Do You Need a hand!

[ibill1]

As some of you guys know, I was in a long relationship and recently started getting out there again after 35 yrs. Most of the guys I have hooked up with since my partners demise are unable to achieve a climax from a BJ unless either my hand or their hand is involved. Steve and I were both able to get off from getting a good BJ with no hands involved. I'm not saying anything is wrong with this, it is just strange to me. I've had guys I've hooked up with giving me good head and telling them I'm going to blow and they seem surprised because there is no hand action. I love getting head. I sit back and enjoy it and then ask my guy if he wants it and thats it. I need no stimulation from my hand or his.

Recently, a guy told me it was rare for him to give head and not have to use his hand or his partners hand to get him to shoot his load.

My question is simple.

Can you get a BJ and enjoy it and shoot your load when both of you are ready without being jacked-off to achieve your climax?

[sixthson]

I can cum with just his mouth, but I like his hands on my cock and balls.

[mikey3000]

I can and do cum hands free. I actually enjoy it if they take their time and do it right.

[ozguy]

.... Can you get a BJ and enjoy it and shoot your load when both of you are ready without being jacked-off to achieve your climax?

Yep, and it's even more explosive & enjoyable for me if my partner finger fucks me at the same time.

[Hard-up1]

I'm sorry to report that I don't know.

It has often come to my attention that most porn stars are apparently unable, as the ones I watch, to a man, seem to be forced to come to climax by masturbation. Of course, that could be an artifact of the age of condoms, and the need to show the ejaculation in some more appealing way that in a condom.

[glasvegas]

I can't. My cock is insensitive. I need a lot of stimulation to cum and I have problems with guys because I took a long time to cum and they couldn't hold it anymore, sometimes the hook up ends with them leaving and I did not have an orgasm.

[Anders123]

My main issue with oral sex is actually oversensitivity. I'm thankful that I prefer sex to be slow and sensual, as being on the receiving end of too much suction tends to be overwhelming and not pleasurable.

Oral that is soft and slow can be heaven though, with or without hands. With the right kind of guy I would have no trouble at all reaching climax.

[Pianist]

Given that I have trust, performance, and anxiety issues when I'm with someone I MUCH prefer "entertaining" myself as there's no stress that way.

[Harke the Boeotarch]

It has happened to me, but not often. Some men just have superior cocksucking skill.