About a month ago I met this totally hot guy and we have been seeing each other every weekend and having sex. Everything is going great except during sex I find myself over thinking things and end up losing my erection or not getting hard enough to penetrate him. I can get hard at home alone when watching porn so I don't think it's a physical issue (however I have booked an appointment with my doctor just to be sure)
Instead of enjoying the sex I find myself thinking about what I'll be doing tomorrow or how long the drive home will take and I know it's totally ridiculous. This guy is super hot, seems really into me and there I am thinking about random pointless things . It also raises another problem that when I know I'm meeting him I worry that I won't be able to perform and then it just becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy
Has this happened to anyone else? How did you overcome it?
I just want to be able to relax and enjoy it for what it is.