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    how to talk to boys...and girls?

    Okay so I'm almost 100% sure that I'm gay. I've only been with dudes, and if you read my coming out story then you'd know that I'm almost certainly gay. But I've always wanted to try being with a girl. Everyone asks if I have and although I feel somewhat fortunate for not, I still feel like it's something I want to explore. I come off as pretty hetero, and sometimes people are shocked to find out I'm gay.

    Anyway....
    There's this insanely cute guy in one of my classes and I really want to talk to him but I don't know how to approach him. I feel like he's out of my league. I just don't know what guys like I guess.

    But another part of this dilemma...there's this girl in that same class. We just recently met and I don't think she has any clue that I'm gay. I'm really attracted to her, and it's weird. I've never been this attracted to a girl. I want to do something about it, but it could be extremely awkward.

    So, any advice on those two things would be super awesome and I appreciate all input. Thanks guys!

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    Re: how to talk to boys...and girls?

    No such thing as "out of your league". If you have any point of contact (which you do, since you're in the same class), just go for it, and read the signals. Strike a conversation, see how it goes. Won't know until you try, but you'll get nowhere if you give up before you even try.

    As for the girl, it can be awkward because if you try hitting on her, she will assume you're straight. I would recommend starting from the point of you finding a way to let her know you're gay, then becoming friends. Then, if things happen, they happen and that's that.
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    Re: how to talk to boys...and girls?

    thank you. i guess you're right about the guy, if i don't even try obviously nothing will come out of it...
    as for the girl, we're kind of already friends. i feel like if i bring it up out of nowhere it'll seem weird, but if i don't it'll be like i'm lying to her or something?

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    Re: how to talk to boys...and girls?

    Become better friends with her. Be as honest with her as you are here and see what happens. As for the guy, be friendly and see if he takes an interest.
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    Re: how to talk to boys...and girls?

    The only way to get where you would like to be is to invest the effort into becoming acquaintances and friends with people.

    no one is ever out of anyone's league. This is reverse snobbery.

    Be friendly and inclusive...treat them like people rather than prey and you'll do just fine.

    Relax and enjoy.

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    Re: how to talk to boys...and girls?

    thanks guys. last night i brought the girl over to my place and we talked for a couple hours just about life and everything. it was awesome. it's weird because i think i might like her. anyway, apparently she knew i was gay the whole time because she knows one of my friends, so when i told her i was attracted to her it was like, crazy. but we almost kissed. we just decided we want to become better friends before anything happens.

    as for the guy, rumor has it he's straight...but i'll definitely talk to him sometime.

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