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    Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    I heard this topic on the radio last week, so I thought I would ask the same question here.

    "Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?"

    In my case, in my single days, I never dated any of my friends exs. Yet I did this out of loyalty to my friends AND the fact that I did not want sloppy seconds (not to be corn-fused with the JUB member by the name of Sloppy Seconds).

    What are your views of this?

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    What goes around travels around. You're being unnecessarily Victorian.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    "I did not want sloppy seconds"? Meaning all guys are either virgins or whores?

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    I married him

    Of course they had long since broken up so he was free. I didn't pursue him while they were dating. It was sort of strange having to tell my friend I was dating his ex
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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    If there's clickage... yes.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    How can I explain this so it makes sense...

    I was seeing this Guy for a period of time. I met one of his long time Gay Buds. I never met that guys boyfriend because he worked odd hours. So he didnt hang in the circle-of-friends much or I should say we never hung together at the same time....

    Fast forward...I stop seeing the Guy, parted ways with him and his circle-of-friends.....I began talking to another Guy on a Gay/Bi line. We finally meet, hang out and I didnt know he was the Boyfriend that worked odd hours until I saw the Pictures in the Living room. The pictures really shocked the Shit out of me... Other events also happened but I'm not telling all of that again....Blah,blah,blah....We both realized who the other was when we started naming names....It was a strange moment at first...

    We still had Awesome Sex on the couch not their bed....

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    No, it would be awkward and it could be interpreted as a betrayal. I'd never jeopardize a good friendship, which takes a long time to build, over a relationship that might not last more than a few years, at the most.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Depends on how much I value the friendship..

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoastWilson View Post
    I heard this topic on the radio last week, so I thought I would ask the same question here.

    "Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?"

    In my case, in my single days, I never dated any of my friends ex’s. Yet I did this out of loyalty to my friends AND the fact that I did not want sloppy seconds (not to be corn-fused with the JUB member by the name of Sloppy Seconds).

    What are your views of this?

    Wilson
    It depends how close I am with the friend and how over them they are.

    Hasn't happened for me but wouldn't be impossible.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    When a person is an ex..that means they are free to date whoever they want. And if there's chemistry between you and him,why not go for it?

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Nope can't say that I have.
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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ninja108 View Post
    When a person is an ex..that means they are free to date whoever they want. And if there's chemistry between you and him,why not go for it?
    What if your friend hasn't gotten over the other person? What if the relationship ended badly? Even if it didn't, it would tale an unusually high level of maturity in all those involved for such a situation to work. In most cases, it sounds like a recipe for disaster: you might potentially lose a friend over something that might not last that long. Do you think it's worth it?

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    NO....I have had to cross that bridge. It's a loyalty to my friend thing for me.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Quote Originally Posted by Adrusek81 View Post
    What if your friend hasn't gotten over the other person? What if the relationship ended badly? Even if it didn't, it would tale an unusually high level of maturity in all those involved for such a situation to work. In most cases, it sounds like a recipe for disaster: you might potentially lose a friend over something that might not last that long. Do you think it's worth it?
    Another one I thought of for your list, what if this was your ex and you really didn't want your good (platonic) friend to wind up hearing every gory detail about your body and sex habits? Ex's do tend to spill details on that stuff. It would be awkward.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    So a relationship is over unless it's not over but then it is really over unless sexual peccadilos are in general circulation. Which they always are.
    Last edited by palbert; January 14th, 2013 at 05:29 PM.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    I wouldn't. For two reasons.
    1) It is disloyal to your friend
    2) They are your friend's ex for a reason

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Thanks, Guys! I really have enjoyed your interesting and enlightening feedback and comments. Thanks so very much.

    Wilson

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    I had broken up with my bf and was absolutely torn to pieces. I had never loved someone so much. My "friend" knew how much Igor meant to me and how much pain I was in over the breakup. My supposed friend came over on a Sunday to watch football and to help get my mind off of my ex. He was supportive and gave me hugs etc. I thought I was really lucky to have him as a friend. My friend left and to this day I don't know what made me do it but I went online to see if my ex had put his profile back up on a mostly hook up sight. He had. Guess who his "friend" was? Yep. The guy that had just spent the last 4 hours at my house. They had never met or spoken to each other while we were dating and lived over two hours apart. I know Igor. There is no way he would have looked up my friend or sent him a friend request. I felt so hurt and betrayed by the guy I thought was a friend. What a shitty thing to do to someone. I haven't seen or spoken to him since. He sent me a couple of texts but they went unanswered. Had they known each other while we were dating or been friends I would have understood but he had to purposefully look him up and send a friend request.

    I don't think I would date a friends ex. It would just make things awkward between my friend and I or the person I was seeing.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Nope. Bros before hos.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Most of my friends are girls. I totally follow "the girl code".

    1. Thou shall not date or hook-up with a friend's ex.

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Quote Originally Posted by Adrusek81 View Post
    No, it would be awkward and it could be interpreted as a betrayal. I'd never jeopardize a good friendship, which takes a long time to build, over a relationship that might not last more than a few years, at the most.
    Amen! Just flat-out awkward.
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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Nope i couldn't do that a few years ago i used to like this guy head over hills for him i thought he was a closet confused gay or at least bi the way we used to flirt and play around at work. Me him and my ex best friend all used to hang out and make a long story short she got drunk and hooked up with him and a few months later they dated, that tore me apart it felt i was so depressed during that period i tried to continue being friends with her but it was too hard so we stopped being friends. But i would never date a friend ex boyfriend unless if my friend was in a new relationship and was happy i would ask for how he felt and what he think.

    The fun part of that was i told her ex boyfriend and he dented her car a few times for me which made me happy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FanofFiction View Post
    Nope. Bros before hos.
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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Thanks again, Guys! I really have enjoyed the additional interesting and enlightening feedback and comments. Thanks again so very much.

    Wilson

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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheLyingGame View Post
    Most of my friends are girls. I totally follow "the girl code".

    1. Thou shall not date or hook-up with a friend's ex.
    Totally agree girl friend!
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    Re: Have or would you ever date one of your friends ex-boyfriend's or ex-partner's?

    I was at a college event back in November and bumped into my friend's ex whom I haven't seen in two years. He didn't recongize me because my body changed for the better. It was so akward because my friend's name was brought up a few times as we talked about the old days of hanging out. He then cleared the akwarness by saying that he wanted to hang out sometime. I said cool. We went to a movie and had coffee and confessed to me that he had a crush on me while he dated my friend. I admitted I too had a crush on him while he was dating my friend. So we went back to his dorm, I spent the night. we hooked up for a month and parted ways a week before Christmas. We still send out random texts once in awhile. It was weird but thrilling at the same time. My friend to this day has no idea but don't think he would care. i didn't intend on sleeping with him but I did. It happens.

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    No i wouldnt..

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