Coping With A Small Penis...

[birddog7]

Your cock is NOT small .

The way you are talking, we would all think you are this big. THIS guy has something to complain about http://postimage.org/image/sxz8qsm3n/

What does this guy have to complain about? A big, muscular guy with an average penis? So what? Big, tall, and or muscular guys don't always have a large penis by genetic designation. Some do, some don't, like all the rest of us.

I hope this post was just trolling this thread, and it's OP. If you are serious about this post, I take offense to it myself. If that guy has a reason to complain about penis size, so do I. I'm at the lower end of the average range myself. It either matters, or it doesn't. All this double talk crap is just plain offensive, and I'm a bit tired of it...

[M10000]

Is it liquidish?

Is it pus exuded by a small infection? (My dentist tells me small internal infections aren't uncommon.)

Perhaps it's old semen trapped and forgotten in the skin folds?

It is not pus, or an infection. I can see how you could think that. Next time it grows, Ill take video!!!
If I remove it, it grows back. If I leave it, it just stays there.

I saw my mom and she was good about this topic.
She said I cried alot during my circumcision (sp) [yes, Im cut because I cant spell that word ;-] . . . the stitches ripped and he did another circumcision. I asked if she noticed it when I was a little boy, she said no.

I guess Ill show my doctor next. I do wonder what it is. I can say "Im a grower" lol
Yes, Im making self inflicted cock jokes ;-)

Birddog,
I know I have given you some flack about your penis, but I am glad you have spoken up and I am glad that you are mad about it. Thats exactly how I thought you would react. "Fallen is complaining about this"

[Laufey]

If you are shy about sharing a picture you could just photoshop it so we can see the structure of it without it being an actual picture.

[cgymike]

^Your size is less than 25cm???

[TheFallenAsexual]

You are repeating yourself now.

You are judged by your dick because you place yourself in the dick market.

You mean Gay America? Yea, no fucking shit.

A lot of guys here are in the "dick market" without even trying. They just don't know they are, because their dick isn't small enough to get so commonly rejected.

[TheFallenAsexual]

I tried that line on him in other threads. quickly dismissed.

It's just funny because this isn't about sex exclusively. This isn't about being a good lover. It's about not being a disappointment, not failing to measure up. This is also about what I look like when I look at myself in a bedroom alone. It's about when a dick is so nice, the urge someone else has to put it in their mouth doesn't have to do with the fact that you have a nice personality. All those "it's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean"-esque lines are just ... compensation tactics.

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I think that everyone who responds to this thread is being played.

It isn't about skinny dick.

It is about the number of pages the number of posts and the number of views.

Otherwise, the OP would have shut up about it now and just booked the surgery.

Jesus.

The easiest way to fix this problem? Stop replying to the thread. There are a number of posters who I wish would've a few pages ago.

[GamerBear]

It's just funny because this isn't about sex exclusively. This isn't about being a good lover. It's about not being a disappointment, not failing to measure up. This is also about what I look like when I look at myself in a bedroom alone. All those "it's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean"-esque lines are just ... compensation tactics.

Trouble with that is if its not the dick that is a disappointment it's something else. Like people have mention before if you get the surgery and if you go back out into dating or having sex with someone and they no longer find your dick a disappointment but something else on your body, what then?

I always learned that if one guy is fine with my dick they will always find something else to hate about me, like maybe my chubby weight, my hairy body, my hairy ass or even looking too old.

[TheFallenAsexual]

They find something else a disappointment? Then they can go fuck themselves. My body--despite its flaws--is pretty damn awesome.

My dick, however, is inexcusable.

Sorry. I know you guys are trying to make me into this person looking for anything to hate about myself (and yes, on a really really bad day I can get there). But this dick thing is something that is 100% true all the time, no matter my mood. It's the thinnest one around at all times, and that annoys me. I want something approaching average. Nothing crazy. But something that measures up.

Once again, this isn't just about what others think, this is (more importantly) what I think of myself. I hate my penis. Period.

[TheFallenAsexual]

Music Interlude.

[Laufey]

This is how a 7" x 3.9" penis looks like.



Is it close to how yours looks like? (length and girth, not shape)

[M10000]

Laufey,
His cock is posted. Go back and read the last page and follow the link. There's no need to photoshop. In fact, I morphed his cock so he could have an idea of what it might be like. But it was a small photo - the photo was small - so there is only so much you can do. I sent him the resuts.

(And no one please provide the link. I hate when people dont do things them selves)

[Laufey]

Oops I guess I missed that one.

His cock looks yummy. I honestly don't see a problem there.

[TheFallenAsexual]

It's thinner than virtually every guy I've ever hooked up with and pales in comparison to others' expectations. That's the problem.

[Laufey]

It's still yummy.

I actually prefer it over mine although my girth is 5.6".

[TheFallenAsexual]

For the record, I've no idea where this 7 number came from. I'd prefer to have a nice girth that does disappoint others more often than not.

[Laufey]

Majority of the time they tell you they are disappointed or do you just assume it?

[-Callum-]

I tried that line on him in other threads. quickly dismissed.

Pretty much...don't need a monster cock to hit all the right buttons. If we all needed one, the average wouldn't be around 6. Obviously!

I'm 7 and happy, a little thicker than above though.

[GamerBear]

So I finally saw the thread where he posts his picture of his dick. I am disappointed that you consider it small, come back here and complain when you ACTUALLY have a small dick other wise you are one of the people I mention who complain about their 7 inch cocks being small.

[GamerBear]

(And no one please provide the link. I hate when people dont do things them selves)

Your link didn't exactly direct it to his picture, since I don't have 100 posts on one page option I had to go to the thread and look for the three posts he made on that thread.

[Huntneo(PT)]

^ lol yeah. Says the person who went out of his way to post videos into a thread from a page I linked members to a while back.

Consistency, dear m10000.

[GamerBear]

^ lol yeah. Says the person who went out of his way to post videos into a thread from a page I linked members to a while back.

Consistency, dear m10000.

I couldn't find it because of all the fighting and complaining about someone's huge dick who thinks its small. I'm so fucking pissed off and feel stupid for not understanding it. This feels like a troll thread and I'm dumb to believe this guy's dick was REALLY small like a lot of members under 4 inches.

[stickorock]

I have a small penis - used to hate as I was teased and ridiculed at school and it made my life a misery - pehaps not suicidal, but v depressed. Strangely that it now my fetish and I like flaunting and and then being teased because it is inadequate. Work that one all you psychologists

[birddog7]

I couldn't find it because of all the fighting and complaining about someone's huge dick who thinks its small. I'm so fucking pissed off and feel stupid for not understanding it. This feels like a troll thread and I'm dumb to believe this guy's dick was REALLY small like a lot of members under 4 inches.

I agree. I finally found his photos, and I think he's as big or bigger flaccid, than I am erect. He doesn't need penis enlargement surgery. He needs brain enlargement surgery...

Yeah, this kind of crap angers me, I can't help it.

[TheFallenAsexual]

I couldn't find it because of all the fighting and complaining about someone's huge dick who thinks its small. I'm so fucking pissed off and feel stupid for not understanding it. This feels like a troll thread and I'm dumb to believe this guy's dick was REALLY small like a lot of members under 4 inches.

Penises are not one-dimensional. I've seen penises of 5 or smaller in length that were still bigger than mine.

Understand also that I noted early on that frustrations come from heightened expectations due to my race. If I were white, I'd likely be a bit more content as expectations from others would not be as high. As it is now, white men show interest in me because they think I'll be hub--Black men expect me to be hung as most of us are.

[M10000]

Your link didn't exactly direct it to his picture, since I don't have 100 posts on one page option I had to go to the thread and look for the three posts he made on that thread.

Gamerbear,
My comment was to not help the person who now admits they overlooked the link, which is fine. But I hate when someone does the work for them - I admit it, Ive done it - and will help the person when they could do it for themselves.

Huntneo,
Oops, it the words of Mr. Erkel, "did I do that?". Sorry.

[Ram]

This thread has many similarities to the Andreus thread. In that thread, we are too busy talking about a person not exisitng and in this thread, we are too busy talking about a problem not worth existing.

[xbuzzerx]

Penises are not one-dimensional. I've seen penises of 5 or smaller in length that were still bigger than mine.

Understand also that I noted early on that frustrations come from heightened expectations due to my race. If I were white, I'd likely be a bit more content as expectations from others would not be as high. As it is now, white men show interest in me because they think I'll be hub--Black men expect me to be hung as most of us are.

Serious question-- do you try to fulfill every cliche/stereotype expectation of "your race" as far as you seem to go with your penis?

[CupidBoy]

This thread has many similarities to the Andreus thread. In that thread, we are too busy talking about a person not exisitng and in this thread, we are too busy talking about a problem not worth existing.

I just had an 'a-ha' moment.

[TheFallenAsexual]

Problem not worth existing, eh? I wish the guys who I slept with saw it as such.

[TheFallenAsexual]

Serious question-- do you try to fulfill every cliche/stereotype expectation of "your race" as far as you seem to go with your penis?

I don't try to fill every expectation at all. Dunno why you would get that from this one particular gripe. But yes, I'd like to measure up to other men of my race. Other men in my community, in my family, etc. Don't see why that would be odd.

For the record, I've yet to meet anyone of ANY race with thinner equipment and I'm smaller than a majority of men amongst all races.

[xbuzzerx]

Problem not worth existing, eh? I wish the guys who I slept with saw it as such.

Do they even seriously SAY anything about it? All I'd seen so far in this thread was that the problem was entirely on your end, that you FEEL it's smaller than every other one you see and particularly for "your race", if you mentioned guys actually having a problem with it verbally I missed it.

[TheFallenAsexual]

Guys have definitely criticized my girth. I mentioned earlier a guy who said "Awwww...a Black guy with a little dick. That sucks."

In cruisy situations, guys have grabbed it, laughed, and kept moving. I've gotten looks of disappointment very often as well.

[Ram]

Don't sleep with them?

[xbuzzerx]

Guys have definitely criticized my girth. I mentioned earlier a guy who said "Awwww...a Black guy with a little dick. That sucks."

In cruisy situations, guys have grabbed it, laughed, and kept moving. I've gotten looks of disappointment very often as well.

I've had guys grab my butt in S.F., laugh, and keep going. I didn't assume that meant they were making fun of my butt.

[GamerBear]

Size queens are every where including this site, you'll always run into them.

[TheFallenAsexual]

It doesn't take a size queen to reject someone who is ridiculously small. These guys don't necessarily want huge. They want something not laughable.

Birddog, I'm confident we're the same size. You're much girthier than I. We're rather close in cubic inches.

[GamerBear]

Ridiculously small? No, I think you are bigger than birddog. The both of you guys don't have small dicks though.

[TheFallenAsexual]

Correction: small. Only the girth is ridiculous.

Pretty much...don't need a monster cock to hit all the right buttons. If we all needed one, the average wouldn't be around 6. Obviously!

I'm 7 and happy, a little thicker than above though.

You sound like you have what I want. I don't want a "monster."

[Laufey]

How many guys have either laughed or told you that it's small and how many have you slept with?

[rareboy]

Jesus Fucking Wept

Just get the fucking implant already.

I can't believe that that one person after another bothers to reassure someone who doesn't want reassurance and to give advice to someone who doesn't want advice.

The only purpose of this thread is to see how many posters will keep arguing and admitting that they don't measure up compared to the OP.

Yes OP we get it.

Your cock is a joke. Your sex life is miserable.

Honest to God I agree with you. Your penis is skinny.

Just go out and get it fixed.

As for everyone else? Your cocks are just fine. You should want to validated for your character over your cock size or shape.

[AlmondMilk]

So I finally found the pics. I didn't realize they were on another thread.

Dude. It looks fine.

I don't know. I just measured my girth, and it's just about 4" and my dick is 4.5". I don't know. Maybe you're just looking at the wrong places to hook up with guys? There MUST be guys out there that would be happy for some play. Seriously, you're full on sexy. That smirk, that body, AND that cock. If all else fails, I'm not too far from Brooklyn

[TheFallenAsexual]

Jesus Fucking Wept

Just get the fucking implant already.

I can't believe that that one person after another bothers to reassure someone who doesn't want reassurance and to give advice to someone who doesn't want advice.

The only purpose of this thread is to see how many posters will keep arguing and admitting that they don't measure up compared to the OP.

Yes OP we get it.

Your cock is a joke. Your sex life is miserable.

Honest to God I agree with you. Your penis is skinny.

Just go out and get it fixed.

As for everyone else? Your cocks are just fine. You should want to validated for your character over your cock size or shape.

Once again, no one is begging you to read this thread. It kills me that it bothers you so much that others choose to talk to me. Specifically given that you can't relate to me, it's humorous that you think you have the audacity to come at me like this as if you know what my experiences are like.

But hey, the funny world we live in. First you're bullied for having a small cock. Then you're bullied for actually caring.

Rareboy, please use the ignore button for me. You clearly aren't missing much.

[M10000]

Fallen,
You are insulting. Birddog is not anyway near where you are. I have all the photos of him and you.There's no comparison.

Birddog,
I have sent you a side by side comparison of Mr Big and your cock. I hope you will post it to show how clearly delusional Fallen is and extremely insulting by comparing your cock to his cock.


Im sorry I said "I think this thread has flopped and I bumped it back onto page 1"



Fallen,
you need to find virgin asses who will be relieved to see you are narrow.

[Laufey]

Personally I like penises in all shapes and sizes (well except micro-penises).

I'm very attracted to his dick being so long and thin at the same time, it gives it a special shape. I think adding something fake to it (so it's not all real manhood) will take away some of the charm. Just like a lot of men aren't into fake boobs it's just less talked about.

Although he might be happy with the results I have a feeling he will be disappointed when he realizes it didn't magically change his self-image and confidence.

Fallen I think you should go ahead with this. Although I think you will probably regret it at least by then you have tried it and can move on.

[TheFallenAsexual]

m1000, I'm not insulting anyone. You are judging penis by length only. I'd kill to have girth like his, and we're likely around even in terms of actual size when you consider he's much thicker.

[TheFallenAsexual]

Although he might be happy with the results I have a feeling he will be disappointed when he realizes it didn't magically change his self-image and confidence.

And how will someone who was born with something I want even know this? That's what's funny to me. This thread has been nonstop lecturing of people who can not relate on how I should feel.

[Laufey]

Your penis is much longer than mine and I don't feel the need to make it longer.

We live in a society where people care much more about length than girth.

Let us know when you have set a date for the surgery.

[TheFallenAsexual]

Your penis is likely of average length.

Mine is of the thinnest I have ever seen in person.

Key difference.

[rareboy]

It is. I think we all agree.

How much longer do you need to keep asserting this fact?

[TheFallenAsexual]

I will keep asserting this fact when folks imply that their average-length is somehow comparable to my way-blow-average girth.

Fucking DUH!