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    Trying an escort

    Hi All,

    As I wanna fool around, I kinda want to try an escort for sex (or light fun at least). Would you recommend this in terms of safety?

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    Where are you located? I have hired many escorts with no safety issues. I suggest you hire from Rentboy. Some are reviewed in DaddysReviews.com. I have not hired from craigs list or backpage and would not be as confident. In places like NYC, LA, SF or Miami, the police do not hassle.
    Of course, you must always use safer sex, and I try to eliminate those who I know or suspect are HIV positive. Most on rentboy say they are "always safe", but of course you must use safer sex. Others ignore the question, and a few say "sometimes safe" or suggest they will bareback, and I avoid them.

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    I have been considering hiring someone in the DC area. Any experience there anyone?

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    what do you guys mean escort? i dont really understand

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    Quote Originally Posted by frunty07 View Post
    what do you guys mean escort? i dont really understand
    An "escort" is a polite word for a rent boy or male prostitute. An escort can be anything from a dinner date to a sex partner for the evening.

    In western countries, there are guys who can be hired for this service, even though it is illegal in many countries (and in all but one state in the US).
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    I think paying for sex is illegal in all staes, except in certain counties in Nevada brothels are licensed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benvolio View Post
    I think paying for sex is illegal in all staes, except in certain counties in Nevada brothels are licensed.
    It may be illegal but that doesn't make it wrong. Gay sex used to be illegal too, I'm sure you don't think that's wrong.

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    Well make sure you agree on price for services. They could get spendy otherwise demanding a lot more after! A bit like a taxi...agree on the price for the trip before moving off.

    (Street-wise advice only legalities not considered.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Well make sure you agree on price for services. They could get spendy otherwise demanding a lot more after! A bit like a taxi...agree on the price for the trip before moving off.

    (Street-wise advice only legalities not considered.
    Most guys who hire escorts agree on price in advance but refuse to pay until it os over. When an escort demands payment up front, it should be a warning.

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    Why pay for an escort when you could just use Grindr and play with guys for free?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kylivin View Post
    Why pay for an escort when you could just use Grindr and play with guys for free?
    I think it was Charlie Sheen who said, at his trial, "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to leave".

    I suppose when you pay for an escort, you know exactly what you want, when you want, how you want it, and how long you want it. It may not quite be true for someone you meet in Grindr or similar.

    I think Michael Douglas has a lot to answer for in the film Fatal Attraction. She did not leave. Hiring an escort would would be a lot more clear cut, he would leave when it is time for him to depart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kylivin View Post
    Why pay for an escort when you could just use Grindr and play with guys for free?
    I feel the same way really. There are so many guys out there who'd be game. Go to Gay Bars, or look around online, on the "safer" sites [e.g. hookup/dating sites], do not try Craigslist for hookups, I haven't but I have heard awful things about doing that. It's cheaper and legal too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kylivin View Post
    Why pay for an escort when you could just use Grindr and play with guys for free?
    Well, let's say you're an overweight 55 year old who has a hankering for young athletic model types. Few exceptions aside, it's going to be hard to get one for free. So you pay.

    Or you're a good looking 35 year old making six figures but working 80 hours a week. You dont have time to waste on grindr or adam4adam. You want that hot guy now and without complications or games. They pay too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LemonMonk View Post
    I feel the same way really. There are so many guys out there who'd be game. Go to Gay Bars, or look around online, on the "safer" sites [e.g. hookup/dating sites], do not try Craigslist for hookups, I haven't but I have heard awful things about doing that. It's cheaper and legal too.
    It's not always that easy. In my case, I was born with facial deformities, which while corrected through surgery, still leave me on the pretty ugly side. I've done the online thing and the gay bar thing, but little success. I've been rejected more times than I can count. Typically, the only guys who seem into me are much older men looking for "boys" to play with. While I have no problem with older men to a point, most of these men are 20+ years older than me. I want to be with guys around my age (30), but they never seem to want me.

    So, I'm considering an escort. I can get a guy around my age who knows what he is doing and as a bonus is pretty damn hot too. I'd never get a guy like this on Grindr or at a bar.

    I'm not proud of it and in an ideal world, it wouldn't have to be this way. But we don't live in an ideal world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by uconnflyer View Post

    I'm not proud of it and in an ideal world, it wouldn't have to be this way. But we don't live in an ideal world.

    I think many of us take for granted what is bestowed upon us and, forget what is easy for some is most difficult for others. I wish you good luck in finding the escort that tickles your fancy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gvillager View Post
    It may be illegal but that doesn't make it wrong. Gay sex used to be illegal too, I'm sure you don't think that's wrong.
    Yes it is wrong.
    It is not illegal without a reason.
    Gay sex illegal? Whoa, man I'm happy I'm not an american...

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    [QUOTE=Coward92;8643808]Yes it is wrong.
    It is not illegal without a reason.
    Gay sex illegal? Whoa, man I'm happy I'm not an american...[/QUOT

    Gay sex is not now illegal anywhere in the US. But paying for sex, i.e. prostitution, is illegal. That does not make it wrong. It is illegal for religious reasons. The prohibition is justified for reasons that are often the result of the prohibition,i.e. spread of disease, degredation of the female etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Yes it is wrong.
    It is not illegal without a reason.
    Gay sex illegal? Whoa, man I'm happy I'm not an american...
    Only moral reasons. The only difference between casual sex and prostitution is the exchange of money.

    Quote Originally Posted by Benvolio View Post
    Gay sex is not now illegal anywhere in the US. But paying for sex, i.e. prostitution, is illegal. That does not make it wrong. It is illegal for religious reasons. The prohibition is justified for reasons that are often the result of the prohibition,i.e. spread of disease, degredation of the female etc.
    Prostitution is legal in some Nevada counties.

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    I only did it once in Paris, France I was on a long long biz trip. He was 26 and also A Paris Policeman I spent most of my time rimming him and fucked him twice amazingly hot! Muscular 34 waist rock hard deep fucken ass. Do not normally pay for what should be free bu glad I did grin

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    Quote Originally Posted by gvillager View Post
    Only moral reasons.
    Yes. "Only"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Yes. "Only"
    Ok, what other reasons?

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    Quote Originally Posted by gvillager View Post
    Ok, what other reasons?
    What other reasons you need?
    If there is only 1 reason not to do something than I think that is already enough.

    Moral reasons for me are quite solid and important reasons. If you do something that goes against morals than you degrade yourself in your own eyes, and now you can come up with the "your morality is not my morality" bullshit, but somewhere, after a certain degree, morality is not so subjective as we'd like it to be.

    Plus, I think if someone has to pay for sex, that is pathetic in itself.
    Where is your dignity? Do you really consider yourself so shallow and uninteresting that you can't go to a bar and pick up a guy? I'm pretty certain that if you want to have sex you can do so for free. What bonus does an escort provide? Good body? So what? Everyone can have a good body. more experience? I never noticed that experience mattered in a sexual act. Presence and dedication matters.

    Theese people prey on your fears and desires, if you allow them to feed on you, you will be more vulnerable. If it is sex that you really want go and take it, but for God's sake don't you pay for that! They are not better than you are, so that you should give them tribute for the "grace" they provide for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Yes it is wrong.
    It is not illegal without a reason.
    Gay sex illegal? Whoa, man I'm happy I'm not an american...
    Quote Originally Posted by gvillager View Post
    Only moral reasons. The only difference between casual sex and prostitution is the exchange of money.
    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Yes. "Only"
    Quote Originally Posted by gvillager View Post
    Ok, what other reasons?
    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    What other reasons you need?
    Based on the tone of your previous posts I assumed that you were alluding to the collateral damage that is often associated with prostitution.

    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    If there is only 1 reason not to do something than I think that is already enough.

    Moral reasons for me are quite solid and important reasons. If you do something that goes against morals than you degrade yourself in your own eyes.
    Ok, I'll take the bait.... Whose morals are we all to abide by? Our own, yours, mine, or the conservatives? Some conservatives would argue that casual sex is morally wrong. Gay sex... some would have us put to death.

    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    and now you can come up with the "your morality is not my morality" bullshit, but somewhere, after a certain degree, morality is not so subjective as we'd like it to be.
    I've heard the same argument several times over in an attempt to denounce homosexuality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    What other reasons you need?


    Plus, I think if someone has to pay for sex, that is pathetic in itself.
    Where is your dignity? Do you really consider yourself so shallow and uninteresting that you can't go to a bar and pick up a guy? I'm pretty certain that if you want to have sex you can do so for free. What bonus does an escort provide? Good body? So what? Everyone can have a good body. more experience? I never noticed that experience mattered in a sexual act. Presence and dedication matters.

    I would imagine an older person that offers a substantial difference in terms of age that is fond of a younger man might have no other choice but to pay for such entertainment. It is quite difficult to understand why some one would choose such an option especially when many of us are not faced with rejection on a constant basis in the dating scene.

    Uconnflyer’s position really made me see things from a different perspective. As the old saying goes, “Never judge a person until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.”

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eyebrow View Post
    I would imagine an older person that offers a substantial difference in terms of age that is fond of a younger man might have no other choice but to pay for such entertainment. It is quite difficult to understand why some one would choose such an option especially when many of us are not faced with rejection on a constant basis in the dating scene.

    Uconnflyer’s position really made me see things from a different perspective. As the old saying goes, “Never judge a person until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.”
    I am sorry to say this, but I think there are plenty of young guys who are turned on by older guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    I am sorry to say this, but I think there are plenty of young guys who are turned on by older guys.
    I would imagine it is no different than a young girl that is attracted to an older man as well. Attraction to another person is not limited to age.

    One thing is certain. At least both parties (in a pay for entertainment relationship) have come to a mutual agreement. Both parties know where they stand which eliminates one of them being stringed along, filled with assumptions and, being hurt in the long run.

    While I don’t have any experience with Gay relationships, I have lots of experience with Girl relationships. I’ve found that 98% percent of the girls I’ve dated could careless about being the girl on the side once I told them upfront I had a girlfriend and explained where they would stand in the relationship within the first date.

    If you are an extremely good looking male which, attracts a lot of guys in addition to girls on a daily basis walking down the street without saying a word edgewise, you already know many are going to use you as a show piece or boy toy. So you become very selective on whom you date and raise your standards.

    If you are an older successful unattractive male you already know everyone has a price. So it is a matter of finding what that price is. It could be money for shopping, a car, a home, a trust fund, Marriage, children or all the above.

    All it takes is to find out what does the person want to give their services. Those services in which you are seeking could be sex, companionship or a combination of the two.

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    ^Reducing human relationships and emotional needs to a crude exchange won't solve anything.

    If you are ugly, shape up. If your face is terrible, you can go to plastic surgery.
    Accepting your sorry state as an unchangeable fact woN't solve anything. It won't lead to progress.

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    There are factors involved which have not been discussed. You can surf the escort sites, look at the photos, weight the merits etc, like looking through a catalog, knowing that you can enjoy any of the guys by paying for it. Shopping is a big part of the fun. For some, it is a hobby of sorts. Escorts tend to be unusually handsome guys with good bodies and dicks and who take care of themselves; go to the gym, get some tan, etc. Since they know they are exposed to disease, they are careful in that respect. You must always practice safer sex, but in reviewing the escorts you can, to some extent eliminate those who admit or appear to being positive.
    Many of the guys who hire escorts are traveling. They can review the site for the destination, choose and escort and make arrangements in advance. Your type, where you want it, when you want it.
    Some escorts are porn stars, whom you have seen in action and admired, and can see again after you have met him.
    The alternatives are hit and miss. Go to a bar, you might meet a good looking guy and you might not.
    I suggest you go to rentboy.com, scroll through the men and see if you don't find some you would like to meet. You will understand the feel of the attraction.

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    I'd never hire an escort or be a sex worker, but I also don't look down on those that participate in those types of things. We have fought far to long and have made many sacrifices to keep those critical of gay sex out of our bedrooms. We'd be hypocrites if we were to pass judgement on what other consenting adults do in their bedrooms.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    ^Reducing human relationships and emotional needs to a crude exchange won't solve anything.

    If you are ugly, shape up. If your face is terrible, you can go to plastic surgery.
    Accepting your sorry state as an unchangeable fact woN't solve anything. It won't lead to progress.
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some are willing to spend time with someone that does not meet their expectations physically. However, it is rare you will find anyone willing to stay with a person financially worst than them selves and is physically unattractive in their eyes as well.

    That applies whether you are hiring a prostitute or standing at the, alter about to get married.

    I have no experience with escorts. However, I do know a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eyebrow View Post

    However, it is rare you will find anyone willing to stay with a person financially worst than them selves and is physically unattractive in their eyes as well.

    However, I do know a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do.
    ?
    So bascially not wanting to do something right is an excuse for doing it wrong?

    We are not talking about relationships here. We are talking about hook-ups.
    Everyone can get a hookup, because you can improve your looks anytime. If you have the looks you don't have to pay for sex.
    This is double profit, because if you care for your looks you are more likely to be healthy, and if you don't waste you money on whores, you can put that cash to good places.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    ?
    So bascially not wanting to do something right is an excuse for doing it wrong?

    Everyone can get a hookup, because you can improve your looks anytime.
    Not true, trust me. I've had a lot of plastic surgery to reconstruct my face (9 surgeries from birth through adulthood) and I'm still pretty ugly. Sure, I'm better off than no surgery at all, but trust me, no one gets turned on by my looks....particularly if I'm looking for guys my own age (20-30's). I can't tell you how many times I've been told, "you're a really nice guy, but I'm just not attracted to you."

    The only interest I get is from much older men who are so desperate to sleep with anyone who is young that they'll "tolerate" my looks. While that's ok I guess, sometimes its nice to have a shot at a young, hot guy. Even if I have to pay for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by uconnflyer View Post
    Not true, trust me. I've had a lot of plastic surgery to reconstruct my face (9 surgeries from birth through adulthood) and I'm still pretty ugly. Sure, I'm better off than no surgery at all, but trust me, no one gets turned on by my looks....particularly if I'm looking for guys my own age (20-30's). I can't tell you how many times I've been told, "you're a really nice guy, but I'm just not attracted to you."

    The only interest I get is from much older men who are so desperate to sleep with anyone who is young that they'll "tolerate" my looks. While that's ok I guess, sometimes its nice to have a shot at a young, hot guy. Even if I have to pay for it.
    I am sorry :/
    When I said looks I meant the body.

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    Just a follow-up for those that might care (and I realize that may be no one), but I went through with getting an escort and I don't regret it.

    The experience was a bit surreal. I'm not used to having a young, attractive guy show up at my door and be naked in my bed in a matter of minutes. Also, the guy I selected had done porn in the past (sites many on this board are familiar with) and I actually own a few of his videos. So, it was a bit weird to have him present in the flesh and blood.

    He was really cute, but came across as being genuinely nice too (though that could have just been an act). We talked briefly before starting and it was a very pleasant and easy conversation. We moved to the bedroom and he quickly got naked...again this was a little surreal since I've never had a hot guy get naked, hop in my bed and then invite me in.

    I'll admit my own performance was not the greatest reflecting a combination of being nervous and not having a lot of experience. We had some nice foreplay (though my kissing skills are not great) and then oral. My oral skills seemed to work as he quickly got hard, so that made me feel good. While turned on, I couldn't get really hard, so I had to bottom which was fine by me though I think he prefers to bottom but listed as versatile. It was a little tough at first (as he was well above average in size), but eventually we built up a good rhythm. After we both came, we laid in bed for a little bit and chatted before he headed out. I was a bit sore for the next two days, but it was worth it.

    The only regret I would have was that I wish I was a better performer in bed. That takes practice of course which I don't have much of. The upside to a good escort is you don't really feel obligated to impress them. It's not like you're trying to have a long-term relationship. Though I kind of feel bad for him having to have sub-par sex with me, but at the same time I realize that's the choice he made given the line of work.

    Of course, there are downsides. I'm not going to pretend this was romantic, boyfriend sex. Truth be told, I could have cuddled with him for hours (before or after the sex), but that wasn't going to happen unless I forked out a lot more money which I don't have. And I'm under no illusion that this replaces a real relationship. I still intend to try and find a real relationship, though I recognize the odds are against me.

    My recommendations are as others said to go with someone that has reviews and is on the high-end side. I would stay far away from Craigslist/Backpage. My father's words were always "If you are going to do something, do it right and not half-assed." Now I'm sure he didn't have purchasing male escorts in mind when he said that , but the theory is still a sound one. Of course, safe sex is a must too.

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    I'm glad to hear that you had a good experience.

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    Good to know things went relatively well for you, and that you felt it was money well spent.

    It is definitely good to know you are fully aware you what was going on, and that you have not lulled yourself into some illusion from which you could not/would not escape. Nothing like having both feet firmly planted on the ground and enjoying the moment for what it was.

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    Sounds great. Your future meetings with him or other escorts, and others, will be better, because you will be less uncertain and self conscious. Hopefully, the nervousness in anticipation will never go away. Waiting for him to show up is part of the fun, like waiting to open Christmas presents. One caution would be to avoid expecting too much perfection as you choose and call for an escort. The descriptions and photos are often exaggerated, so if you allow for that you are less likely to be disappointed. When you find one you really like, continue to hire him. You will become acquainted and more comfortable with each other. The next one you choose may not be as good.

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    You're a long time dead. We spend most of our waking hours working. Use your money for something that gives you pleasure. I've never gone to an escort, so I not in much of a position to give advice. As with a romantic relationship, or a fuck bud situation or causal hook-up, go into the experience with your eyes open and without illusions about the nature of the relationship. You never know, relationships change. Sometimes hook-ups, and even a sex for pay relationship, evolves into something different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benvolio View Post
    Sounds great. Your future meetings with him or other escorts, and others, will be better, because you will be less uncertain and self conscious. Hopefully, the nervousness in anticipation will never go away. Waiting for him to show up is part of the fun, like waiting to open Christmas presents. One caution would be to avoid expecting too much perfection as you choose and call for an escort. The descriptions and photos are often exaggerated, so if you allow for that you are less likely to be disappointed. When you find one you really like, continue to hire him. You will become acquainted and more comfortable with each other. The next one you choose may not be as good.
    Thanks for the feedback. I'll probably always be self conscious, just given the nature of who I am, how I've grown up and my appearance. It's funny you mention Christmas presents. I think if I do this again, I would have him wait to get naked to allow me to slowly "unwrap my gift." He got naked so quickly, it was a bit of a shock. I'll admit that I did want to ask him, what he thought of me. Was I even remotely attractive to him? Did he enjoy the sex at all? I didn't ask these questions as I don't think they are appropriate and I might not like the answer anyway.

    I agree with you on managing expectations. I had very low expectations coming in. In fact, I was more worried he might turn out to be a socio-path that robbed me, murdered me or got me arrested. I was pleasantly surprised that he seemed to be a very normal and easy-going guy. I did request that he send recent pics, since it was obvious from his profile that he was using some photos that were a bit dated. He sent recent photos and sure enough, he didn't look exactly like his "professional" porn photos. He was a bit twinkish in his porn days, but now had put on some weight (some muscle and some fat). Funny enough though, when he showed up at my front door, he was actually cuter than expected. His recent photos didn't do him justice.

    Not sure if I'll see him again. He's not local to my home town (he was just visiting), so it would require travel. I don't plan on seeing another escort right away. It's not something I want to become a regular habit. Maybe just a treat every once in a while to help me cope with life....kind of like Christmas only slightly more often.

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