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    The benefit of not reproducing after having sex!

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    there ya go a pic of a pecan sandy but wot is it?

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    Re: What are the biggest advantages of being gay?

    I think a huge benefit of being gay is the absence of stereotypical gender roles. I think gay relationships are much more egalitarian with less dependancy issues between partners. Being held up as, "the man" in a relationship by society places much more pressure on said "man", with less expectations placed on the woman. Yes, this is 2013, but still, that is our society. It really is not as equal as you think. The team in a gay relationship is much more balanced.

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    But instead gay men react the same way to beautiful men, right? Or is it different?

    To me, it seems very similar if not the same.

    I've seen some of the "hardest" guys completely manipulated and turned to baby food when a female 'tells them what to do'.

    I suppose some gay men allow other men to have that effect on them, but I don't see/haven't experienced it nearly as much as my comments regarding the straights.

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    Being able to check out a sexy ass while taking a piss...



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    But instead gay men react the same way to beautiful men, right? Or is it different?

    To me, it seems very similar if not the same.
    That's me right there, I loves the beautiful men.

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    No risk of accidental pregnancy
    Not having the robotic Suburbia lifestyle
    Having sex with curious guys
    guys knowing what we want
    Not being Pussy Whipped by females ( i know so many guys that turn into puppy dogs when it comes to a girl)
    Stupid Straight Drama

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    Re: What are the biggest advantages of being gay?

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Being held up as, "the man" in a relationship by society places much more pressure on said "man", with less expectations placed on the woman.
    Maybe in some relationships.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    I've seen some of the "hardest" guys completely manipulated and turned to baby food when a female 'tells them what to do'.

    I suppose some gay men allow other men to have that effect on them, but I don't see/haven't experienced it nearly as much as my comments regarding the straights.
    Ah, okay, I thought you just meant simply fawning over attractive women so I was like 'well gay men do that too, to hot guys.'

    Like...You mean, in a lot of hetero pairings, the guy tries to woo the girl and live up to her expectations sort of thing, right? And she sort of plays coy or hard to get until he proves he's worthy of her attention or wins her over in some way? She puts him through the hoops, so to speak. And this continues throughout their relationship on some level, because the guy just wants to stay on her good side? lol It's weird. I think both sides of the equation expect it to varying degrees and also play into it quite often. I'm sure a lot of it has to do with the ways in which men and women are socialized differently, especially when it comes to how they should behave in romantic/sexual relationships.

    Maybe, for same-sex pairings, it happens less often because they don't have to overcome/deal with the dynamics of having to make some adjustments/accommodations for the opposite gender. I'm not sure.

    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Maybe in some relationships.
    Yeah, I have to laugh at this idea of 'much less expectations placed on the woman.'

    In our society, despite most women being in the work force either full-time or part-time earning income for their families, they are still expected to excel in their traditional roles with regards to homemaking and child-rearing. This phenomenon, called "the second shift" by sociologists, impacts women the most and puts a strain on their families. Statistics often show that men still do not equally share the burdens of domestic and child-rearing chores to help the women achieve some balance in their lives.

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    Like...You mean, in a lot of hetero pairings, the guy tries to woo the girl and live up to her expectations sort of thing, right? And she sort of plays coy or hard to get until he proves he's worthy of her attention or wins her over in some way? She puts him through the hoops, so to speak. And this continues throughout their relationship on some level, because the guy just wants to stay on her good side? lol It's weird. I think both sides of the equation expect it to varying degrees and also play into it quite often. I'm sure a lot of it has to do with the ways in which men and women are socialized differently, especially when it comes to how they should behave in romantic/sexual relationships.
    That's how I like my relationships, I like to chase, woo, and romance. Nothing I love more. X)

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    Being able to check out a sexy ass while taking a piss...

    I'm STILL waiting to see THAT next to me at a urinal.
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    It's already been stated but not having to deal with women.

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    I'm STILL waiting to see THAT next to me at a urinal.
    But the cool thing is that it COULD happen!
    You just need to discreetly inquire whether your urinal neighbors would be interested in a butt massage while they're standing there, so you'll have an excuse to pull their pants and underwear down to their ankles.


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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl View Post
    In our society, despite most women being in the work force either full-time or part-time earning income for their families, they are still expected to excel in their traditional roles with regards to homemaking and child-rearing. This phenomenon, called "the second shift" by sociologists, impacts women the most and puts a strain on their families. Statistics often show that men still do not equally share the burdens of domestic and child-rearing chores to help the women achieve some balance in their lives.
    Maybe in some relationships, but this is 2013. That excuse is getting a little tired. Most women refuse to give up control of the household, even to their husband. They prefer to use him as an ABM.
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    No risk of accidental pregnancy
    Not having the robotic Suburbia lifestyle
    Having sex with curious guys
    guys knowing what we want
    Not being Pussy Whipped by females ( i know so many guys that turn into puppy dogs when it comes to a girl)
    Stupid Straight Drama
    I don't think that some of these (rather superficial) "positive" elements compensate for the hostility and rejection that most gay men face in their lives. Also, many gay men actually want to have the prototypical suburban lifestyle, are easily swayed and manipulated by any male who is attractive or in a relationship with them, and they are Drama Queens big enough to make a Shakespearean tragedy out of nothing. On top of that, having sex with conflicted bisexual/closeted (oh, sorry, "curious") men isn't exactly an emotionally rewarding experience.

    If anything, I would say that we gay men have to know ourselves very well and be very strong and courageous, in order to deal every day with a world that subjects us to infinite forms of discrimination and harassment. In fact, many of the most emotionally healthy, compassionate, generous and noble people I have met, were gay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Maybe in some relationships, but this is 2013. That excuse is getting a little tired. Most women refuse to give up control of the household, even to their husband. They prefer to use him as an ABM.
    Excuse? It's a reality you just don't want to accept because it doesn't fit in with your little narrative about how women aren't expected to do much in a relationship. How is it getting tired when it's a current phenomenon with modern women being effected the most as more of them enter the workforce all around the world? As for women refusing to let men do their share at home, actually studies show that women DO want their male partners to help them even though they still feel more responsible for domestic chores if their partners refuse.

    Honestly, feel free to complain about men's burdens but don't say intellectually dishonest things like women have "much less expectations" in a relationship when they are busting their ass doing the bulk of domestic work, child-rearing and, nowadays, also working more often to earn income for their families.

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    In light of the above conversation on women, I'd like to add emphasis to what Huntneo said. I think by being gay we don't objectify women as much as straight men do (or at least publicly state), but revere in their power. Which is pretty much why a boatload of our 'gay icons' are women. We're okay with recognizing a woman with sex appeal, brains and heart.

    I met this woman and she was in school to be a carpenter. I thought that was the coolest thing ever. Who hears about women as carpenters? Or 'tradespeople' as women in general? I have an admiration/appreciation for women that so openly object gender-specific careers and roles in society. I don't know many heterosexual men that are open about that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    What a gay man might consider an advantage, a straight man wouldn't.
    I agree.

    Anyway, unless a person has been in a happy long-term straight relationship, as well as a happy long-term gay relationship, at some point in their life, it would be impossible to make a proper comparison.

    In spite of being happily totally out for the past 35 years or so, I can't say I have ever noticed any real advantages of being gay. But one advantage of being straight would appear to be the greater number of potentially available partners, plus the fact that society is oriented towards heterosexual relationship. Also, if you have the misfortune to live in a religiously dominated backward country you could be put to death for loving the cock.


    I wonder why these sort of threads always seem to go in a misogynistic direction. It's almost as if a lot of gay men are actually afraid of women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HoodedRat View Post
    I wonder why these sort of threads always seem to go in a misogynistic direction. It's almost as if a lot of gay men are actually afraid of women.
    In a vaccuum one might think this but you should hear how many female friends over my lifetime I've heard say the same things about dealing with women as many people in this thread have.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HoodedRat View Post

    I wonder why these sort of threads always seem to go in a misogynistic direction. It's almost as if a lot of gay men are actually afraid of women.
    I think its the approach. The OP began with saying that the biggest advantage of being gay had nothing to do with actually being gay but instead being able to avoid women and their periods. Then others joined in saying what they didn't like about women. (Some people just look for that opportunity It seems to be the same ones over and over) While others were probably just following the context of the thread.

    These threads are kind of like validation. Its nice to be validated every once in a while. To get other people to solidify the fact that you arent missing anything and the grass isn't greener on the other side. Just like the other one that was posted today "What do you like better, loose pussy or tight ass?" LOL. In the Straight and Bi section there are threads like that all of the time. "Which would you rather give up pussy or dick?" This JUB for goodness sake.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    I think its the approach. The OP began with saying that the biggest advantage of being gay had nothing to do with actually being gay but instead being able to avoid women and their periods. Then others joined in saying what they didn't like about women. (Some people just look for that opportunity It seems to be the same ones over and over) While others were probably just following the context of the thread.

    These threads are kind of like validation. Its nice to be validated every once in a while. To get other people to solidify the fact that you arent missing anything and the grass isn't greener on the other side. Just like the other one that was posted today "What do you like better, loose pussy or tight ass?" LOL. In the Straight and Bi section there are threads like that all of the time. "Which would you rather give up pussy or dick?" This JUB for goodness sake.
    That's true too. Women engage in it as well with the comments or sentiment you often hear of "men are pigs" (and similar truisms among many women) and I don't feel threatened by them at all. It is as you say a form of validation. We all have different perspectives and experiences.

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    That's true too. Women engage in it as well with the comments or sentiment you often hear of "men are pigs"
    Yeah but I would kind of liken this more to a group of lesbians talking about cock and their straight girlfriends having to deal with abusive or lazy men (or what have you) it could be anything. Either way it always tends to end with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    In a vaccuum one might think this but you should hear how many female friends over my lifetime I've heard say the same things about dealing with women as many people in this thread have.
    Exactly! And how some women frown on other women for their choices. I think some women put pressure on other women to succeed at everything BECAUSE they are women. My wife was dissed because she chose to be a stay at home mom, only to be sabotaged and ridiculed by her "friends". For her sanity she went back to work and I quit my job and became a stay at home dad (to the thrill and astonishment of my buds). The women were vicious to her. That was our experience, and sadly we weren't alone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Exactly! And how some women frown on other women for their choices. I think some women put pressure on other women to succeed at everything BECAUSE they are women. My wife was dissed because she chose to be a stay at home mom, only to be sabotaged and ridiculed by her "friends". For her sanity she went back to work and I quit my job and became a stay at home dad (to the thrill and astonishment of my buds). The women were vicious to her. That was our experience, and sadly we weren't alone.
    And all men are so damned chummy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Yeah but I would kind of liken this more to a group of lesbians talking about cock and their straight girlfriends having to deal with abusive or lazy men (or what have you) it could be anything. Either way it always tends to end with.

    Lesbian forum: "Poor straight girls... they dont know what they are missing"
    Gay Forum: "Poor straight guys... they dont know what they are missing"
    You left out straight friends of gay guy: Poor gay guys.. they don't know what they are missing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    You left out straight friends of gay guy: Poor gay guys.. they don't know what they are missing.
    Oh lol yeah. In college I overheard a group of straight guys talking. One of the guys was like.

    "The thing about being gay is that they will never get pussy..." He just shook his head in disbelief. I had to get out of there. It was so stupid.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Oh lol yeah. In college I overheard a group of straight guys talking. One of the guys was like.

    "The thing about being gay is that they will never get pussy..." He just shook his head in disbelief. I had to get out of there. It was so stupid.
    I think virtually all of us who have had straight male friends, particularly earlier in life (h.s., college) have had the experience of having them say something like "I don't think you're really gay... we just need to get you a girlfriend." With the implication seeming to be, once you try pussy you'll like it? I guess? lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    "The thing about being gay is that they will never get pussy..." He just shook his head in disbelief. I had to get out of there. It was so stupid.
    If only the "Tight Asshole vs. Loose Pussy" thread was around then, you could've directed the straight men there--so they could see what they're missing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Oh lol yeah. In college I overheard a group of straight guys talking. One of the guys was like.

    "The thing about being gay is that they will never get pussy..." He just shook his head in disbelief. I had to get out of there. It was so stupid.
    LOL! I've heard similar things from guys before.

    My response: I'll be fine, dear. I don't want pussy.

    And I must admit--sometimes I am guilty of thinking that I feel sorry for straight guys because they'll never be able to see other MEN the way us gay guys (and women) can see them.

    Then again...they probably wouldn't want to/don't care.

    It's all subjective. like many things in life.
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    I often wonder if heterosexuals are at risk of turning themselves off, or of failing to appreciate their own sexuality, because they are focussed on "not being gay."

    I actually think bisexuality, done properly, is probably the most well-adjusted.
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    These threads are kind of like validation. Its nice to be validated every once in a while. To get other people to solidify the fact that you arent missing anything and the grass isn't greener on the other side.
    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Lesbian forum: "Poor straight girls... they dont know what they are missing"

    Gay Forum: "Poor straight guys... they dont know what they are missing"

    ^ Yeah, this basically.

    But like you said, I don't take offense to most of it because it does seem like a type of validation in the face of all the ridicule/judgment/confusion that same-sex pairings tend to get from heterosexuals.

    In comparison, yeah, a lot of straight people-- even ones who aren't homophobic and who have exposure to people in same-sex relationships-- still just don't "get it" because there is no obvious template to work from like you have with heterosexual couples who generally look to societal norms to figure things out. That's why you get a lot of confused straight people asking hetero-normative questions like "sooo, who's the female in this relationship? who's the man? how does it work?" to same-sex couples. And when they see same-sex pairings where one partner is more masculine and one is more feminine, I think that confuses them even more because they interpret it to mean that the gay couple interact as if they are in a heterosexual relationship.

    So, even though there is a lot of bewilderment from some gays/lesbians (like, "how do they deal with sex/relationships with the opposite gender, how sad and exhausting for them, yuck") the same is also true for most straight people who can't really fathom not having a person of the opposite sex "complete" you because the differences between the sexes is obviously part of the appeal/charm to heterosexuals in a relationship (although they sometimes lead to obstacles).

    The biggest difference, though, is that straight people often use their confusion/dislike to alienate, oppress and shun sexual minorities either intentionally or unintentionally on a wide scale whereas gays/lesbians are limited to complaints among themselves and micro-aggressions against straight people.

    Quote Originally Posted by -Callum- View Post
    In light of the above conversation on women, I'd like to add emphasis to what Huntneo said. I think by being gay we don't objectify women as much as straight men do (or at least publicly state), but revere in their power. Which is pretty much why a boatload of our 'gay icons' are women. We're okay with recognizing a woman with sex appeal, brains and heart.
    I never really understood it but the way you explain it and the way joswanprince (now JP) explained it to me in this thread, makes sense to me. It's pretty interesting.

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    next patient please
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    Hetero world is much more difficult if you want to get laid. Guys have to work harder to impress a girl, to win a date, to get laid. There is so much effort, stress and game involved that I don't envy that world at all. If you're an average bloke, the odds are against you more so than if your an average gay bloke.

    Another advantage is that there is no expectation to raise a family for fabulous people. Being responsible to feed not only yourself but a set of kids and then having to dedicate your life to turn them into productive members of society is hardest mission that life can throw at you.

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    thread a so interestin is

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    Quote Originally Posted by RaKroma View Post
    Hetero world is much more difficult if you want to get laid. Guys have to work harder to impress a girl, to win a date, to get laid. There is so much effort, stress and game involved that I don't envy that world at all.
    I completely agree with this.

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    ^ Seconded.

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    ^ It can be pretty complicated.

    If a woman doesn't at least make a guy wait a while, or test him before getting with him, they will often be written off as slutty/easy and not "relationship material." Hence, women getting advice like "why buy a cow if you can get the milk for free?" as to why many men mistreat "easy" women. Many straight guys will cry and moan about how difficult it is to get a girl and the effort they have to put in, but for girls who simply are in it to hook-up, they will judge them and label them as easy to their friends and joke about it because "classy girls make you work for it."

    That, and for most women to want to wait for an emotional investment on some level can be linked to their biology to a certain extent. I mean, guys don't risk getting pregnant do they? It's much harder to run around having frequent casual sex when such a serious risk is looming over you constantly among other things. Their sexual arousal is a lot more psychological and emotion-based then men.

    Still, I'm sure the gay dating scene can be just as complex and trying in its own way. JUBers haven't been short on things to complain about in the regard, tbh. For example, many complain that too many guys just want sex/a hook-up but rarely ever want to settle down. It's like the opposite problem of what a lot of straight guys complain about.

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