No MOre Dude

[mikey_boy234]

So this guy that i was talking to since March has turned out to be a total bust
we talked daily for the 7 months and then when I was nice enough to go and pick him up and bring him to see and spend time with me I thought itd be all good, but then his mom decided that she needed to take him home and he didnt even say goodbye to me

Its been almost a month and I havent heard from him so do you guys think that if he calls me again should i ignore him or listen to what he has to say

[Gimmecat]

He sounds like a mama's boy to me.

[Ram]

Have you called him to find out?

[BENDERBOY]

If you've been calling and he's been ignoring you for a month, move on.

[mikey3000]

Or call his mom.

[medic1]

So this guy that i was talking to since March has turned out to be a total bust
we talked daily for the 7 months and then when I was nice enough to go and pick him up and bring him to see and spend time with me I thought itd be all good, but then his mom decided that she needed to take him home and he didnt even say goodbye to me

Its been almost a month and I havent heard from him so do you guys think that if he calls me again should i ignore him or listen to what he has to say

Are you telling us everything ?
Just find it a bit strange that you both spoke but never met for 7 months and then you go and get him and his mum comes and takes him home again.......................

[Nishin]

So this guy that i was talking to since March has turned out to be a total bust
we talked daily for the 7 months and then when I was nice enough to go and pick him up and bring him to see and spend time with me I thought itd be all good, but then his mom decided that she needed to take him home and he didnt even say goodbye to me

Its been almost a month and I havent heard from him so do you guys think that if he calls me again should i ignore him or listen to what he has to say

How old is he ???

[rareboy]

Well Duh................

[Telstra]

Are you telling us everything ?
Just find it a bit strange that you both spoke but never met for 7 months and then you go and get him and his mum comes and takes him home again.......................

Don't think so.
Sounds like a hookup thing.
Bring him home for fun, take him home to mum, he never want to chat again ...

[HunterM]

Are you telling us everything ?
Just find it a bit strange that you both spoke but never met for 7 months and then you go and get him and his mum comes and takes him home again.......................

Yes, his mum did come to take him home. Back to the mothership he went. His investigation with earthlings has ended.

To the OP, send a Mars Rover to contact him.

[mikey_boy234]

Don't think so.
Sounds like a hookup thing.
Bring him home for fun, take him home to mum, he never want to chat again ...

Actually we never hooked up, we were gonna, but then the day we were supposed to thats when she took him back

[mikey_boy234]

How old is he ???

he is 24, and im 26 but i guess it just wasn't meant to be

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Yes, his mum did come to take him home. Back to the mothership he went. His investigation with earthlings has ended.

To the OP, send a Mars Rover to contact him.

lol... maybe i should

[mikey_boy234]

Are you telling us everything ?
Just find it a bit strange that you both spoke but never met for 7 months and then you go and get him and his mum comes and takes him home again.......................

we dont own cars so it was hard to get there and back. Actually it was me and a friend that went to get him

[cgymike]

Next! sooooooooooooooo next that's what he is....

[medic1]

we dont own cars so it was hard to get there and back. Actually it was me and a friend that went to get him

OK .
Makes a bit more sense now , the problem sounds like a controlling mother who may still have problems handling the fact that her wee lad is in reality gay .

Why waste your time with this , they are plenty more guy`s out there .

[rareboy]

OK.

You're not getting it. So let me spell it out.

His mother came and got him because he probably texted or called her to come and pick him up.

He hasn't called you because he has no further interest in you.

Everything clear now? Move on. Find someone within walking distance.

[MrRochesterNY]

OK.

You're not getting it. So let me spell it out.

His mother came and got him because he probably texted or called her to come and pick him up.

He hasn't called you because he has no further interest in you.

I agree with rareboy here. That was my thought, as soon as you said neither of you had cars. "MOM, COME AND GET ME"!!!

[Blueboy82]

To the OP,

I can sort of relate to how you feel.


Sometimes, I wish I'm straight because most of the men I encountered in my life turn out to be jerks, douchebags.

I had my fair share of dealing with horrible nasty women too...... but it seems like women in general are more friendly, nicer than most men out there.

[mikey_boy234]

OK .
Makes a bit more sense now , the problem sounds like a controlling mother who may still have problems handling the fact that her wee lad is in reality gay .

Why waste your time with this , they are plenty more guy`s out there .

yeah i know there are many guys out there.. Thats why im noving on and looking for friends

[mikey_boy234]

I agree with rareboy here. That was my thought, as soon as you said neither of you had cars. "MOM, COME AND GET ME"!!!

actually he was staying at his moms house

[eastofeden]

OK.

You're not getting it. So let me spell it out.

His mother came and got him because he probably texted or called her to come and pick him up.

He hasn't called you because he has no further interest in you.

Everything clear now? Move on. Find someone within walking distance.

That is what I was thinking when I read it a few days ago...and I wasn't gonna say anything...but since you did....I think your assessment is spot on.