Warning: I think I am kind of niave. I dont have many gay friends so I dont really have many people to ask questions to. I hope none of my questions aren't offensive - I am new here so I hope I followed all the rules.
question of the first: I date men and women but more women than men. A lot of gay people say they have a 'gaydar' - why don't I have that?! or..... how do you get one?
example: I was watching HGTV during the holiday season which has lots of hot guys on it and going through the threads here, lots of of people think that many of the guys of HGTV are gay. Do gay people really still marry straight people and pretend to be straight? Why? why would Scott McGillvary for example, marry a woman if he is gay? I live in Canada and being gay isn't really taboo so if he is doing it to be more likeable for the sake of his career .... well I dont know if that makes sense. Maybe he's bi.
I dont' really know why I am concerned with this - I'm really just thinking out loud about the general nature of things and seeking opinions
More HGTV examples: the Kitchen Cousins - some people on here seem sure they are lovers. Again, I lack a gaydar - what makes you think they are together (because I am curious about gaydars and am a curious and nosey person in general lol). For one thing, it is probably fairly rare for cousins to be lovers. Also Jon is getting married and Anthony is Dating that Guenevere designer from HVGVs Ask Guenevere. Strange tho - Anthony is hot and could probalby get a younger and hotter woman. Gwen is older than him and less attractive. Maybe they're just dating for PR - do people do that? It seems pretty shallow. But then again, maybe Anthony is a shallow person. Someone on here said they met John and he's apparently an asshole and assholes tend to be friends with assholes so maybe Anthony is an asshole as well. Too bad - they seem like some of those super nice and charismatic people. IT makes me sad when people are fake. Anyway, if they are gay lovers, do their parents know? Are they ok with it? Opinions?
I know it appears that I am celeb obsessed. I think I just like to think about thinks and let them ruminate in my mind. I think way too much. I dont have many queer people in my life so I guess thats why I wonder about people on TV