When's the last time you were blatantly hit on by a guy?

[wanker90]

I'm looking forward to reading some interesting stories here, because I don't think I've ever been hit on (by a guy) in my entire life. I only tend to attract quiet Asian girls.

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Last night. Tonight it will happen again, I'm sure.

[Nishin]

A couple colleagues at the office, which is embarrassing, I never know how to respond/react to these things ...

[oakpope]

Last night. Tonight it will happen again, I'm sure.

But you're so sexy on batteries (mouhaha I'm so funny. In French. Sorry).
To the OP : never by a man. Couple of time by girls, poor them.

[refujiunderground]

does okcupid count?

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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[birddog7]

I don't know that I've ever been hit on by anyone in my life...

[MissAnne]

I got hit on a couple of weeks ago.

I wish that I could get hit on by a few quiet Asian girls, like you.

Women dont usually approach me unless Im at some type of LGBT event and even then, a lot of people still think that Im straight.

[JayHawk]

20 minutes ago at Petsmart.....

[JP.]

At starbucks..that twink barista giving me wink every 10 secs when he explained the menu

[umjreon88]

It's been months since I last got hit on... and it's by a sleazy old man. Geez, how hard is it to tell that I don't have Daddy issues?!

[cgymike]

I can't recall- too old I guess. If it happened now I would suspect it! Like some young guy just wanting my wallet or whatever shit...

[72-Jay]

As far as I know I've never been hit on by a guy.

That said, even if I was hit on I probably wouldn't even notice...unless they were really blatant about it

[weinerslav]

As far as I know I've never been hit on by a guy.

That said, even if I was hit on I probably wouldn't even notice...unless they were really blatant about it

I also never notice that (someone always as to point it to me), but last weekend I did!!

Saturday I was dragged to a dark bar because of a meeting of femme fatales (lesbians?) and a concert that my friend wanted to see (yeah she really wanted to check the girls), somewhere near the end of the concert I was smiling of a joke someone told, I was smiling and looking to the band (no one in particular), and the guy playing guitar smiled back at me and kept looking at me and smiling until they leave the stage... After that he just kept passing near me and smiling like a weirdo, it was... different, and even if he was kind of cute, the grin made him look absolutely insane!

[HoodedRat]

1979.

[Wcw10891]

i dont think it has ever happened, but im really oblivious to things like that, because on more than one occasion at work, ill help a customer and i think they are just nice, and then my co worker will come back to me "omg he was so hitting on you"

idk if thats real or not, but im really bad at picking up signs and stuff,

[Audio Tech]

I wouldn't notice if ANYONE hit on me until they pull down my zipper.

There was this girl once.... and that was about it in my life.

[ryanboy]

A few years ago I was in the dentist's chair and the dentist commented that I had beautiful eyes. The lame ass that I am thought he was just being nice. It wasn't until I got home that I suspected he was hitting on me. It never happened again or anything similar.

[aaronxp]

Almost 5 years ago at a pet store, a really cute guy, curly long hair with the most beautiful green eyes, stocky built, he followed me through the store and then we chatted for like an hour and let me hold the puppies, he asked for my e-mail, we had sex the next night and it was ok; He had a girlfriend.

It was the last time I had sex.

[Ram]

I think the wheel was being invented....

[AWP82]

As far as I know, about a month or two ago. Nothing came of it, though (and I'm cool with that).

Otherwise, I'm the oblivious type. I don't pick up on things like that unless they're obvious.

[Huntneo(PT)]

a year or so ago by a guy I kinda work with. I told him I'm partnered, but he was still persistent for the longest time. Sorry, bud...you're too late.

[Huntneo(PT)]

1979.

oh, sweetie. I wasn't even born then.

I'm sure someone has tried to get your attention, and you didn't notice it.

[glasvegas]

A few weeks ago, this guy came into my shop started to talk to me like we are buds, and I served him for a bit and left when he said he's gonna have a look at it. After a few mins, he came up to me and said thank you for my help and wish me a good holiday. I suspected he saw my Grindr or Jack'd profile.

[The White Stripe]

Finding a gay in the Wasteland of North Texas is difficult as it is, and finding one that is bold enough to hit on another guy is even rarer. I think a kid hit on me at work a few years ago, but he was technically underage, and I was not about to open up that can of worms.

[TheFallenAsexual]

I'm looking forward to reading some interesting stories here, because I don't think I've ever been hit on (by a guy) in my entire life. I only tend to attract quiet Asian girls.

Yea, if I were a quiet Asian girl, I'd totally be sweet on you. Or even if I were some loud Black guy on the other wise of the internet.

That was you being blatantly hit on, btw. Check the "does my butt look big" thread for further instances of this.

Moving on, I can't really recall. I know I have been, but it's always forgettable. I think the combination of people not always sure of my sexuality and the fact that they see me as maybe an aggressive type that I don't get hit on much. If anything, I get a smile and then the ball is suddenly in my court. I'm led into making the first move vs someone actually hitting on me. Not to mention that in the gay world, things can be so sexual so fast. In place of a witty way to actually "hit on" someone is often just the cruisy "fuck me" eyes staring for a response.

All too often, the ones with the gentlemanly manners to hit on me are the ones way out of my preferred age range. Old guys hit on me a lot, and certainly make up the group of folks that have done it blatantly.

[reone]

I'd be curious to know where gay guys get hit on the most (so I know where to spend my weekends from now on ). I've been hit on by more females than males, which sucks for obvious reasons. The last time a guy hit on me just out in public was well over a year ago , excluding meeting online or guys making remarks while being on a date. I don't know if I frequent places where it'd be considered appropriate enough, but I don't know if people really even care about that these days.

[BENDERBOY]

The last time anyone hit on me, it was a girl, it didn't dawn on me until i was out of the shop that that was why she was blatantly staring at me.

The last time a guy blatantly hit on me was a few weeks ago in a club, when a guy just stood in front of me, backed into my crotch and started grinding, a good night was had by all

[Huntneo(PT)]

You know...come to think of it, I've never really been 'hit on' aside from bars, clubs, etc...and that one time with the guy I worked with. But even then...it was after he'd seen me outside of the building. No random places like malls, supermarkets, etc.

guess I'm too ugly.

[Anders123]

Women tend to hit on me occasionally, but it saddens me to say that men never do. There have been more than a few times where a guy has been extra nice and chatty, but I just chalk it up to kindness or a jovial personality. It's possible that they were just being subtle for fear of my being straight and/or homophobic.

I was looking online at a rainbow paracord bracelet that I quite liked. I might wear it around and see if men respond to me differently, although honestly I suspect there just aren't that many guys who find me attractive enough to approach.

We'll see, I suppose.

[DigitalFudge]

Earlier today

[wanker90]

Yea, if I were a quiet Asian girl, I'd totally be sweet on you. Or even if I were some loud Black guy on the other wise of the internet.

That was you being blatantly hit on, btw. Check the "does my butt look big" thread for further instances of this.

Moving on, I can't really recall. I know I have been, but it's always forgettable. I think the combination of people not always sure of my sexuality and the fact that they see me as maybe an aggressive type that I don't get hit on much. If anything, I get a smile and then the ball is suddenly in my court. I'm led into making the first move vs someone actually hitting on me. Not to mention that in the gay world, things can be so sexual so fast. In place of a witty way to actually "hit on" someone is often just the cruisy "fuck me" eyes staring for a response.

All too often, the ones with the gentlemanly manners to hit on me are the ones way out of my preferred age range. Old guys hit on me a lot, and certainly make up the group of folks that have done it blatantly.

Aww, thanks dude! You're so freaking charming haha. But, yeah, it's hard to tell if a guy is hitting on you or just being nice. Don't wanna read into things.

[Huntneo(PT)]

I'm betting some people are confusing 'blatantly hit on' with some guy just gazing at them for an indefinite period of time.

[Pianist]

That I can remember, when I was treating myself to a drink on my 50th birthday... seven years ago.

[CupidBoy]

Never. Get hit on by girls all the time though, I'm not really out in clubs or anything so that's probably why.

[ravenstar]

I can't remember to be honest

[Sausy]

Four years ago at a gay dance club in Austin....but the guy WAS drunk! Then again, it was more of a brief ogling.

[AshyPhoenix]

Right after I broke up with my boyfriend.

[Scealle]

2 years ago by a bi guy from my college. I was so shy and embarrassed I don't know how to react. I was flushing the entire time when it happened. No more encounters after that sadly. I wish a gay guy would hit on me though It'd probably be a bit different.

[holeconfusion]

I think it was in a quiet restroom at the mall a few years ago.

This guy at the urinal started stroking his huge penis and I was staring.

But I had to go to a meeting and his penis was an odd color so nothing happened.

[HoodedRat]

... his penis was an odd color ...

Blue?
Green?
Orange?

Come on, we need the full facts here.

[holeconfusion]

Blue?
Green?
Orange?

Come on, we need the full facts here.

I honestly looked purplish and not in a healthy way. I've never seen anything like it since, and that's saying something with the internet.
But it was also large. If only I had had more time to investigate.

[youngnihilist]

subtly, probably pretty often, and that goes for all of you too, but most of the time we either dont notice or second guess. for me blatantly, a couple weeks ago by a homeless guy in his 50s who asked for my number. sigh.

[G-Lexington]

30 hours ago.

Lex

[Kyanimal]

By a guy (in person, not over the net)? Just last week. By a female? Yesterday.

Getting "hit on" has been something I've had to tolerate all my life. And, unfortunately, the vast majority of the time it's been by someone I wouldn't consider "hitting on" myself.

I've often found it uncomfortable. Though it's quite flattering, I generally try to demur, and get away from them, without an actual rejection, since I don't want to hurt their feelings. On a very few occasions, they wouldn't take "no" for an answer, and I had to get rude. I do regret those times.

These days, though, at my age, I find it rather amusing, even "Funny" in some circumstances, and do my best to make light of it. Of course, it's even more of an "Ego Boost" NOW, butt still something I'd rather not have to cope with, even though I still appreciate it.

When was the last time I "hit on" a Guy? Ask Huntneo about last night!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

[backagain]

About 2 years ago is the one that reminds me of the best.
A friend invited me to a fund raiser at a gay bar.
The event was at Halloween for AIDS funding.

Some guy(cute) kept coming up to me and kept feeling my ass.
I ignored it all through the night.
I was there for the fund raiser.

At the end of the night, the guy asked for my number.


I gave the guy the wrong number.
Just because the guy was rather attractive, I wasn't going there.
And besides I was involved with someone else.

My friend was pissed.
My friend was into hookups and was jealous.

[accord98]

I'm so oblivious to that kind of stuff. It would probably take someone to actually say "hey I'm hitting on you" for me to realize I was being hit on.

[evanrick]

its never really that blatant but i work with the public so i do get guys who will talk to me about stuff just to talk to me.

[DigitalFudge]

Never.

The lies

[bobobo]

Apparently working in a bookstore is a great way to get hit on, since I don't see myself as anyone's prize. Several women hit on me which is funny 'cause when I was young and confused, I would have loved it, but most girls wouldn't even look at me.

Two men hit on me blatantly at work. One called me at work and asked if I remembered his buying a book, How to Give the Perfect Blowjob. I vaguely did, but only because he was staring at me during the whole transaction. (I thought he was daring me to say something about his book choice.) At any rate, he said he wanted to learn how to be an expert and would I please be his teacher. He'd been practicing on cucumbers. I declined.

The second time was creepy. The guy, who seemed to be stuck in the seventies--perm, open-neck flowered shirt, chains on his hairy chest--kept insisting that he knew me, at one point running his hand across my shoulders and back. (Yech!) I actually shivered. After I made it clear that I wasn't interested, he sat on the floor in one of the aisles for a few hours and gazed at me every time I walked by.

When I told my boss about it and described him, she laughed and said, "Isn't that always the case?"