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    What counts as sex?

    I was having these discussion with my friends. What exactly counts as sex? Does it have to include intercourse? Just wondering because we were talking about how may people we've had sex with and what constituted as sex. If I had hooked up with some guys and we did everything but intercourse, is that considered sex?

    Just want to get a perspective from different people on here.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    For me -- Yes -- it HAS TO include intercourse...

    I guess everyone can have their own opinions about this however...

    Just curious -- what did you and your friend decide???

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    We decided oral was considered a form of sex

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    dont you know? sex is when the penis enters the vagina!

    as for counting how many people youve had sex with... dont bother with a headcount, if youre gay, youre probably a huge slut.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by tallguy23 View Post
    What exactly counts as sex? Does it have to include intercourse?
    isnt "intercourse" just a synonym for "sex"? how does this question make sense?

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    to me, it is if youre with another person and both of you have a goal which is to cum. whether it is from intercourse, blow job, or just jacking the other guy off, its sex in one form or another.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by jensu846 View Post
    to me, it is if youre with another person and both of you have a goal which is to cum. whether it is from intercourse, blow job, or just jacking the other guy off, its sex in one form or another.
    I agree with this. Even if you do not cum, going through the act(s) is still sex imo.
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by tallguy23 View Post
    We decided oral was considered a form of sex
    If I remember correctly, ex-president of the United States, Bill Clinton did not seem to think so. At least, as recipient of a blow job, he did not think he had sex.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    It's whatever you want it to mean and people disagree. In my opinion fucking is one form of sex.
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    Sex is when someone's cock is out of his pants.
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    I would defer to whatever YOU define "sex" as...I think it means different things to different people and there is no right or wrong answer.
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    If you can't say you fucked them, it wasn't sex.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Anything you do to someone with a risk of causing an orgasm in either of you.
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    I'm old school. Anal intercourse only
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    I'm old school. Anal intercourse only
    Absolutely agree.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Anything you do to someone with a risk of causing an orgasm in either of you.
    I agree with this one, and it doesn't matter how it is done.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by TX-Beau View Post
    Sex is when someone's cock is out of his pants.
    An excellent definition of the male sexual universe.

    Copulation is just one form of sexual behavior among others. It is generally accepted that masturbation is a sexual action, so the number of participants doesn't matter. Trios are, incidentally, popular not only in music.

    http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/AT..._behavior.html

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    If you can add "with my aunt" to the end of whatever sentence you're saying, it's not sex.
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by TX-Beau View Post
    Sex is when someone's cock is out of his pants.
    Or more specifically, if it's standing up, out of your pants and it gets wet with someone else's help, then it's sex.
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    Biologically speaking, from a scientific view, sex is the intercourse between man and woman vaginally.

    Socially speaking, from a looser view, sex is any activity between people involving sexual pleasure.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Have talked to a few of my friends before regarding this. From my religious friends point of view, anything that involved touching the other's sexual organ. Even if it's mutual JO without penetration.

    I have to admit that my view towards sex is still pretty traditional but, I would still say penetration. I don't think mutual JO counts. For blowjob, it's rather subjective. I would consider you have had sex if you blew each other.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    If a person gets syphilis from fucking, it is a sexually transmitted disease. If a person gets syphilis from oral, or frottage, or just rolling around naked on a tarp with each other, they still call it a sexually transmitted disease. It doesn't turn into a "yoga transmitted disease" just because nobody put their wiener in anybody's ass.

    That and the fact that we call it oral sex seems to make it pretty clear.

    And if you pick a random stranger on the subway and jack off onto his face right there, without once even slightly fucking him or even touching him, you'd still be charged with sexual assault.

    It's sex. I don't see it as subjective.
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Anything you do to someone with a risk of causing an orgasm in either of you.
    This plus anything you do to yourself with a risk of causing an orgasm in you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fritz-the-Cat View Post
    Biologically speaking, from a scientific view, sex is the intercourse between man and woman vaginally.

    Socially speaking, from a looser view, sex is any activity between people involving sexual pleasure.
    qft. I hate anal and never did it but I had sex with my man anyways.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    I think there are many different forms of sex. Oral sex, anal sex, vaginal sex even masturbation is a form of sex. I think that when the genitals are used for pleasure, it's sex.

    I don't understand when people say it has to be intercourse. So does that mean lesbians don't have sex?

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Of course. Lesbians have foreplay

    No, but seriously. Lesbians have a LOT of penetrative sex, just with... um... tools. Other than that, to me it's a matter of terminology. If you say "oral sex", that's great. But if you just say "sex", I will always understand "penetrative" - anal or vaginal.
    Last edited by Rolyo85; January 8th, 2013 at 01:48 AM.
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Anything resulting in orgasm or the handling of genitals is sex.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    For me it's oral and up.

    For some reason i don't count a handjob as sex.
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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    Anything resulting in orgasm or the handling of genitals is sex.
    I go with this one.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Whatever gratifies you and provokes sexual responses. A Master and slave can provoke "sexual" respnses without themslves coming into physical contact. It's all in the brain.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Insert dick into vagina...sex
    Insert dick into anus...sex
    Getting dick inserted to your vagina...sex
    Getting dick inserted to you anus...sex
    Inserting dick into mouth...ORAL sex
    Non of which is to be confused with when you pay taxes....that is getting FUCKED!

    ...everything else is foreplay in my book!

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    My boyfriend and I define sex has fucking lol

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    Depends on what you're into. If you're not into anal and don't do it often (if at all), oral sex counts as sex if you ask me.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    Sex is short for sexual intercourse which involves inserting penis into vagina. Anal sex is inserting penis into butt. Oral sex is the sexual contact between the genitalia and the mouth. So you really have to specify what it is you do.

    I call anal sex just sex because they are pretty similar and guys can't have vaginal sex with guys so it makes sense to call anal sex just sex. If someone told me that they had sex with someone, I wouldn't think they meant oral sex.

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    Re: What counts as sex?

    If you think only intercourse is sex then should you ever get busted by the cops for giving/getting oral in a public place use the defense that you weren't having sex even if that is the charge and that the charge should only be indecent exposure.
    Good luck with that too.

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