What are the biggest advantages of being gay?

[eyeoftheshark]

sucking a dick kissing ,riding loving a dick

[xbuzzerx]

Of course I have. I'm talking about people saying that they don't have to deal with the drama and manipulation and BS. The last time Ive checked men can have all of those.

THat's true, but I really do think the biggest drama guys are fairly easy to avoid, and while all humans are capable of drama or manipulation, I think in general there's three layers to what's really going on when you have a fight with a girlfriend and usually 1-2 layers between guys. I can't tell you how many times I LEGITIMATELY DID NOT KNOW why a woman was mad at me. Sincerely. And thats' when you get the "you should know why I'm mad and if you don't then you don't deserve to be told." Wat!

[pat grimshaw]

^
I agree with you and I think it's going to take a couple of decades until they become bearable. And I won't be bothered waiting.

The lyrics in this an old musical are still relevant~

[Adrock-JD]

I'm so confused?

Confucius say: Confusion like television set on Honeymoon, unnecessary.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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[MissAnne]

THat's true, but I really do think the biggest drama guys are fairly easy to avoid, and while all humans are capable of drama or manipulation, I think in general there's three layers to what's really going on when you have a fight with a girlfriend and usually 1-2 layers between guys. I can't tell you how many times I LEGITIMATELY DID NOT KNOW why a woman was mad at me. Sincerely. And thats' when you get the "you should know why I'm mad and if you don't then you don't deserve to be told." Wat!

I think that some women have a hard time understanding the fact that most men dont pick up on small cues.

Women are often good at this. They dont call it "female intuition" for nothing.

In one of my psych classes. We were discussing relationships and dealing with breakups. It was concluded that women know when a relationship is going to end far before it does. Men on the other hand, are blindsided if they are dumped. Most of them never see it coming. This can be so true. Ive had girlfriends that sense that "something isn't right" a couple months before their relationships ends. Then Ive had male friends that say "She just doesnt want me anymore, I dont know what happened. This came out of no where"

Women maybe boderline psychic

[Telstra]

Maybe not worrying about having kids if you don't want kids.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

females or a males a human awsum cultures real easy corn heads read wit all phds stuff up their assholes

if females still no can do shit wit wot a got ans males still spinless shit of so 21st century

betta call humans a aawsum lands tulips

thankyou

[xbuzzerx]

I think that some women have a hard time understanding the fact that most men dont pick up on small cues.

Women are often good at this. They dont call it "female intuition" for nothing.

In one of my psych classes. We were discussing relationships and dealing with breakups. It was concluded that women know when a relationship is going to end far before it does. Men on the other hand, are blindsided if they are dumped. Most of them never see it coming. This can be so true. Ive had girlfriends that sense that "something isn't right" a couple months before their relationships ends. Then Ive had male friends that say "She just doesnt want me anymore, I dont know what happened. This came out of no where"

Women maybe boderline psychic

I think you're 100% right. So I didn't mean to say "relationships with women are all more trouble because they're all drama queens and no men are", I meant that they're women and men are men. There's differences in how they look at things, what they notice, and how they think about things. And sometimes in how they feel about things, too. Most of the things I most commonly hear my straight friends mention being problems for them are things I only ever rarely deal with in another guy.

[borg69unimatrix]

Women are often good at this. They dont call it "female intuition" for nothing.

It was concluded that women know when a relationship is going to end far before it does. Men on the other hand, are blindsided if they are dumped. Most of them never see it coming. This can be so true. Ive had girlfriends that sense that "something isn't right" a couple months before their relationships ends.

Women maybe boderline psychic

In straight relationships, I think it's often the women that decide when the relationship is "off", or "on". Women often need all that emotional support/validation, control, foreplay, wining and dining... Mens' needs are more simple. Food, and Sex. We don't need to analyze what every nuance means behind every spoken word and gesture, real and imagined. Women live in a grey area of emotions, where men are more black and white.

[ronboy]

Same as straight.......falling in love and getting married.

hopefully to raise a family in this new normal we are inventing.

I am so thankful that I'm gay in this day and age.

The biggest advantage of being gay is aspiring to marry PeTe! Love ya' PeTe!

[PreTTy PeTe]

The biggest advantage of being gay is aspiring to marry PeTe! Love ya' PeTe!

and making all those pretty babies that look like john belushi?

nice.

[thatgirl]

I think that some women have a hard time understanding the fact that most men dont pick up on small cues.

Women are often good at this. They dont call it "female intuition" for nothing.

So true. But some women get a bit too carried way with all the different cues and having to constantly read between the lines to figure out what they're trying to communicate. I'm a woman and even I don't know what the fuck is going on at times with these types of women.

On the flip-side, some men are just so exhausting to deal with because they are so damn clueless when it comes to emotions whether it's expressing them or understanding them -- especially when they're more subtle or complex. It's like you need to draw a diagram or something to get it through their heads. But I do feel kind of bad for them when they're all "just tell me what to say/think/feel and I'll do it to make you happy." Like, that is not the point. Ugh. What are you doing.

I can't deal with both types of "drama." lol

[xbuzzerx]

So true. But some women get a bit too carried way with all the different cues and having to constantly read between the lines to figure out what they're trying to communicate. I'm a woman and even I don't know what the fuck is going on at times with these types of women.

That's exactly it. The conflict comes in when women too often mistakenly assume that what a woman would have meant with a comment or reaction is what a man would have meant.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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[geloge]

On the flip-side, some men are just so exhausting to deal with because they are so damn clueless when it comes to emotions whether it's expressing them or understanding them...

that's me

[Adrock-JD]

and making all those pretty babies that look like john belushi?

nice.

.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'..'.'.'

[diamondstar]

[QUOTE=Medusa;8603798]

And I think Medusa that we could equally agree that being either (a gay male or a woman) has very real drawbacks in our society, too. If there were an inverse thread about what are the biggest drawbacks of being gay "chance of death from someone with a lead pipe" would be rather high on the list, sadly.[/QUOTE]


I can only agree with to a certain extent.Yes I do agree that both gays, and women, especially black women have their disadvantages. But there is one thing that separates gay men, and women, and that's, Visualization. People, and society can see the fact, that I AM A WOMAN, AND I AM BLACK. People may already have set their mind on what they think about me without me even opening up my mouth, or do anything. You on the other hand, may not have to face discrimination, and it's because people do not you are gay,unless you open up your mouth, and tell them so. They cannot see your gayness, like they can see my blackness, and my femaleness.

And I assume that you are white, so the world is your oyster.

Too much truth into what you said Medusa. You can hide being gay, you can't hide being black.

[cowmangav]

I often marvel at how strong the sexual bond must be between hetrosexual couples, to allow it to overrule the basic incompatibility of men and women.

I noticed early on how boys that I had previously classed as tough and pig-headed , suddenly allowed themselves to be manipulated by a girl friend.It rather shocked me at first , but I suppose the species depends on just such an accomodation being reached!

Probably why straight men , need to cling to their old pals too ( if the wife allows them).

[Red Storm]

no PMS
No unwanted pregnancies
No drama
Getting ready to go wont take more than 15 mins, some of my friends gf's take at least an hour.

[Coward92]

You forgot that there are guys who are extremely manipulative, even more so than women

I do agree with the teasing and the flirting though.

Also, we seem to have great tastes in music, and Pop culture seems to be driven by us. We are the driving force behind a lot of what people are consuming these days, especially fashion!

Men are beautiful!

Yeah, but I can be right down blunt with woman to keep them away from, because I don't want anything from them and I know that I lose nothing by sending them away. This way they don't even get the chance to play their games of crap.

As of manipulative men... they usually fail at using me. I notice when someone tries to make me believe that he wants me to feel better about myself by making me do something that he would like. It is always about some hidden goal the other one has in mind. He makes you think that you need to do that so that you can feel better about yourself. But in fact, he needs it, not you.

[bike10]

No two cocks look alike.

[RonR18]

That is really disgusting. Who does this ?

This guy...

[evanrick]

As of manipulative men... they usually fail at using me. I notice when someone tries to make me believe that he wants me to feel better about myself by making me do something that he would like. It is always about some hidden goal the other one has in mind. He makes you think that you need to do that so that you can feel better about yourself. But in fact, he needs it, not you.

i have a friend that does this, hes my best friend actually tho we hardly speak to each other. i dont know if i would call it manipulation - because its never worked.

i dont know why he just doesnt come out and tell me that he needs me.

[ZeFrenchy]

(Works only if you live in couple): your beloved one won't constantly ask you to open the pickle jar.

[RonR18]

After reviewing all the posts in this thread, I didn't see anything about the following advantage of being gay, and thought it should be included:

Some females don't react well when men lose interest in their pussy. Case in point...

During a 69 session, a 50-year-old Florida woman went psycho when her younger boyfriend abandoned his station after ejaculating, and started beating him, presumably to convey that hell hath no fury like a horny woman blown off:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/1...html?hpweird=y

[MissAnne]

Some females don't react well when men lose interest in their pussy. Case in point...

BOOO, not it at all.

[tombastep]

On the flip-side, some men are just so exhausting to deal with because they are so damn clueless when it comes to emotions whether it's expressing them or understanding them -- especially when they're more subtle or complex. It's like you need to draw a diagram or something to get it through their heads. But I do feel kind of bad for them when they're all "just tell me what to say/think/feel and I'll do it to make you happy." Like, that is not the point. Ugh. What are you doing.

My best friend/roommate. I don't pry into his relationship or anything but sometimes I over hear and I'm just

One time she was really upset about this writing pitch she didn't get and she just wanted the emotional comfort. And all he did was sit there and started to look at reasons why she got turned down.

Also when it comes to drama, men are totally capable of it. It's just different the way it is handled and they try to keep it under cover.

[JP.]

Well..sometimes I wondering...
If straight man are considered real man

why they play with opposite sex which not match with their strength/stamina?
I think it takes an effort to conquer another men, physically
tell that to your straight friend

[penayforay]

you get a free pass when being racist or transphobic or misogynistic or ??? lul

[borg69unimatrix]

Re: What are the biggest advantages of being gay?

The other day my BF, who has never been with a female asked me what "Motor Boating" was.

I guess an advantage is never having to Motor Boat.

He also calls female anatomy "Bologna Curtains".

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

ya nose why books full a shit unsless ya prepayed
* tick tick tick *

ha

[Huntneo(PT)]

That we're immune to whatever it is that makes some straight men completely "spaz out" when a 'beautiful woman' is around.

[Medusa]

After reviewing all the posts in this thread, I didn't see anything about the following advantage of being gay, and thought it should be included:

Some females don't react well when men lose interest in their pussy. Case in point...

During a 69 session, a 50-year-old Florida woman went psycho when her younger boyfriend abandoned his station after ejaculating, and started beating him, presumably to convey that hell hath no fury like a horny woman blown off:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/1...html?hpweird=y

Well think about it? Women are told that we are desirable, and that we should always primed ourselves to be that way. Now maybe that woman was different story, but I know I would be mad as hell if I found out the guy I am dating, is formerly gay,half gay,or is just a gay man that have sex with women. That man know he is wrong for sleeping with women if he have no interest in pussy.See, that's, what I really do not understand about dl men, or gay men that have sex with women.What's the purpose of being with a woman,if you don't like women? Why can't those men just leave women alone?

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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anyway

thankyou

[thatgirl]

That we're immune to whatever it is that makes some straight men completely "spaz out" when a 'beautiful woman' is around.

But instead gay men react the same way to beautiful men, right? Or is it different?

To me, it seems very similar if not the same.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

not a can wait fa wot episdoe next

coor

thankyou

[bankside]

If there are gender differences, they are probably expressed as tendencies in a group of people rather than absolutes that can be known based entirely on someone's gender.

And so, if there are trends, there are likely things men tend to do better, and likely things women tend to do better.

The joy of being gay is the likelihood of having your own strengths matched by your partner. An easier time grasping each other's mindset and priorities. And if you prefer the masculine aesthetic of hard lines over soft curves, it's fun to see that in each other. The freedom to be male without having to bow to society's expectations or women's expectations about what masculinity is supposed to be. (though I am always amazed at how many gay men decline to exercise that freedom).

But mostly I think an individual's own traits take precedence.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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ya loadin a labull lot a stuff
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wot next episdoe
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thankyou

[xbuzzerx]

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ya loadin a labull lot a stuff
wot no even out da shit yet

anyway this excitin

wot next episdoe
da tensions viewurs it all a here

thankyou

Sloppy (or whoever is controlling you), do you realize that most of us have absolutely no idea what you're saying? And that we all know this nonsense typing is fake because there's a perfectly legible line down in the bottom of your signature?

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Sloppy (or whoever is controlling you), do you realize that most of us have absolutely no idea what you're saying? And that we all know this nonsense typing is fake because there's a perfectly legible line down in the bottom of your signature?

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thankyou

[palbert]

Sloppy (or whoever is controlling you), do you realize that most of us have absolutely no idea what you're saying? And that we all know this nonsense typing is fake because there's a perfectly legible line down in the bottom of your signature?

Court jesters were known to speak gibberish. It was thought amusing then.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Court jesters were known to speak gibberish. It was thought amusing then.

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[xbuzzerx]

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[mrbeebs]

straight guys who (especially if you're gay and not a lot of people can tell) try to use you to help test out their gayness.

edit: so I thought the title of this thread was the biggest DISadvantages of being gay lol... I guess an advantage would be the ability to not let a girl walk in the room and alter your entire personality, like it does with a lot of straight guys.

[xbuzzerx]

straight guys who (especially if you're gay and not a lot of people can tell) try to use you to help test out their gayness.

How do you mean?

[mrbeebs]

How do you mean?

misread the thread title lol

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

straight guys who (especially if you're gay and not a lot of people can tell) try to use you to help test out their gayness.

edit: so I thought the title of this thread was the biggest DISadvantages of being gay lol... I guess an advantage would be the ability to not let a girl walk in the room and alter your entire personality, like it does with a lot of straight guys.

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thankyou

[johaninsc]

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