you'd need a prescription for the medication as it's not over the counter. I'm really tired of living with this and have to know if its cause is an STD or something else.
Thanks so much!