So I got Dumped recentlyy...

[lostone89]

Just found out yesterday that the guy who I have been dating for couple of months has been seeing another guy on the side as well. It pisses me off so much because i honestly thought that we had something together; the way we were talking about future plans and such, but i guess i was wrong. Here's the kicker- we were friends on Facebook, and i have been sending him a couple of emails and text messages for a few days to make sure that he was all right. I know that he had at least seen my FB emails, because he kept updating photos and his status online. so i get home this afternoon, get online, and am greeted by the headline- "Chris is now in a relationship with..." and then a picture of the two of them together. roughly five minutes after that, he blocked me on facebook. I Was so fucking pissed when that happened; i guess he really doesn't give a shit about MY feelings. well, good riddance jackass, i hope you have a merry fucked up life, and i'll see you in Hell.

[ravenstar]

Why on Earth would you want to see him in hell?

I think you're the lucky one to find out he's a douche now rather than a couple of years in. I'm sure you know the old saying "Success is the best revenge". Don't waste your time over someone like that. Live your life and make him regret it everyday by being successful.

[GiancarloC]

Don't put much into it. I been played like that myself... and perhaps worse... my ex-boyfriend hooking up with my ex-bestfriend. Notice I said "ex-bestfriend". The world is a messed up place. There are nicer guys out there... and this one doesn't seem like one you should lose sleep over. I'm sure their "relationship" will probably last a month or two at most.

[Polydeuces]

Living Well Is the Best Revenge

Gotta drop the hate. It will only make your life miserable

[BENDERBOY]

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Facebook, meh.

[CupidBoy]

I understand, he was an immature loser, you're better off. Best of luck to you dear.

[illgetbi]

Are you sure you were dating?

[cgymike]

Facebook...more like Fadbook...in 5 years it will be gone... a la myspace...

[mark1111]

It sucks. I'm going through a rough breakup at the moment. Lose the hate is easy to say, much harder to do.

Have faith and stick in there...

A new year is only a few days away.

[illgetbi]

Facebook...more like Fadbook...in 5 years it will be gone... a la myspace...

Yes. It is known.

[Kien]

Time for an upgrade

[Ram]

Shit on his lawn and piss everywhere.

Sorry... going through a bad break-up myself. Make sure you wipe your arse with his "Welcome" mat.

[JWaggy]

It may burn now, but the dickhole did you a favor.

You dodged a douche-bag.

I hope you feel better about it all as quickly as you can. I'm sending warm thoughts your way.

[voyager1994]

An old cliche...time heals all wounds...and it always does. The new year is just around the corner - focus on how good a person you are, the good things you have done and will continue to do, and look forward to a peaceful and fulfilling year ahead. Just try your best...and all the best to you!

[Scealle]

You are better off without him. Hugs and hope you get through it.

[ronboy]

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Facebook, meh.

What Seth said.....

[menRsexii]

i dont know why it seems so many guys are assholes. just so fucked up. it makes the majority of our community look bad when these douches pull stuff like this. reminder -- there are still some good guys out there!! just gotta wade through the bullshit to find them.

[Blueboy82]

To the OP,

I feel your pain.



Some day, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else.

[rareboy]

Burn all his stuff.

Preferably in the middle of his living room.

[AlmondMilk]

I'm really sorry that you went through this. But at least it was sooner rather than later. His current "boyfriend" will see what a loser the guy is. KARMA!

[lostone89]

i'm not so much angry as hurt, i think i might have been better had i known what wa happening. but for him to just cut me off like my feelings don't exist was what caused me so much pain. I mean, we were talking about moving in together, plans for the future; and then over the span of one week this happens. oh well, i'm moving on.

Any nice good guys in North Carolina on here?

[MrRochesterNY]

Talking on Facebook or on any other social media doesn't qualify as talking, in my book. The faster Facebook and all those fads die, the better world we will have. Even writing here doesn't count as "talking," but it can be useful and fun, as long as we keep in mind that we don't really know each other, only the face we wish to present.

[lostone89]

i feel i should clarify- we were spending a lot of time together in person, facebook only became a player in the story four days ago. He told me several times TO MY FACE that he wanted to be with me, and I did the same. The thing is he thought that I wouldn't find out, that he could just dissappear and me not care.

[loveguys72]

That sucks majorly, and not in a good way. I'm really sorry things went bad, but better sooner than later, I guess. Here's hoping you find a guy who's worthy of you and treats you right.