What are the biggest advantages of being gay?

[RonR18]

Something I heard a silly straight twat say one time stuck in my mind, "Only a heterosexual can be considered a real man." If that's true, then I'm certainly glad I'm not a "real" man...



So aside from not having to stick your face in a bloody mess when your "woman" gets horny, what are some of the other advantages of being gay?

[geloge]

We don't have to deal with menstruation problems that's true, in the other hand we all know what ass primary function is and sometimes shit happens...

Considering how frequently my straight female friends complain about men and my straight male friends complain about women I could feel inclined to say same sex partners get along easier between them... experience has proved me that's wrong though.

Maybe gay guys are more tolerant about facial hair, but tha's not absolutely true either.

And whatever they say it's not fashionable to be gay nowadays, not even in the western world and we better not speak about all those countries where homosexuality is prosecuted or not have a wide social acceptance. I admit I enjoy feeling different but probably I wouldn't have enjoyed so much if I would have live in this same country some years ago.

I'm not sure what makes being gay better than being straight, probably it isn't. I still enjoy guys though

[xbuzzerx]

That's the narstiest picture I may have yet seen on JUB. lol.

I honestly could not list very many that would not sound like stereotypes, as few of them would apply to all gay men and most of them would apply only to me.

But some "universals"--- not having to deal with female romance drama. If you avoid overt drama queen males (and it's not hard to do) you never get anything like the worst of female romance drama imho. In general with the guys I've dated we don't have to deal with the whole "do I look fat in this" leading to 3 weeks of silent treatment type of thing I hear from my straight friends a lot.

Don't have to deal with risk of pregnancy-- big one that goes unnoticed.

[HunterM]

suck each other's cock.

[rareboy]

Well I was going to start with enjoying cock too.

And being with another guy feels like an extension of yourself as a male. I can't really explain it, but maybe it is like having a twin brother....there doesn't have to be a lot of role playing...I think you are able to just 'get' one another better than many male/female relationships.

[xbuzzerx]

Well I was going to start with enjoying cock too. And just being with a body like your own, only different.

And being with another guy feels like an extension of yourself as a male. I can't really explain it, but maybe it is like having a twin brother....there doesn't have to be a lot of role playing...I think you are able to just 'get' one another better than many male/female relationships.

Yeah you don't have to wonder how things feel for another male. Or have a relationship (or a sex life) through that screendoor of "it's like this for me but it's a little different for the other gender."

[vacancy3]

not having to deal with a womans bull-shit all fuckin day long

[GregKII]

The sex is amazing!

[Nishin]

We can relate to our partners, we understand ourselves better I suppose ...

[palbert]

You learn how to accessorize and how to use color.

[FPNY]

Being fabulous!

[oakpope]

I guess the biggest one is no unwanted pregnancy.

[evanrick]

the biggest single advantage is a more sophisticated brain.

the region in the brain that connects both hemispheres was found to be 34% larger in homosexual men. weather that is true or not has been raised by a few (homophobic?) scientists, but i find it hard to believe that a single gay man would have skewed the results that far, it would only reinforce the findings - not discredit them.

gay men are not simply men, they are more of a combination of male and female, possessing a more integrated emotional, visual, and instinctual palette.

essentially a heightened awareness and a greater predilection for addiction due to pleasure sensitivity.

instead of having a male body and a female brain or other other way around, we posses many of both genders strengths and weaknesses.

gay male would have greater understanding of other mens needs as well and a greater insight to ones surroundings.

im not sure women have a female equivalent because lesbians brains are more like straight mens whereas gay mens brains are more like straight womens.

one thing you cannot dispute about homosexual males is our innate creativity and artistic abilities.

[LemonMonk]

No risk of accidental pregnancy. Men are pretty much always horny. We are amazing at sucking dick.

[sixthson]

What a gay man might consider an advantage, a straight man wouldn't.

[Scealle]

Don't need to deal with dating girls.

[MisterMajestic]

Unlimited Badass Finger snapping in the air...

[TheSpectatingLoner]

I'd say no unwanted pregnancy, but the inability to create life balances that out for me.

Getting a woman to put out is a lot more work, though. I've had plenty of straight friends talk to me about "dry spells" lasting months to a year. I can not (and will not) relate to that.

[youfiad]

Penis my friends. Penis..

[Kien]

Don't have to deal with those pesky gender roles.

[PreTTy PeTe]

Same as straight.......falling in love and getting married.

hopefully to raise a family in this new normal we are inventing.

I am so thankful that I'm gay in this day and age.

[Adrock-JD]

We can legally go into a men's room. Anywhere.

As they say in real estate: Location Location Location

[Ram]

You won't be ignored at JUB.

[Falcon16]

not having to deal with a womans bull-shit all fuckin day long

Bingo!! This is huge

[Seasoned]

Freedom to bust stereotypes.

[Audio Tech]

No Child support payments.
Not having to read a woman's mind to figure out what the hell she actually wants.
Being able to GET fucked when we feel like it!
No bose wave radio in the house. Most men like REAL stereos!
The list goes on.

[JWaggy]

not having to deal with a womans bull-shit all fuckin day long

If only to deal with your bullshit.

One advantage I'd say is that when it comes time to hook-up, it may be easier--men are fuckin' randy individuals (and when it's two men looking for sex, they don't have to try so hard).

[PreTTy PeTe]

Freedom to bust stereotypes.

we've been doing that our whole lives(some of us decades). Now these stereotypes can and will be considered normal.

the new generation now has to take the baton and run with it.

[geloge]

Some answers make me question what kind of women do you know?

[MissAnne]

That is really disgusting. Who does this ?

[MisterMajestic]

(and when it's two men looking for sex, they don't have to try so hard).

Exactly...I was an assistant manager for a Hotel way back-in-the-day and the Male guests were vulnerable and open to Gay Sex. When they're all alone in their rooms, bored & horny they will take the bait if you throw them a line....They would come to the Front Desk with their tongues hanging to the floor and drooling...."I'm horny and bored in that small room and I need to Fuck somebody"...

I think a lot of Straight & Gay couples would be surprised to know their significant other would even THINK about having sex out of town, at a hotel with the Male staff...That's not something you ever think of happening...

[-Callum-]

If your partner has the same taste/body type, you can share clothing!

Due to gender income inequality, income from two men is more than a hetero relationship!

Can go online/on an app and get laid in literally 15 minutes if you're in a city!

Penis/cum. Obviously.

[loosingyourmind]

no taboos. and, most of the time, having sex is easier.

[chrisrobin]

I guess the biggest one is no unwanted pregnancy.

From the movie Milk regarding the concept of not getting pregnant, Harvey says, "But we keep trying!"

Also, your partner might get fewer "headaches".

[Beachguyj]

You don't have to deal with women bullshit and you can go out and get anonymous sex when you want it.

[Coward92]

Don't ahve to deal with female manipulation
I can tease the shit out of people.
I can flirt with anyone openly

No risk of pregnancy.

[refujiunderground]

ron, you're funny. that pic is ridiculous.

but yeah, i would say that the benefits of being gay is that you get to feel a bit of freedom where you can pretty much do anything you want in a sense. you can wear pink shirts, purple shirts, dress up in drag, play madonna cds outloud and basically not have to worry about your manliness or manhood being questioned for whatever you chose to do. yeah, society WILL look down on you and try to say that you're NOT a man BUT forget society for a second. i think being gay just boosts your sense of courage and confidence because you're owning yourself even if it's deemed as shameful by society. it's a whole lot better than some of these cowardly guys that basically do all these stupid things to follow "man law" or "the guy code" or the "code of manhood" or "rules of masculinity". even though i am a part of the lgbt community, i still have a sense of ownership with myself where i accept my gayness as a part of me and not me being owned by my gayness.

another beneficial thing too that i think is there is that i think it's a whole lot easier to get laid and to find someone compared to being a straight guy. gay guys seem to be more open about their sexuality than straight women are. straight women are picky as hell too with everything. gay guys on the other hand, there's always a guy outthere that will date you even if you're not all that interested in them. even though it may be hard to find a date for some gay guys outthere. it's NOT impossible to find yourself a date or someone to fuck compared to a straight guy. men are not as picky as women so some point in your lifetime, YOU will eventually get a date or have sex.

[umjreon88]

Don't ahve to deal with female manipulation
I can tease the shit out of people.
I can flirt with anyone openly

No risk of pregnancy.

You forgot that there are guys who are extremely manipulative, even more so than women

I do agree with the teasing and the flirting though.

Also, we seem to have great tastes in music, and Pop culture seems to be driven by us. We are the driving force behind a lot of what people are consuming these days, especially fashion!

Men are beautiful!

[Medusa]

Exactly...I was an assistant manager for a Hotel way back-in-the-day and the Male guests were vulnerable and open to Gay Sex. When they're all alone in their rooms, bored & horny they will take the bait if you throw them a line....They would come to the Front Desk with their tongues hanging to the floor and drooling...."I'm horny and bored in that small room and I need to Fuck somebody"...

I think a lot of Straight & Gay couples would be surprised to know their significant other would even THINK about having sex out of town, at a hotel with the Male staff...That's not something you ever think of happening...

And you know what I believe you. Y'all make it seem being a MAN, and GAY is an awesome experience. I wish there were enough females here to list the awesome thing about a woman.We have our perks,too.

And some will be shocked to know that there are men out there, will have sex with a woman while she's on her period,even eat her out.

[MisterMajestic]

Male-Bonding while watching Wrestling and other Sports with Bio-Dad. He's watching the Ball while I'm watching the Butts...

And you know what I believe you. Y'all make it seem being a MAN, and GAY is an awesome experience. I wish there were enough females here to list the awesome thing about a woman.We have our perks,too.

We know how AWESOME you women are..I've dated Great ones..I was raised by a Strong Woman...She is the Queen of our family...

But you're right, we need the Females to STOP lurking on this site and post....I think they feel intimidated....

[xbuzzerx]

the biggest single advantage is a more sophisticated brain.

the region in the brain that connects both hemispheres was found to be 34% larger in homosexual men.

I want to make the slight nitpick on your post that you made this claim and then talked about how because of it we have this blend of male and female traits.... I don't think of the two hemispheres of the brain as male and female, or men and women not also using both hemispheres.

I'd say no unwanted pregnancy, but the inability to create life balances that out for me.

Getting a woman to put out is a lot more work, though. I've had plenty of straight friends talk to me about "dry spells" lasting months to a year. I can not (and will not) relate to that.

And frankly, especially if she's at all annoyed with her boyfriend or if anything is up with her mood or stress levels or self-image, a lot of women seem totally fine with no sex for long periods even when it's not a punishment per se. I've spent a lifetime hearing women say this isn't true and that they get horny just like men, but I've spent that same lifetime listening to male friends talk about how they go through prolonged periods where they're lucky to get sex twice a month or something when getting off is something guys tend to want much much more regularly.

And we can create life silly... just not with our partners, which admittedly is a big drawback, but it's not like we're eunuchs. But this is the 21st century after all.

We can legally go into a men's room. Anywhere.

As they say in real estate: Location Location Location

I'm so confused?

[xbuzzerx]

And you know what I believe you. Y'all make it seem being a MAN, and GAY is an awesome experience. I wish there were enough females here to list the awesome thing about a woman.We have our perks,too.

And some will be shocked to know that there are men out there, will have sex with a woman while she's on her period,even eat her out.

And I think Medusa that we could equally agree that being either (a gay male or a woman) has very real drawbacks in our society, too. If there were an inverse thread about what are the biggest drawbacks of being gay "chance of death from someone with a lead pipe" would be rather high on the list, sadly.

[Medusa]

[QUOTE=xbuzzerx;8603737]And I think Medusa that we could equally agree that being either (a gay male or a woman) has very real drawbacks in our society, too. If there were an inverse thread about what are the biggest drawbacks of being gay "chance of death from someone with a lead pipe" would be rather high on the list, sadly.[/QUOTE]


I can only agree with to a certain extent.Yes I do agree that both gays, and women, especially black women have their disadvantages. But there is one thing that separates gay men, and women, and that's, Visualization. People, and society can see the fact, that I AM A WOMAN, AND I AM BLACK. People may already have set their mind on what they think about me without me even opening up my mouth, or do anything. You on the other hand, may not have to face discrimination, and it's because people do not you are gay,unless you open up your mouth, and tell them so. They cannot see your gayness, like they can see my blackness, and my femaleness.

And I assume that you are white, so the world is your oyster.

[Medusa]

Male-Bonding while watching Wrestling and other Sports with Bio-Dad. He's watching the Ball while I'm watching the Butts...






We know how AWESOME you women are..I've dated Great ones..I was raised by a Strong Woman...She is the Queen of our family...

But you're right, we need the Females to STOP lurking on this site and post....I think they feel intimidated....

Maybe they are because of the way, you guys talk about men, and things. I know I am still shy, and intimidated,around here.

[xbuzzerx]

[QUOTE=Medusa;8603798]

And I think Medusa that we could equally agree that being either (a gay male or a woman) has very real drawbacks in our society, too. If there were an inverse thread about what are the biggest drawbacks of being gay "chance of death from someone with a lead pipe" would be rather high on the list, sadly.[/QUOTE]


I can only agree with to a certain extent.Yes I do agree that both gays, and women, especially black women have their disadvantages. But there is one thing that separates gay men, and women, and that's, Visualization. People, and society can see the fact, that I AM A WOMAN, AND I AM BLACK. People may already have set their mind on what they think about me without me even opening up my mouth, or do anything. You on the other hand, may not have to face discrimination, and it's because people do not you are gay,unless you open up your mouth, and tell them so. They cannot see your gayness, like they can see my blackness, and my femaleness.

And I assume that you are white, so the world is your oyster.

I totally agree with you that you can't "wake up one morning and decide not to think about gender or race" if you are a woman or a minority. That's something that too many white people don't get, for sure.

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

tourist infomantion office a closed
go ask ya mummy

thankyou

[MissAnne]

Some answers make me question what kind of women do you know?

I know. If I lived in the world that is JUB...Id be scared of girls.

[xbuzzerx]

I know. If I lived in the world that is JUB...Id be scared of girls.

I have no idea if straight guys tell female friends the same thing they'd tell another male regarding their love lives. But I would still find it hard to believe that you haven't had a guy friend or a brother or something who told you these stories about being denied sex or cold shouldered or in his male guilelessness answered a question like "how do these pants look on me.."

[MissAnne]

I have no idea if straight guys tell female friends the same thing they'd tell another male regarding their love lives. But I would still find it hard to believe that you haven't had a guy friend or a brother or something who told you these stories about being denied sex or cold shouldered or in his male guilelessness answered a question like "how do these pants look on me.."

Of course I have. I'm talking about people saying that they don't have to deal with the drama and manipulation and BS. The last time Ive checked men can have all of those.

[pat grimshaw]

That is really disgusting. Who does this ?

That's Bear Grylls.

One of the disadvantages of being gay is being surrounded by delusional fag-hags.