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    horrible social anxiety

    I have terrible social anxiety and i hate when people look at me. Im also gay. Ugly straight men have called me ugly before, and one friend who calls me "stud" scanned me with a supermarket self checkout hand scanner and said "you have aids!" i used to drink alot and like to pick up men. I've had total strangers suck my dick (in an alleyway and parking structure, park ect) give me a rim, ect all while drunk/buzzed. if im not drunk i have no confidence to approach anyone ever. someone said to me "you look really pretty tonight"... "you're gonna take it pretty boy" ect, but i think i am the ugliest human being that has ever walked the earth. what is wrong with me? people have said i am not attractive before

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    Okay.

    Welcome back.

    You need real psychiatric counselling to unravel the issues that you seem to have with yourself and the world around you.

    If indeed you have extreme social anxiety, I suspect that psychotherapy and medication will be needed to remove the fear and loathing that you have.

    Good luck.

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    Quote Originally Posted by nachocheez View Post
    I have terrible social anxiety and i hate when people look at me. Im also gay. Ugly straight men have called me ugly before, and one friend who calls me "stud" scanned me with a supermarket self checkout hand scanner and said "you have aids!" i used to drink alot and like to pick up men. I've had total strangers suck my dick (in an alleyway and parking structure, park ect) give me a rim, ect all while drunk/buzzed. if im not drunk i have no confidence to approach anyone ever. someone said to me "you look really pretty tonight"... "you're gonna take it pretty boy" ect, but i think i am the ugliest human being that has ever walked the earth. what is wrong with me? people have said i am not attractive before
    If total strangers sucked your dick and rim you, i don't think you are ugly.


    NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    Have you thought that maybe you suffer from dysmorphophobia? Many people who suffer from it see themselves as grotesquely misshapen and ugly, but can engage both in sporadic and long term relationships without any problems, for the most part. Some even do so to find validation. I think that psychiatric help and some form of analogue therapy, as Rareboy has said, would be the best option for you.

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
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    You need real psychiatric counselling to unravel the issues that you seem to have with yourself and the world around you.

    If indeed you have extreme social anxiety, I suspect that psychotherapy and medication will be needed to remove the fear and loathing that you have.

    Good luck.
    What rareboy said.

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    wow so i should stop medicating with alcohol and go see a psychiatrist and get on meds? i could check myself into the psych ward also to get help

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    Quote Originally Posted by nachocheez View Post
    wow so i should stop medicating with alcohol and go see a psychiatrist and get on meds? i could check myself into the psych ward also to get help
    You are not medicating with alcohol. You are avoiding the issues causing your anxiety.

    A mental health professional will determine if you need "the psych ward." Probably not.

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    You are not the first or last guy who has self esteem issues, thinks he is ugly or turns to alcohol to manage things that bother you. I doubt you have any severe psychological conditions, at least it doesn't appear so in your description. Your best bet is to seek some counseling to help you better cope with your insecurities about yourself.

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    lets see a pic of you.

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    by default world so a call >societys is a horrible loons insane warts of a sumthang fa eons

    say a sumthang fa apes put it up fa eons

    so cheer up

    thankyou
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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    Quote Originally Posted by nachocheez View Post
    wow so i should stop medicating with alcohol and go see a psychiatrist and get on meds? i could check myself into the psych ward also to get help
    To be blunt. Yes.

    Based on your posts, I would definitely say that you should lay off the alcohol, seek some counselling and take your medications as prescribed. If you think that checking yourself into a psych ward would do you some good, you are not going to get any argument here.
    Last edited by rareboy; December 18th, 2012 at 05:11 AM.

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    So you're really hot, guys come on to you and have sex with you, but you don't really think so, and so you drink.

    Do you want to change? Or is this life good enough?

    Lex

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    Re: horrible social anxiety

    Quote Originally Posted by johaninsc View Post
    good to see goodbadenergy/ nachocheez is back


    I guess I should go and check the other sites to see how many versions of this story you've got going

    ...and how many user names you're using


    I do do (sic) seem to recall coming across an "I'm ugly" type of thread when I was doing some digging over your "is he gay?" thread
    So, what you're implying is that this person is the unfunny version of ElroyAuto?

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    ^^I think he's trolled about every popular gay forum there is (and then some) LOL

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    johaninsc -- Yep, I remember coming across some form of the "I'm ugly" thread too

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