Picture Paranoia

[Montebig1]

So there's this guy, the only and first guy I've ever talked to. And we are both DL. I have this thing where I really like to exchange pictures with people. Well I was immediately comfortable and trusted him so I sent him pictures often. Not so much nudes but more like pictures with my shirt off and one with a penis tease. However it takes a lot for him to send me pics... One time I sent him a pic and he didnt respond for almost a day. When he does send me pics he always says something like "sorry about the shitty picture" or something like that. Sensing that pics made him uncomfortable, I stopped sending them and asking for them in return. However one day we hung out and I found the pics that I sent saved in his phone. I looked past it though. Recently I actually asked for him to send me a dick pic and he didnt respond so I said its okay if he was uncomfortable doing so. He responded saying he would rather me see that in person... I'm having trouble understanding where this discomfort is coming from? Because im somewhat of a weirdo that sometimes gets horny and I just wants to exchange pics.

[lonnie1]

Did it ever occur to you that he is afraid his dick pic will wind up all over the internet? My advice to everyone is not to share intimate photos over the internet. They'll come back to haunt you 10 years from now.

[MattClaimer]

Not everyone is cut from the same cloth when it comes to the internet and imagery of themselves. I know the only pictures you'll ever find of me online are the ones in my profile here, and I have only ever given out but ONE of my dick - and it's not attached to my face, nor is there anything else identifiable in the picture. It's just a matter of exactly what Lonnie1 posted - I don't want personal/private pictures of me naked, or of my dick, all over the internet. Once it's there, it's there FOREVER and yes, it CAN have negative impact on you in ways you may never think of.

He's probably just being cautious, and perhaps, like myself, he just really doesn't like his picture being taken. I personally hate having my picture taken. Just a me thing.... I simply don't like it. Or maybe he's not comfortable with something about his penis? Size, shape, scar, etc. Could be any number of reasons.

Doesn't seem you're pushing him on it, but don't let it become a sore spot that ends up damaging your friendship/relationship this early on.

Just enjoy sharing your pictures with him,- and if he wants to send you pics, he will.

[Keeland]

What's DL?

[palbert]

Graphic photos on the internet are never a good idea. They can come back to haunt.

[MattClaimer]

What's DL?

DL = downlow - on the down-low. Secret, closeted, hidden, discrete, etc.

[Georgiadude]

I would have been knocking on his door in about five minutes after he said he'd show it to me in person. What are you waiting for. Get over there and see it, touch it and have all sorts of fun.

Steven.