As some of you guys know, I was in a long relationship and recently started getting out there again after 35 yrs. Most of the guys I have hooked up with since my partners demise are unable to achieve a climax from a BJ unless either my hand or their hand is involved. Steve and I were both able to get off from getting a good BJ with no hands involved. I'm not saying anything is wrong with this, it is just strange to me. I've had guys I've hooked up with giving me good head and telling them I'm going to blow and they seem surprised because there is no hand action. I love getting head. I sit back and enjoy it and then ask my guy if he wants it and thats it. I need no stimulation from my hand or his.
Recently, a guy told me it was rare for him to give head and not have to use his hand or his partners hand to get him to shoot his load.
My question is simple.
Can you get a BJ and enjoy it and shoot your load when both of you are ready without being jacked-off to achieve your climax?