Do you tend to like guys older than you or younger than you?

[CottonBolus]

I tend to be more attracted to guys older than me than younger than me. Recently while I was grocery shopping, I heard the song "Beauty and a beat" playing. And I was like "oh my goodness" who is this singer, he has the voice of an angel; he must be really popular. I was very surprised to find, when I came home, that it was Justin Bieber performing this song. (You know, for someone who's often labelled as "untalented", he really can sing). And then I started to listen to more of his songs, and found that I actually liked them. And imo, he's very attractive.

I googled his age and found out that he was 18, three years younger than me. I think this has to be the first time I've liked a guy younger than me. I've always found younger guys immature, and sort of babyish and unattractive.

What about you? And what are your thoughts and opinions on this?


All I need is beauty and a beat...

[M10000]

I like older guys but now Im an older guy (48 yrs) and I found thru social app that I lived near a guy who was 18 and he was a twink and I dont like twinks

There is a bit of an appeal to be mw younger guys but there is a creepy factor because I was 20 something and I didnt like when 40+ something guys approached me and noe the roles are reversed.

There is a guy who lives me and he has this nice cock that I have said "if you want a blowjob, lwet me know". Ewww, did I really just become the person I hated when I was 20 yr old? Yes.

I like guys older and younger now that Im this age.



CottonBolus,
That gif of Justin is cute. No, I am not into Justin but the altered gif is cute ;-)

[JayHawk]

I like younger guys and always have. I dunno why... always has been and always will be. the great part about age is my selection keeps getting to be a deeper bench.

[refujiunderground]

there is no age range. fell for younger and older guys... the attraction shoots aimlessly.

[G-Lexington]

No real preference in either direction. I tend to meet more younger guys than older guys, so there simply tend to be more of those who cross my path, but I don't have a thing for younger guys over older.

Lex

[diamondstar]

I prefer older with my very young age. Same time I wouldn't mind younger if they are attractive.

[reone]

I thought this was a Justin Bieber love thread in disguise for a moment there ..glad you pulled us back in. I'm twenty-one, so there are few ages below my own that I could be with legally. Regardless of that, however, I am more attracted to men several years older than myself. There are a couple of reasons, really, ranging from maturity (which I do realize does not necessarily correlate with age) as well as just the mental idea of a guy being more experienced in life. There are other guys my age that are really ambitious and know what they want, and I find that attractive in them as well. The oldest that I would date would be thirty-five or so, though I've 'talked' to guys older than that and we connected fine. I just have a fear of larger age gaps becoming a problem later in life.

[justanothershyguy]

So far I feel I've been more connected to younger guys. But then again, I look younger than I am and always have and likely always will.

[CupidBoy]

Older...23, to be exact.

[HoodedRat]

I'm 52.

I prefer guys around my own age.

Only problem is ... I never seem to meet any gay blokes of my own age who aren't desperately seeking younger guys. At least 20 years younger preferably. Sometimes it's almost as if being with someone of their own age would be tantamount to having 'failed' in the 'older gay man with the much younger trophy-boyfriend' game.

[G-Lexington]

^ Yeah, I run into that, too. I love reading personal ads that have that in them. "I am X years old (but look X-10), searching for a gay guy between the ages of (X-20) and (X-10)."

Lex

[Beachguyj]

Around my age or maybe a little younger, and a little older is fine too.

[Stoffe]

Younger guys for me.

[LatimerRd]

My age or older. My partner and I are two months apart in age. I always turn down guys who are much younger, no matter how handsome they are. Undoubtedly goes along with being a bottom.

[cgymike]

You should have posted a poll....but I prefer anything remotely alive and hard at the right time.

[medic1]

My personal choice is someone within 5-10 yrs older than me , though i have been left open-mouthed at some of the really handsome younger guys that i have seen .

[Maestoso]

I used to like guys around my age or younger but now I prefer older ones, maybe I just need someone who cares for me and not the other way round.

[glasvegas]

I like older guys because they are mature and they provide some sort of stability in terms of relationship. Younger guys tend to be wishy washy and immature. The only problem is that I find it very weird when 40++ guys wanted to date guys half of their age.

[Scealle]

Personally I prefer guys older than me as they are more mature and emotionally stable. But the things that I like about dating someone your own age / younger is that you guys can grow old together.

[Pianist]

Interestingly enough, all the guys I've been quite attracted to (since coming out) were, on average, about ten years younger than me. When I was much younger, about my age give or take three or four years either way.

[Kyanimal]

I tend to prefer Younger Guys! Hey! At 62, who can really blame me?

Even 30yr ago, I managed to snag "My Kev", who is 7yr younger than me!

At my current age, I'm not exactly my "Type"!

Then again, guys my age, or even older, depending on the guy, are not necessarily out of the question!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

[geloge]

My age range is sligthly younguer than me or older.

[Hard-up1]

I like both.

When I came out REALLLY late, a guy an entire generation younger asked me out and I dated him for a while. It was revelatory for me, but just another relationship for him. He had gotten around a bit in his young years.

Because I never dated young, I think I psychologically have more in common with young gays, despite lacking as much culturally.

But, I'm equally attracted to mature guys. There is an uber cute guy at work with a mustache, salt and pepper hair, and a personality to die for. Sadly, he's straight, married, and with kids, but he's attractive nonetheless. I'd be very happy with a mature guy if he were interested in me as well.

Men are attractive, all ages, various personalities, and different races.

[pat grimshaw]

Generally, it's easier to manipulate younger guys.

[HoodedRat]

Generally, it's easier to manipulate younger guys.

Nah ... it's easier to manipulate the old and senile.

[Just: Mills]

I'm 25, and prefer older. Never found myself really attracted to anyone under the age of 30, and don't expect I ever will do. I've always like the older/bear types since I was underage. At least I have never been a confused gay guy!

[Audio Tech]

I've always liked guys a little younger than me. But it really depends on what shape someone is in. If you are well kept, it doesn't really matter. But I cannot deny that it's a joy to look at a hot, slim, young body.

[maxpowr9]

Generally I like guys that "older" than me but not by much.

[Nishin]

Older all the way... has always been like that
Although lately I've noticed I'm not as allergic to guys my age as much as I was before
Significantly younger is still a no-no

[blublud]

Since I started puberty, I always have and still do lust after the same age or younger. When I was 21, I hooked up with a guy of 35 and found it most distasteful. I don't think I could even stay hard for him while he was sucking me.

But for a meaningful relationship, I've been attracted to my age or older but not by too much.

However, now at my age, there aren't many others around but youngers. I could live with that if only they would.

[Homothug]

I'm 26 I really prefer guys around my age but if I had to choose

Physically (to fuck) younger
Relationship wise (not that I'm a relationship person) older

Young guys from 18-22 play too many games, are full of drama and themselves. I got out of a relationship with a dude who turned 21 in September and he was the most inconsiderate, selfish most unaware person I ever dated but lord being inside his ass was like heaven so I kept the relationship going smh

Now I'm seeing a 33 year old and I don't deal with any of those issues

[eastofeden]

My rule is 10 years older or younger...it has served me well. These days...not sexually attracted to anyone under 40 but I think some of them are adorable or cute or sexy...I just would rather be a mentor than a sex partner.

[Huntneo(PT)]

older.

[TheFallenAsexual]

I like younger guys a lot, but they tend to screw me over, so I let that whole thing go and set an age cap.

I am open to older guys (like 5-8 years older). I tend to prefer smaller guys, though. Which is where I end up looking at young guys a lot. Naturally petit guys who remain that way into their late 30s? Yes, please.

[tombastep]

I tend to like older men but that of course doesn't mean I am excluding guys my age or a little younger completely.

[weinerslav]

Always preferred older guys, when I was 20's I liked guys in the 30's, now I turned 30 and I like guys near the 40's, ironically I only dated a younger guy in all my life, and we are together in the most serious relationship I could ever want...

[ronboy]

Age matters less as you get older. There is sexiness and beauty at every age. It just took me years to learn that....

[RaKroma]

Younger guys are always sexy to me. I prefer guys around 5 year range +- to my age but don't stick to strict age rules. The oldest guy I went for was 31 but I wasn't considering any age formula, just happened to like him cause he was attractive and fun to be around. As much as I find guys younger than me attractive, I hesitate to get involved with them.

[-Callum-]

My age and up.

[Illmatic]

Older only. Literally double my age, sometimes triple (Im 20 y/o)

[Kien]

Usually older.

-2 or -3 my age or +9 .

For now, at least.

[LemonMonk]

Older. Always older, 5+ years my older is great. No limit to how old, I adore silvers

[Swellegant]

Emotionally, I'm only attracted to older men (40 - 100, roughly); physically, I'm only attracted to much younger men (18 - 25): reason #263 on the list Why I Don't Date.

[jawswho]

I'm 48 and I'm dating a 21 year old. I came out late and I wouldn't rule out someone my age but that doesn't happen. I just don't seem to find anyone. I'm very lucky I still look young. Italian

[birddog7]

Younger. Not that it matters. At my age, and with my looks, younger wouldn't look at me twice...

[BENDERBOY]

^ So wrong.

I've no preference either way, whomever gets me hard.

[wanker90]

Usually like guys around my age (19-21)

[windsors]

Right now I would have to say younger, If I would like them older, I would have to dig them up...

[ravenstar]

I've never really cared about age one way or the other. The older I get, the more comfortable I get in my skin, it's the younger ones that seem to want to play the most. It's odd. Typically though. When I was younger I wanted to play, now I want a relationship and no one else does lol.

[- Some Like It Hot]

I want them to be older,but not more than few years.