I would like you to show me the voting record you're going off of.
Hagel never voted on anything related to gay marriage. In fact, he was on record as being opposed to a federal amendment defining marriage. This was in light of the fact he was personally against gay marriage. As far as any other voting he has done in relation to anything gay-related, the only two votes he made were basically the same vote when he voted against adding homosexuality to the considerations for federal hate crime prosecution in 2000 and 2002. There were no votes made by him for federal anti-disrimination laws in the workplace. In fact, there are no other votes he took while in office that related at all to homosexuals. (
Here is a link to his voting record. I haven't been through all votes yet, but I have yet to find anything other than the two above mentioned votes that relate to the gay community.)
It's this lack of a trail of official acts that makes me wonder why people are portraying this guy as being some extreme homophobe when all it seems like is this guy pandering to his constituency. You haven't heard a single word out of him on any gay issues since he left office, save an apology for the remarks he made and said that he was "fully supportive of "open service" and committed to LGBT military families." You haven't even waited to hear his confirmation hearing testimony. Assuming that he was this gay-hating bigot that everyone is saying he is, he may have had a change of attitude since he left office. He is not the first public figure to have done that.
As for everything else you mentioned:
- There is no fallacy of moral relativism as the fallacy of relativism applies only to objective facts, of which morals are not considered.
- Tolerance means accepting people have different views and that they are allowed to have those views even if they don't line up with what you believe is right.
- Yes, the racists did call MLK a racists, but I've seen no scholarly source ever that has presented MLK as racist.
- I don't see blanket contempt from him towards gay people. There is almost no voting record to back this claim up. I see a politician who stated his position on several issues in order to pander to his constituency but that never turned any of that into action. I have seen a situation in which Chuck Hagel seized on a person's perceived weakness of being gay and tried to use it to disqualify him from a position that it had nothing to do with (remind you of any other situations?) In fact, if you read what transpired in that confirmation hearing, Hagel was actually very reserved in his remarks.
- While not stated directly, I am sure that anyone who has taken any position or expressed any anti-gay sentiment wouldn't be qualified in your book to be the Secretary of Defense.